Become all you can become with Sophie
He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
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How true is your truth? Do you or your teachers have theory induced blindness? the world is still flat as far as human behavior is concerned…
This article is about the inner workings of a human… that if you get it wrong, the price you pay for the error is your life.
Continue reading “How true is your truth? Have theory induced blindness?”
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How do you develop yourself to be able to move forward? To grow?
Many of my coaching students are at a crucial point in their lives where unless something happens, they probably won’t move forward.
Fear, unclarity, self-centeredness, belligerence…
The main attitude is different for each person. Not one person resembles another in what seems to block their path.
A perfect example of the Anna Karenina Principle: a deficiency in any one of a number of factors dooms an endeavor to failure. All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way
Continue reading “Self-trust… a linchpin capacity… can you develop it?”
Remembering the Future…This methodology is revolutionary… but let’s not get ahead of ourselves…
What future? What remembering? What can it do? What is self-trust? Is it the same as self-esteem?
Continue reading “Remembering the future… or how to cause self-trust?”
As I unlock more and more abilities for people, as more and more abilities get activated, I am starting to see something new emerge.
When one ability is suddenly available, like The Sight, other abilities that were already there can now be expressed.
Expression is the technical term for DNA capacities… The DNA is there, but it is not expressed.
It’s a lot like this: to assemble a piece of furniture, you need tools and not just one tool.
Continue reading “Self-trust… do you earn it or do you just have it?”
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Some days my work is to work through issues that you, my dear reader, especially students and clients will need, so you can keep your capacities I activated active.
One of these capacities is self-trust.
Self trust is not like confidence. It doesn’t say (add soothing eerie voice here) ‘You can do it.’ That is probably a lie.
No, it says something different. It says: ‘you can handle it‘. Namely, whatever happens to you, you can handle it. Good, bad, indifferent, you can handle it.
The ‘job’ of the capacity is to make you unstoppable. To allow you to take the actions you need to take so you can get where you need to get, without being stopped by the fear of the unknown… Stopped by what will, what may happen after the action.
But what is the range of what you can handle? Is it everything, or you are going to pick and choose what you can handle, and you are going to be stopped, again, by every thought of the aftermath.
Continue reading “Activating self-trust, activating generosity…”
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Can’t trust? Don’t trust? It hinders you in life?
If it were obvious everybody would be doing it…
Everyone is blocked in some way… we are all different, unique, and yet… stretching can keep everyone flexible… in spite of our differences.
And so is with capacities…
I didn’t go directly for any capacity. I didn’t know about DNA and activation, I just knew the lack of capacity intimately, kinesthetically. Continue reading “If lack of self-trust hinders you…”
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What do your emotions and behavior hide?
Your behaviors, your feelings and emotions are the tip of the iceberg, hiding the below water part, your attitudes. Your attitude to anything…
Here is the exercise: Close your eyes and imagine a bowl of cherries in front of you. It’s all for you. No competition. Or a box of chocolates if that fits you better.
You reach out and take a cherry, or whatever you have in front of you.
The underlying attitude shows clearly on your behavior.
Continue reading “What a one minute exercise reveals about you?”
Money is like a capacity… Whatever you have more of, you’ll get more of. Misery, stupidity, mistakes… or money, happiness, success…
Money is a means… a means to get more… and so are capacities… spiritual, DNA, epigenetic capacities.
One way you can see this is that the rich gets richer, the poor gets poorer… but how? but why?
This phenomenon is visibly true in every area of life, not just money, not just love. This sentence, from the New Testament, is true…
“I tell you that to everyone who has, more shall be given, but from the one who does not have, even what he does have shall be taken away.”
As I am doing my work to take a group of people to become human beings… I see it clearly in my work. People don’t grasp principles… they only grasp tricks and strategies. Continue reading “The rich get richer the poor get poorer the sick get sicker”
I see this time and time again: if and when you need it, there is a triple amount of chance that you will actually do what you need to do to learn it, engage with it, read it… do it.
Triple is still small for most people… but it is, hell, three times more than you would do if you just wanted it. 1
Want what? Growing, practice, spiritual capacities, healing, courses, coaching… transformation, living on the vertical plane, in reality, where nothing is wrong. That is what I “sell”…
I have been struggling to get through to this one client to be able to support him in using and keeping the activation of the capacity “causing.” Causing your life, to own what belongs to you, to own what you are doing, what you are feeling, even what you are NOT feeling.
Causing is a very high capacity, dependent on your capacity to own what you can own. What belongs to you.
I can feel that most of the time he is on his computer, reading articles. Continue reading “Do you want it just in case, or is it just in time? Updated”
There are, in my experience, three thinking brains, at least potentially, in every human…
The first thinking brain
The first thinking brain, the mind, that is in cahoots, in collusion with the selfish gene, works against you. That is what creates a life of reactivity, full of fear, full of anxiety, full of sharp turns and devastating jerks. I’ve lived there… and I hated it. Continue reading “The third brain… immersion: the secret to mastery”
