Become all you can become by raising yourself higher on the Tree of Life

Starting to see the path, and maybe even the steps needed

I am starting to see that this missing capacity: the capacity to see a process ¹ , design a process, to have a strategy, is what’s missing to take me out of the one woman band existence.

You can’t delegate unless you know what someone needs to do and how it fits into your process or overall strategy.
You can’t have a staff… for the same reason. You can’t lead… because you don’t know where you are going.
Not having this capacity means duplicate work, work that wasn’t needed was done, work that was needed wasn’t done…

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Is Sophie a fake? Can she activate a DNA capacity for…

Is Sophie a fake? Can she activate a DNA capacity for herself? A capacity she obviously never had?

I have been re-reading Dan Millman’s The Life You Were Born To Live.

I don’t know why I am reading it, but here is what I have found that is worth mentioning:

What used to be too much English is suddenly clear, concise, and applicable. The text didn’t change, I did. Obviously I am playing with a fuller deck…
I get, again and again reminded of my Achilles heel: I have a missing capacity that is probably responsible for many of my failures, and all of my no successes.

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What’s going on?

I’ve been sitting here, unable or unwilling to do anything… Unfamiliar feeling. I finally asked the question: why?

And then it hit me: I am either feeling Dark Side emotions transmitted, or you are not breathing.

What’s going on?

It feels like you are waiting for something to blow over… like a storm.

Anything I don’t know about? You can’t pay your rent? Your mortgage?

Is it Christmas? I feel it is about money…

Please talk to me…

Could you learn to be an investor like Warren Buffet? If you had the time, the teachers, the money?

I shared a few bits here and there today with my chiropractor… He has 13 capacities used.

The conversation was an utter and total failure.

Capacities, abilities, is a whole new concept, and he wasn’t even getting a glimpse of what I was talking about. Very interesting.

It seems that the mistaken belief is that you can learn anything… including being an investor like Warren Buffet… that is a total illusion: you cannot learn anything that you don’t have the capacities for.

Most types of learning, like classes, coaching, etc. don’t take you to a place where the capacity missing would turn on, because you are ready for it and need it, It is not deep enough water, so the sink or swim would apply. Especially if you think you should be able to do it…

Big mistake.
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How superiority blocks you from growing. Are you perceptive?

I do a lot of “work” that doesn’t look like work.

For example, asking the question: Is being perceptive a capacity?

It turns out that it is. It is on a scale of one to 100… very perceptive, somewhat perceptive, not perceptive.

Cats are not perceptive. Partially because their eyes are calibrated to only notice movement. A non-moving tasty bit of food, mouse, bug is if it didn’t exist for a cat. That is probably why they only eat food that stinks to my human nose… ugh. They can’t see it, can’t judge it from its look, color, etc.

Not perceptive.

So, in effect, perceptive is a capacity to see details, see much.
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Capacities… what does it mean? How do you know someone only has a few capacities active?

I was on a marketing webinar… actually it is still going on as I am writing this.

The presenters are two brothers in Ireland… genius as far as building a piece of software, morons in every other area that I can see.

One has nine, the other has ten capacities working.

So, in the brief duration of the webinar, what were the capacities that weren’t turned on and made it pure hell being on the webinar:

not having a sense of what they sound like
talking about a screen not aware that that is not what the attendees of the webinar see
building an offer that timed poorly, presented poorly, salesy…
overselling…

Those are behaviors that are underlied by 10 capacities that they don’t have…
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Cro-Magnon, Neanderthal, minorities, women… and DNA

Cro-Magnon, Neanderthal, minorities, women… what do all those have to do with DNA activation?

I got to where I am with regards to my knowledge of DNA through reading two books, and a lot of experimenting.

To experiment and come to some result that others haven’t seen, one needs to have a capacity, I will call “estimating” and have it in spades. It made me a lightning fast architect…

Estimating is where you guess, quite correctly, how many jelly beans are in a jar, how many steps in a staircase, where other people made an error in judgment, without knowing what the heck you are talking about.

The two books I read were Laura Knight-Jadczyk’s (7 capacities active) drivel on celestial bodies and religion… where she says that Neanderthal was an evil branch of humanity.

Like with most things that titillate, it’s the polar opposite of what is true.
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Does having more capacities raise your vibration too?

Superiority… The word comes up a lot in my coaching. Mostly in the context of your soul correction.

But in reality, some things are superior to other things… because all exists on many scales.

On the DNA capacities “scale” someone with 30 capacities is superior to someone who has 29, 20, 10, 7.

I haven’t found anyone with less than seven capacities, though I am sure there are.

So superior is not the issue. Acting superior is the issue.

It attacks people’s egos, the part of a human that makes sure the person survives. And as in any competition, it can get ugly. ²

People tend to cultivate the capacities that they consider an unfair advantage in the competition for survival.

In politics, it is mostly lying convincingly, trashing the other, promising, and such. In many areas that is physical strength.
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Your desires… should you desire more or less?

I found a picture, a meme, that when I found it I had joy in my heart. Turns out I misread it: it happens to me dozens of times, that I misread something.

The meme says: “Lord grant that I may always desire more than I can accomplish”

I thought it said …”that I may always desire only what I can accomplish”

Why? What is the problem with the first one? After all that is what they are telling you: shoot for the stars lest you end up with dirt in your hand…

But it is horse shit.

The problem is that you can only accomplish what you have capacities for.
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What is appreciation? Do you limit it to what you like?

What do I like about leading webinars?

Unlike other people, I don’t speak from what I know, I don’t speak from my mind.

Why this is something to like? Because every time I speak I surprise myself. I listen to what I am saying, and I am amazed, and often confronted.

Today the concept of appreciation was discussed: that “culture” makes you believe that appreciation is talking about things you like… but it is a lie.

Just like in mathematics every number has a value, zero, five, minus 15.

Appreciation is simply giving something a matching value.
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