Become all you can become by raising yourself higher on the Tree of Life

How to turn your life around under any circumstances

…or how should you go from where you are to where you want to be, emotionally, in your health, wealth, love, and happiness.

I just ended my core group training, and as it seems I now have some energy to coach.

Instantly three ‘associates’ called, on the same day, and I accepted all three for some friendly coaching: just for the fun of it.

Who or what kind of people are people I like to coach: Continue reading “How to turn your life around under any circumstances”

You are what you repeatedly do. The path of least resistance

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You are what you repeatedly do. The path of least resistance

What you repeatedly do because it is the path of least resistance is called habits.

And just like water will not willingly flow uphill… habits, what you do, is difficult to change.

And yet… we want a different life. We want to feel differently about ourselves. And we want a different body, different work, different relationships. Continue reading “You are what you repeatedly do. The path of least resistance”

If your practicing doesn’t increase anything…

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Ever tried? Ever failed? No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better.

The most important insights I am getting through this virus attack disaster on my sites have nothing to do with my sites.

What I am getting is probably way more important for everyone.

When you are too busy with something that occupies all your attention all the time… then creativity, inspiration, self-awareness… all the things that are vital to having a good life, being powerful, being the captain, are suffering.

You can’t put all your power into the thing you are doing, because every crew member, every thought, every urge wants to take you out of that one thing. Continue reading “If your practicing doesn’t increase anything…”

The gap… let’s see how to use it to move forward, upward

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Yesterday I had a huge whatever it is you call when you end up with cream on your face… cream from a cream pie.

I had been dismayed that my clients aren’t getting the gap, and therefore they don’t present me with real coaching opportunities.

I am intentionally writing this in a self-deprecating way, because I am, I have been humbled.

How? I said: it is easy…

…and then wanted to think of an example, and could not.

WTF? Continue reading “The gap… let’s see how to use it to move forward, upward”

Worldviews: Tree of Knowledge winning over the Tree of Life?

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Your worldview is invisible to you. It’s like the floor you walk on… the foundation of your life.

You need to understand that your dislike of certain people makes you a moron if you also decide that THEREFORE what they say must be stupid…

Or you like how someone looks, and therefore they must be smart. Ugh. Continue reading “Worldviews: Tree of Knowledge winning over the Tree of Life?”

What’s your security blanket? That keeps you anchored

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My younger brother, is six years my junior. So I was able to observe him growing up.

His first word was khao… the name of his security blanket. Tattered, pink and blue… and he never let it go until he was 10. Blanket is takaro in Hungarian…

He also had code words for other things. My older brother, Gyuri was duyi, and I was uyi… Make sense, right? It is not what other people call things that is their name, it is what YOU call them. Continue reading “What’s your security blanket? That keeps you anchored”

The Tiny Steps Approach To Life, aka trimtabbing or Kaizen

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Warning: the biggest learning is in the PS!

I could make enemies with this article. But don’t worry: I won’t, unless by accident.

The success or business gurus, whose business will suffer if you follow this path, aren’t in the habit of checking what people say about the stuff they teach. They are so sure they got you, hook, line and sinker, that they will never suspect that they lost you to some other theory of success.

And they will be right. Continue reading “The Tiny Steps Approach To Life, aka trimtabbing or Kaizen”

The hamster method to win. It makes you a winner

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Do you want to be a winner? or you prefer winning every argument, every task, everything? Both? OK. Use winner and winning like two walls the hamster uses to climb to the top.

With it, in no time you’ll become someone who wins consistently, and a winner

When I was in my last two years in high school, I did all my school work between 11 pm and 4 am. I got up when my parents went to bed, and the house got quiet.

The King David method… by the way. The way King David lived and worked.

My brother had a hamster… Continue reading “The hamster method to win. It makes you a winner”

The cost of believing in the power of mind

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You are supposedly the peak of evolution… and you supposedly have a brilliant tool: your thinking brain. But when you only use it to do mind-functions, remembering and recalling, you use only 1-3% of its power… and you are a slave. Unless you have the courage to learn to use your brain correctly… you’ll remain a slave.

A famous physics professor, one day, was shaking his head.

‘I can’t teach them physics the way I learned physics’ he complained.

I interview students for my graduate program, and they are all, almost all, unable to think for themselves.

When they show up for the interview, I ask them: Why are you wearing the suit jacket you are wearing?
Continue reading “The cost of believing in the power of mind”

I can tell by the look in your eyes you’ve been hurting

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I can tell by the look in your eyes you’ve been hurting.

You’ve been wanting to be the best you can be, and you can’t. You always hit a snag here, a snag there… And it looks hopeless.

You are ashamed of yourself. You try to hide, but it doesn’t help. Because you know.

You feel like an impostor… But you are normal.

Humans aren’t built to be all good. Humans can improve, correct what there is to correct, to a certain degree, but not all through.

Why? Because, and don’t believe a word I say, the human soul, originally, was built to be 100% selfish, care only about receiving… care only about pleasure… that has been the design.

What the heck am I talking about?

I am talking about Kabbalah‘s version of the birth of the Universe and humanity with it. Continue reading “I can tell by the look in your eyes you’ve been hurting”