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Dr Wallach says: what you don’t put in your mouth is more important to your well-being, than what you do put in your mouth. Is he right?
An article I just looked at says: what you don’t do is more important to your productivity, money, well-being, than what you do… Is the article right? Continue reading “What is a more important, what you do or what you don’t do?”
As we saw, the two capacities, humility: (saying: I don’t know), and seeing the big picture/looking at the thing inside the big picture, are the most predictive of people who can and will correct their faulty mental picture of reality.
Of these humility is primary.
Humility is what gets us out of our head, and makes us look again.
The mood of this: maybe I didn’t see it right!
We all know people who didn’t look twice, and walked into a trap, walked into disaster with their heads high, no idea that the trap is there.
And how you do anything is how you do everything. So if that is you: it is all over the place for you, in every area of your life.
Continue reading “Without trust there cannot be humility… Without humility there is no growth”
Are you sure that what you want is Raising your vibration? Or do you just want feel good about yourself?When people come to my site, buy a product or sign up to my mailing list, I ask them what they expect to find, what they expect to get.
Ultimately I find out that they don’t know what vibration is, but they want to feel better. Feel better physically, feel better about their lives, feel better about themselves, without doing anything, changing anything.
They want it to done for them.
They may be willing to pop some pills, listen to some audios, drink some magical potions, but that’s it.
They want the same life, do the same things, the exact same way, but have a different result: feel better.
When I get a person to ask me to measure their vibration, 50% of them know that their vibration is low, and agree with the number I send their way.
The other half argues: “But I am such a nice person. Kind, caring, volunteer saving cats, blah blah blah”
Continue reading “Raising your vibration? Are you sure that is what you want? Or do you just want to feel good about yourself?”
Pushing on a string.. Sometimes you are the pusher, other times you are the string
Around the time when I graduated from Architecture School, my brother impregnated a woman 10 years his senior, who wanted to get married.
I recommended that he pay for her abortion and call it quits. Continue reading “Pushing on a string. You are the pusher, or the string”
We all have a need to fulfill others expectations of us, and also some of us have the need to fulfill our own expectations of ourselves.
Now, what if someone says something about you, or something that you like, find important, says something that conflicts with what you think about yourself, your self-image? Your I you consider your Self. (it isn’t… by the way)
Your experience is that you are devalued. 1
The lower your vibration, the more it hurts.
And when someone puts down a thing or a person we have liked, then we feel devalued by association.
This can happen quite frequently if you hang out with me…
Continue reading “The pain of being devalued…”
One of the missing pieces that you are missing, is not only missing for lack of ability, but…
The missing piece is seeing the result of what you are seeing in the big picture view, and check it against the probability of being accurate.
I am pretty good at it.
I am an architect, a structural engineer, and I had to do that every day for 21 years.
But…
In 1971, I got my diploma, and it was going to be my last full summer. I had no income, I had no money. So I took a job waitressing in a coffee shop.
Continue reading “Failing at raising your vibration? I dug deep for this…”
I got this email in my inbox today. Invitation to get on the Modern Day Mystic online TV show.
I’ve been interviewed on real TV. I have been interviewed for articles. But this would be the first online TV interview since I discovered that the reason I was miserable because people were miserable around me… i.e. I was an empath.
OK, so what do I do when I need to make a decision about doing something or not doing something?
I investigate. And then I think. Pro. Con. First feel… then think, evaluate, compare, see the big picture.
Some countries need to manufacture a history for their people. Other countries created one by following a credo, an ethic, that is personally binding.
Father Geoffrey invented a history for England.
The question we’ll look at: can you invent greatness for another… Can a great path that doesn’t oblige have any positive influence on the person, or instead it will give them wrongful pride… “I am better than you” nationalist or racial superiority?
Let me examine the difference between the different stories of different peoples, so I can explain the difference between the individuals who hail from different cultures.
I am going to bumble my way through this… so expect this article to be a little chunky… I apologize ahead of time. No disrespect meant… Honest.
OK…
I’ll go about it the scenic way. Continue reading “Do you have a core identity? Something that will not change? Something that can lead you to greatness?”
Your personal reality and reality… misaligned, misconstrued, faulty, no wonder you are miserableWe could safely say that your vibration number faithfully expresses the degree of alignment between your personal reality and actual reality.
Your personal reality is your map of reality.
You built your map of reality, what you think is out there, what you see out there, what you hear, taste, touch… filtered through your map of reality… you built that map through what you were told, and what you took from what you were told.
The average vibration on the planet, at this time, is 128. That is a 1% truth value, a 1% match between your personal reality and reality. It means that you don’t see 70% of what is out there. And what you see, the remaining 30%, you see it 70% wrong.
It’s sad but true in every area of your life. Emotional, spiritual, physical. Health, wealth, love and happiness.
But what is even worse, your heroes, your teachers, your scientists, your politicians have only a slightly higher vibration, and a slightly more accurate map of reality.
Continue reading “Insisting on your personal reality leads to misery”
I just read an article on our mindset, collective mindset, where you wait until something goes really wrong and then you seek out help. It’s here in pdf form… for your convenience. incremental-medicine
This is the mindset that will move you out of trouble and towards a successful life in every area of your life, health, wealth, love, and happiness.
But this is not how you live. You live your life campaigning.
Anything that doesn’t require drama, heroism, anything that is not over the top is ignored, poo-pooed, looked down upon. In every area of life. By you, and by “them”. You dream of being a billionaire while your bills aren’t paid. You dream of a private jet while your credit cards are maxed out. You dream of being a rock star while you haven’t been able to play one song well.
You don’t know, or you ignore the cause of your misery, and then you need rescuing. Continue reading “Heroism vs. incremental process: choosing will choose your life for you”
