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Yesterday I shared with you the evolution of my Self. It’s like Beethoven’s Fifth… Victorious.
When you look at what I wrote and your life, you may get depressed, feel inferior, and go into despair.
Don’t.
Here is dark stuff in mine…
Continue reading “You… the good, the bad, and the ugly. Team you…”
If you have a smart phone… What is it doing to your Twitchy Little Bastard Score?
We could say that your worth a damn factor is very close to your TLB score… And whether you are worth a damn, is clearly indicative of the quality of life you’ll live, the kind of friends you’ll have, the kind of money your can make, consistently, and the kind of intimate relationships you can form and maintain.
Tai Lopez says… one of the high achievers said it… that it is awareness.
But this was said before the age of the smart phones.
Why?
Continue reading “Smart phone and your Twitchy Little Bastard Score?”
There are good days, there are bad days, and there are days when I am hit with stuff I consider bad. Blech.
Today is one of those.
And days like this are a great test if in fact my TLD is as high as I claim as it is. TLD is your Twitchy Little Bastards’ score: how much pain you are willing to take for a delayed benefit.
Where TLD comes in? I find myself already running. I want to take a nap. I want to eat. I want to go unconscious.
Why? Because bad news is not pleasant. And more than that: I need to say it publicly.
I am scared, and I want to hide.
But I am going to swallow the frog (or was it kissing it?) and tell you what’s going on.
Continue reading “Food allergies… does Source know all the answers?”
The inspiration to coach using Tai Lopez’s 67 steps came from one of my all time favorite books, the Neal Stephenson novel, Diamond Age.
In that novel, science fiction, far in the future, a scientist puts together an interactive book, a primer, for a rich and influential client’s grand daughter. And then he steals it… meaning: duplicates it without permission.
He means to give it to his daughter, but accidentally it goes to a very young, very poor, very disadvantaged girl, Nell.
Nell grows into a veritable person and a hero as a result of interacting with the book.
It is not what she learned from the book that made her a person, by the way. It is the constant redirecting the book provided. Getting to know herself. Minding her job as a person… not worrying about others’ opinion of her, or what she is doing, of what one is supposed to do. Continue reading “My 67 step coaching program was inspired by a Neal Stephenson novel”
“To put the spring back into the old mattress” 1
I heard that expression yesterday in a movie, and loved it. I wrote it down. Because that is what our work is about. Putting the spring back into the old mattress…
It could be said about you.
I remember I was, even though I had bad things happen to me.
And then, slowly, gradually, the inner turmoil, the inner misery set in, and now the misery is there, most of the time.
You may even have periods when it feels like someone or something is trying to annihilate you. You think it’s a psychic attach. And it is… except that it isn’t coming from the outside.
It is a part of you that attacks another part of you. Continue reading “To put the spring back into the old mattress”
Dr Wallach says: what you don’t put in your mouth is more important to your well-being, than what you do put in your mouth. Is he right?
An article I just looked at says: what you don’t do is more important to your productivity, money, well-being, than what you do… Is the article right? Continue reading “What is a more important, what you do or what you don’t do?”
As we saw, the two capacities, humility: (saying: I don’t know), and seeing the big picture/looking at the thing inside the big picture, are the most predictive of people who can and will correct their faulty mental picture of reality.
Of these humility is primary.
Humility is what gets us out of our head, and makes us look again.
The mood of this: maybe I didn’t see it right!
We all know people who didn’t look twice, and walked into a trap, walked into disaster with their heads high, no idea that the trap is there.
And how you do anything is how you do everything. So if that is you: it is all over the place for you, in every area of your life.
Continue reading “Without trust there cannot be humility… Without humility there is no growth”
Are you sure that what you want is Raising your vibration? Or do you just want feel good about yourself?When people come to my site, buy a product or sign up to my mailing list, I ask them what they expect to find, what they expect to get.
Ultimately I find out that they don’t know what vibration is, but they want to feel better. Feel better physically, feel better about their lives, feel better about themselves, without doing anything, changing anything.
They want it to done for them.
They may be willing to pop some pills, listen to some audios, drink some magical potions, but that’s it.
They want the same life, do the same things, the exact same way, but have a different result: feel better.
When I get a person to ask me to measure their vibration, 50% of them know that their vibration is low, and agree with the number I send their way.
The other half argues: “But I am such a nice person. Kind, caring, volunteer saving cats, blah blah blah”
Continue reading “Raising your vibration? Are you sure that is what you want? Or do you just want to feel good about yourself?”
Pushing on a string.. Sometimes you are the pusher, other times you are the string
Around the time when I graduated from Architecture School, my brother impregnated a woman 10 years his senior, who wanted to get married.
I recommended that he pay for her abortion and call it quits. Continue reading “Pushing on a string. You are the pusher, or the string”
We all have a need to fulfill others expectations of us, and also some of us have the need to fulfill our own expectations of ourselves.
Now, what if someone says something about you, or something that you like, find important, says something that conflicts with what you think about yourself, your self-image? Your I you consider your Self. (it isn’t… by the way)
Your experience is that you are devalued. 2
The lower your vibration, the more it hurts.
And when someone puts down a thing or a person we have liked, then we feel devalued by association.
This can happen quite frequently if you hang out with me…
Continue reading “The pain of being devalued…”
