How the about-me score effects everything in your life

How the about-me score effects your relationships, how you appear in the world, how successful you can be?Everyone, always, wants to effect the results directly, but that is not the nature of reality. The result comes from many many factors, that together and individually can be effected… and the synergistic effect finally gets all the … Continue reading “How the about-me score effects everything in your life”

Stuff we see we solve, the stuff we don’t see kicks our ass

Turning the impossible possible…. results in flowI have been listening to a podcast… two and a half hour long, so I can take only a half hour here, a half hour there…The sentences above are from that podcast… a conversation about how to get into your flow state.Because I have client with a half-done Juice … Continue reading “Stuff we see we solve, the stuff we don’t see kicks our ass”

You never feel bad about what you think you feel bad about

Homo Sapiens, as a species, is pretty messed up. Everything sets its emotions off, and the specimen gets all emotional, angry, afraid, violent, or sad and depressed.This emotional reactivity makes getting things done near impossible, learning, or having people together pretty hopeless.Almost all diseases are a consequence of this phenomenon… people eat to soothe themselves. … Continue reading “You never feel bad about what you think you feel bad about”

Vision, Values, Mission… are there any pre-requisites?

If you have lived a lifestyle that left you with no foundation for self-growth is answering the question… what comes first: the chicken or the egg.You, people in this predicament have one characteristic in common: you don’t want to do anything that you cannot see the immediate usefulness of it.Usefulness can also be enjoyment… enjoyment … Continue reading “Vision, Values, Mission… are there any pre-requisites?”

Time to reinvent yourself as someone you can love

You live in a world of your own design… Time to reinvent yourself as someone you can loveYour own design is like a filter you look through. You can’t see the filter, just like you don’t see the window unless you touch it…A filter is like a pair of glasses…A filter is also like a … Continue reading “Time to reinvent yourself as someone you can love”

To what degree do you fulfill others’ expectations of you?

I had an experience this morning that made me look and made me ponder.The number of times my site is recommended by google has dropped to one third in the past two-three months.I wasn’t sure why… so yesterday they told me: it is because I am not getting any visitors from Pinterest.

What would Sophie say? What would Sophie Do?

If this goes way over you head… don’t worry. You can’t see what you can’t see. Your vibration is probably lower than the threshold of seeing this phenomenon.I had a call with a client today. He shared that our conversations stay in his head a lot.

When, how did you stop looking, stop seeing reality?

In the beginning our eyes sent wordless signals to our brain. And the brain figured it out what that signal meant for you, in that moment. It kept you safe, it kept you in food, it kept you in the good graces of your tribe.But at some point words, like a narrative, accompanied the visual … Continue reading “When, how did you stop looking, stop seeing reality?”

More on the 10 dark years theory, or why it takes so long

Most winners in life master one thing in particular: they are astute. Astute: having or showing an ability to accurately assess situations or people.Accurately assess… as opposed to have an opinion, have a good feel, or guess…Is that a skill, a capacity, a virtue? What is it and how do you get it?A have a … Continue reading “More on the 10 dark years theory, or why it takes so long”

What one thing you want to learn from Babe Ruth

Make your plane land where you want it to land… or what one thing you want to learn from Babe RuthThis is probably the most shocking sentence in the whole 67 step program.I literally don’t know anyone who lives that way.People try to succeed, try a diet, try this and try that… while their plane … Continue reading “What one thing you want to learn from Babe Ruth”