I am such a giving person, why do people hate me?
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A student of mine lives in the same town as I do and for a while he used to drive me around to do errands.
Then I realized that it made him feel entitled to insult me on calls, so I put an end to that arrangement.
That was about two months ago.
He sent me a few emails offering rides, etc.
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More on paradigms and paradigm shifts plus my example on my paradigm regarding money
The word paradigm is really nondescript, non-definitive.
It is much like saying that someone is wearing glasses. Some glasses come in different colors, sunglasses, prescription glasses, and then there are glasses that are solid with holes in them, to train the eye to fill in the gaps in information.
If your glasses are colored blue, you won’t be able to see blue after a while. Just like water doesn’t exist for the fish, blue won’t exist for you.
The glasses act as filters. Filters allow certain things to pass through, other things won’t be able to make it through. There, the mind, will fill in the gaps in information,just like with the training glasses.
Now, where is this useful knowledge?
First off, it is useful, in my humble opinion, to understand that you read and hear a lot of useful information, that simply doesn’t reach you.
I have a list of affirmations in front of me. the list is from the weekend, the Millionaire Mind Intensive.
There were 2,500 people at my Millionaire Mind weekend. The weekend was fun. I hitched a ride with a friend. She didn’t have that much fun.
When we got back, I promptly started on my 90-day workbook: it had simple exercises for each day.
There was another event on an investment club that I returned to New York (I live 275 miles from NY City). I got there an hour early. I decided to hang out and talk to people as they arrived.
I asked every person I had a chance to talk to if they did the exercises. No one I spoke with did.
>In those 30 days I increased my net worth 13,000 dollars. Others had no results.
Why did I act on the information and why didn’t others?
The answer is simple if you look through the lens of paradigms.
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What Attitude That Is Most Missing For You To Succeed?
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I got an email from a reader today, one of many such emails:
“Hi Sophie, I listened to your video but I didn’t get the answer or find solution to my struggles in life! I am wondering, yes as you said, why I am not transformed in-spite of learning so many methods from attending seminars and reading books! I came from a broken family I tried to change my life but sometimes my life was up but mostly down!
Financially I struggle, bankrupt and thinking to end my life. . . But when I hear your story, I did not and I am now almost 5 years searching for answers? I have read the Bible many times from cover to end and everyday, I received emails trying to sell me self-improvement books but I am fed up, nothing works! I would appreciate if you can help me!”
So what can you answer to someone who has been struggling and considering suicide a viable alternative?
One major distinction I need to teach to all my readers, students, a distinction that if you don’t learn it, you’ll miss everything.
The distinction is called: Where are you listening from?
The from is the operative word here. It is your base attitude consistent with your “grounds of being”.
We each are embedded in a paradigm. The insides and the walls of our paradigm are built from our belief system. Your paradigm has everything that you need to stay the same, and nothing to be more successful that you are, happier than you are, thinner, richer, more entertaining, more attractive than you are.
Your current life is exactly what’s possible inside your current paradigm.
When you look at someone who has what you crave, you can be 100% sure that they live in a different paradigm with beliefs that can’t be found in yours.
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Why isn’t your life changing, in spite of all you do
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I have written articles about witnessing, but this is a new (to me) aspect of it, and I consider it my duty to share it.
Why? Because of all the people that I know, only a tiny fragment of them has the habit of witnessing.
What is the principle?
Without witnessing nothing happens.
And I might add, nothing intended happens. Nothing new… Now, is this a rule? Is this really a happening phenomenon?
Happening means that even a Martian with no knowledge of human society, could observe it.
No, it is more in the domain of occurring.
Given that your life’s experience (and your actions) are consistent with the occurring world, even if something happened, it would not make much of a difference for you.
What is the occurring world?
Occurring world is an expression that includes that we have no direct relationship with reality since the introduction and subsequent dominance of the mind.
When you look at a flower, you don’t experience the flower, there is a buffer between you and the flower made by words, made by recognition.
Anything that you don’t recognize doesn’t exist in reality for you.
The famous example from the movie ‘What the bleep do we know?’ when the first Spanish ships arrived to the coast of what we now call America, the natives could not see them. They saw the ripples in the water, but they could not see ships. They hadn’t seen sails, or anything on the water the size of a Santa Maria.
By the time they realized that people were embarking into row-boats, it was too late to put up a really big defense.
I have arguments with really knowledgeable people about water. The more they ‘know’ the less they can see what’s in front of them as real. People experience the taste change of the Energy Water, but their mind can’t wrap their minds around it, so they need to deny it.
So, Occurring World is what happens plus what your mind says about it. If the mind says nothing, then, as far as you are concerned, nothing happened.
Why would the mind say nothing? Because the mind is a stupid computer. Unless you tell it otherwise, it just recycles old useless information.
Example:
My chiropractor friend whose car accident and subsequent treatment impaired his ability to perform his job without pain to his hands. He is a chiropractor, and you would think that he would know better.
His hand and wrist hurts, and I offered to give him distant healing.
I told him to do it at a set time, so he can witness it.
What happens in a healing session like this?
I sit down and connect. I feel his body, his emotions, and I just sit and experience being him.
Then I download the Heaven on Earth, the Energizer, and a few of the stronger Intelligent Energies I like to use in healing.
I closely observe what each download reveals. Each release a layer of resistance, a layer of tension, and in about five minutes I always manage to get to a picture of what is fundamentally off, dislocated, sprained, overstretched, etc.
The cause of the pain is almost never the same place where it hurts: the pain is the effect. Some of the real causes of pain are in his neck, shoulder, elbow, or carpal tunnel.
He hurt his wrist in the car accident, those ‘sources’ are the result of his body trying to protect the injured wrist.
I checked the wrist: there is nothing to protect there. There is a little nick in the bone on the hand… and his wrist protector creates an unnatural environment in which his whole body, his whole being is coming from memory.
No one is there to witness how it is, in the Occurring World what’s happening is meeting the stupid computer’s 6 month old ‘diagnosis.’ The mind’s.
Now, why is this important?
In my work I do what it takes to cause permanent change in people’s lives. I download activators that activate capacities, feelings, inner relationships.
I teach people to connect to Source, to operate as an orchestra directed by the Self instead of being a biological machine at the mercy of the Dark Side and its representative.
I have created energy products that can assist anyone to control their health and emotional well-being with the inevitable fallout: being successful in life, relationships and business.
But there is a caveat: Unless you have the capacity (or the humility) to witness what is happening, it is not happening for you.
Even people who have the capacity have a difficult time to witness.
Why? Because we are undisciplined. Our attention goes where our mind goes, and as I have said, the mind is a stupid reaction machine.
You need to do what you can to take back your control over your attention.
Take it back from other people, take it back from advertising, email, text messages, TV, noise, the weather, news, media, gossip, and the list goes on. It will take some time, but it is possible.
Claim ownership and wield your attention, instead of what’s happening for most people: the tail is wagging the dog.
In my drill calls, at this point 3 times a week, you can start learning the ropes.
The skills you learn on those calls are the foundation for the new type of human: the human that takes control and lives as a magnificent creator: this is what humans were meant to become.
You can participate in the drill calls for free. No obligation to stay in, nothing to buy.
It is my gift to you. My self-serving interest is to create people who when they get an activator, it sticks. When they use my energy products, they start to blossom. When they buy my Effortless Abundance products they become abundant effortlessly.
Our purpose is aligned, that is what you want… right? You spend the money, the time, you want to result.
The missing piece is witnessing. Reliably and powerfully.
Something interesting happened on my way to the top…
Warning: this article is written in a stream of consciousness way… and I am unwilling to rewrite it to prose… Let’s see if you can follow me to the rabbit hole… lol
Last week was quite uneventful, as far as drama goes.
No “attacks” from the Dark Side, no big drama anywhere. Things were flowing.
My new book, Effortless Abundance is drawing good reviews, and I am writing the sequel.
We’ve made a major discovery: a missing piece no one suspected, to raising your vibration.
Until last night.
There is this marketing master I have befriended. Our whole relationship has been going on quite public, and I didn’t care. Then he sent my a private email, and sent me one of his ebooks he sells for money.
At first I didn’t want to read it. Then I read it, but was very uncomfortable with it.
It felt like this guy is condescending to me.
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Your Dark Side is the time you spend in your mind… Amazing video
If you read my last article, you saw that I was offering a buy 1 get 1 free on my Heaven on Earth and my Mini Energizer products. Normal. Nothing special…
Except 10 minutes after I pushed the publish button I got an email from a student of mine saying that she never felt anything taking the Heaven on Earth and the Mini Energizers didn’t do anything for her either.
Really bad news. Until yesterday I never heard anyone complain, instead I have gotten a lot of raving testimonials and thank you notes.
What could be the reason nothing works for this student and what could I do to change that?
I was connecting and connecting and connecting to Source to get some answer, but I could see no clarity.
So today, instead of doing the scheduled drill on the drill call, I did a conversation with a group of ten students to get to the bottom of it.
What is being revealed on this call is amazing, creates a whole new way to look at what we are doing here.
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Abundance: where do you look to decide if you have it? A revolutionary thought.
Most people look in their mind.
The mind is an organ that is unsuited to answer a question like this.
One of the major moves of the mind is comparison. After all it’s a computer. Is A bigger than B? The mind is perfectly capable of comparing those. What it never does, and therefore YOU mind-person never do, is ask the question: is that a relevant measure? Will the comparison of A and B show me a relevant picture?
If the mind or you asked that question, EVER!, you’d find that most of the questions that the mind asks are irrelevant AND are suggested by the DARK SIDE.
What am I calling Dark Side here? People? Entities? Government?
I am calling Dark Side the phenomenon that was started by a few people. The purpose of the phenomenon is to take you out of the present where you can be in touch with your origin, your magnificence, your creator nature, the Earth, nature, your Self.
Take you out for what? For their own monetary and political aspirations.
I am reading a book and I am fascinated and appalled at the same time.
It talks about advertising, scientific advertising, as habit-forming and habit-exploiting moves on the masses.
It can create addictions, exploit addictions.
I am in a bind. I have a product, the Heaven on Earth, and I want people to buy more of it. Why? Because it is good for them.
So when I read that book, the part where it talks about how they sold Febreze, an air freshener, I had an insight.
Just like them, I have been doing it all wrong.
Febreze, originally, had no smell. It was a clear odorless liquid that you could spray on anything and it would absorb all kinds of odors into itself, kitchen, grease, smoke, skunk (lol), cat urine, wet dog… you name it.
The product didn’t sell. People didn’t want to fix those smells. Why? Beats me, I guess they were used to it. Considered it a part of life to stink… lol.
When the marketing research people visited the people that got sample bottles of Febreze, it was always in the back of some closet.
The marketeers went back to work. They were desperately looking for cue and reward, what is the basic of hooking someone on something.
Example: Some 40 years ago I was depressed. Nothing special, but I was more depressed than usual. The doctor of the office I worked at prescribed shots for me. I got my first, and the next one was scheduled for 10 am the next morning.
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For You Everything Is The Same As Everything Else
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For You Everything Is The Same As Everything Else, Except That Not Always
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Have Effortless Abundance
Sounds like an oxymoron, right?
After all unless you inherited your fortune or still live in the 4-star service environment of the womb… there is no such a thing… at least most of us don’t know about it.
I surely didn’t set out with that goal: creating effortless abundance.
Neither effortless nor abundance is part of my upbringing.
In fact I grew up to work hard (effort) and do not waste.
We were poor for a while, and my father never forgot that. But somehow, I became a hoarder.
I got beaten for it, but it didn’t stop me from doing it: hoarded the newspaper, the TV magazine, my mother’s manicure set… whatever I used, I wanted to own it, have instant unlimited access to it.
I lived in lack. It wasn’t real, but it was as real as if I were starving: it was my reality.
I wanted everything. I wanted to taste everything too… so I tasted and purged.
I was very protective of my time too: I would go to sleep around the time my parents left work, sleep through dinner and TV, and get up after they went to bed, to do my school work.
Sharing? No way.
I kept checks and balances and was very sensitive to be always around a balance: another scarcity tactic.
I didn’t have the goal to have abundance, and I didn’t have the goal to have an effortless life.
I remember 1987: just after the big stock market crash in October I lost my freelance job as an architect. I just bought a car, and spent all my savings on that. I was literally penniless.
I was let go between two sessions of a seminar called “More Money Workshop”
It taught that there is nothing missing unless you say so. 1 Hm, that was really new to me. I started to practice not saying so… I never considered changing my mind, I was really hellbent on surviving this unemployment phase without my mind going with it.
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