Become all you can become by raising yourself higher on the Tree of Life

My Thanksgiving Gift to women. Why them? Read on…

I was watching, a TV series on Netflix. My preferred genre is crime and crime fighting. This series is called White Collar. The main character is a charming, charismatic, good looking, intelligent young man.

After seeing almost three whole seasons’ worth, I looked up the cast on google. Found out that our guy is gay. I was surprised because I didn’t see any signs of gayness, which are, typically (my personal experience) being attention seeking, catty, gossipy, disloyal, etc. Continue reading “My Thanksgiving Gift to women. Why them? Read on…”

The Hamster Wheel of You Are Never Good Enough. Had Enough?

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Unconditional Love, Hamster Wheel, You Are Never Good Enough. Had Enough?

The gurus talk about unconditional love. I correct myself: they preach about unconditional love.

They pretend. Pius speak.

A few years ago I was invited to a gathering that devotees of a guru gave to celebrate whatever they were celebrating. Can’t remember what it was…

I went because I was curious. I am not a guru follower. Have never been. Continue reading “The Hamster Wheel of You Are Never Good Enough. Had Enough?”

What does your laughter mean? What does your laughter do?

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There are two kinds of laughter. Depending on what predominates, you are a happy person or an unhappy person. You have peace or you have turbulence.

The two kinds of laughs are

derisive laugh = Mocking; jeering.
benevolent laugh: the laughter of recognition

There is always a price. We are looking at laughter by the criterion: who pays the price.
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The Self, the spinal wave, intention, will, responsibility

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The Unconditional Love Activator is a simple activator. If you can allow it to work on you, it can silence the crew that is protesting. It can silence the ‘Precious I’ who you consider yourself to be, and allow the two selves to connect.

So what happens when you, who you consider yourself to be, and your Self, the core, the empty space connect?

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The purpose of the Reality Challenge is to find your Self

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If you ever tried to meditate. If you are a ‘meditator’. And if the idea of meditation brings up bile to your throat… like for me.

OK who else? Oh, those who couldn’t give a shriveled nut for the idea of mediation… so all people…

The only thing meditation wants you to do is to look within. You spend almost all your life looking outward, and have no idea about what is inside. Continue reading “The purpose of the Reality Challenge is to find your Self”

Coming from vs Going to: you’ve always been going to

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Summary: from the comments and email I am getting it is clear that the concept of starting with HAPPY is totally inconceivable to most of you. In my response to a comment I managed to express the essence of it: It is like the skin color you have, it is part of you.

In the ‘HAPPY’ I advocate, where you start with HAPPY, stay HAPPY, end HAPPY.

It’s not a result. It is who you are.

You do what needs to get done to grow, and you are HAPPY while doing it. You are not ‘happy’ to do it, that would be something else again. You are HAPPY, just like you don’t change your skin color according to the type of task you do in life. You stay white, or pink, or yellow, or black… whatever you started with.

It is as if you said ‘I am white’ if you were born white. And then you live according to that.’ Continue reading “Coming from vs Going to: you’ve always been going to”

What do you expect? Perfection? Winning? No mistakes?

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What do you expect? Perfection? Winning every time? Never making a mistake?

I caught myself this morning saying something really intelligent. (probably because of the movie I watched last night)

I always learn marketing. So I just participated in a 3-day event… I have three things I want to implement. Three things that I just learned at this event. The event that ended last night.

Of course, most of the things I learned will replace my ineffective marketing actions from before the event.

And there is a moment of reckoning:

I have been doing it all wrong. And I have spent a lot of money advertising the wrong way. I have been doing a lot of work that is now all wasted.

Sinking feeling in the stomach.
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Who do you like? Who do you love? Who is the one loving?

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Or here is another question for you: Who are you?

If you asked back: What do you mean? you did the smart thing. Because the question: who are you? can be asked from so many vantage points, we can spend hours exploring that. Continue reading “Who do you like? Who do you love? Who is the one loving?”

Rules of engagement on the horizontal plane

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I like French movies. For the most part they are off-kilter, and not obvious. Which means that French movies normally don’t come from the mind. And that means they don’t often come from the horizontal plane.

But, from time to time, ‘they’ slip through a movie that sides with the societal conspiracy, the conspiracy to enslave you. Continue reading “Rules of engagement on the horizontal plane”

How to avoid feeling like a victim though it feels true?

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How do you avoid feeling like a victim and take responsibility when clearly something was done to you?

Summary: Lifesaving method of taking back your power from anything or anyone, including yourself. It removes judgment, it removes blame, and returns you to living powerfully

I don’t have a lot of opportunities to practice this, but it is clearly needed. When I teach responsibility from the height of ‘I got this handled’ no one seems to be getting it.

So here is my opportunity to teach it from the trenches, as I am going through the struggle myself.

Here is what happened:
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