Become all you can become with Sophie
He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
What is self-awareness?Is it feeling what you feel, thinking what you think, doing what you do, and knowing you are feeling, thinking, doing that?
I think self-awareness is beyond that. self-awareness is a positional shift for the self that is aware. Positional meant in a physical sense, in a physical movement of the vantage point.
While writing this article, unexpectedly, I managed to break through a self-imposed barrier I have had… It’s unexpected… Bear with me till the end, please…
In this step of the What’s Missing workshop, the participants’ task is to look at an area of life that isn’t working as well as it could… and look how it will look in 5-10 years if nothing changes.
Rule is: You won’t change your actions… or how you do your actions. You won’t change your attitude…
Result 5-10 years later: homeless, fired, alone, dead, in jail…
These are just examples. Some results are worse than this. Unfulfilled is the worst…
Turns out that the saying, the observation that ‘how you do anything is how you do everything’ finds its roots in this exercise.
Continue reading “One step of the what’s missing workshop is sobering. As in a horrible wake up call…”
Why is it that the tangerine technique works for some and doesn’t for others?
Why is it that PhotoReading works for some people and not to others?
The culture says that we are all the same, and therefore, THEREFORE! we should get the same results form what we learn to do.
Hogwash.
If that were the case, we would all be Einsteins.
You are like a dull knife, a sharp knife or a surgical knife… do you think the three knives will cut the same?
No.
But even people with the same measured IQ will fare differently.
Why? Because there is more to life than the measurable IQ.
Continue reading “Tangerine Technique, Tangerine Method: can you hack it? Can you do it? Will it work for you?”
You may want to teach what you need to learn. Why? Because that way you can teach from your own learning experience, instead of tree of knowledge.
So far so good… but…
Some things lie just outside of your reach… you can never really learn them, I think. Continue reading “Goal setting and other usual activities for January…”
In a recent article I say that until you start and get some headway it taking the sting out of past hurts, you won’t be able to raise your vibration, you won’t be able to climb the tree of life.
That applies to everyone, including myself.
Once you set the task, the hurtful incidents start lining up: the mind works best when you give it an instruction and then let it do its work. 1
So, outpops an incident, for me.
A few years ago I contacted an old boy friend of mine. He is now married and has a university student daughter… so this relationship was when I was about 30… nearly 40 years ago.
Continue reading “Take the sting out of past hurts so you can raise your vibration”
Why and how you got stuck?What is it that counters you taking that action, when you don’t do what you see would be a good move?
What is winning when you are obviously losing?
Obviously, as always, the answer to those questions is under the hood.
Obviously, because above the hood you are losing. But under the hood, something or someone is winning…
Continue reading “The dynamics of getting stuck… Or why isn’t my life getting any better, in spite of all the things I do?”
You can’t win the bets you don’t make. You can’t win the arguments you don’t engage in. You can’t win without taking risks.
If you look at me, and can see, you’ll see a person with severe dyslexia, serious holes in her brain from two episodes of brain damage.
What does this mean? This means that I make a lot of mistakes, mistakes most people would not make…
Continue reading “The spirit wants only that there be flying”
Please read my email exchange with an exceptional student of mine…
I want you to learn something from it: my process, how to write intelligent emails (not mine, lol) and how to look at my articles in a constructive way.
Also, if you are someone like a doctor, a scientist, my method probably drives you crazy… I seem disorganized, have no answers to many questions… I have had people quit my programs complaining about that.
I this article I explain why things are the way they are, why I work the way I work… It’s obvious that it’s not for everybody… no clear cut anything…. 🙁
Lot to learn:
Dear Sophie
Could it be: — If Courage gives you strength to stand up to the fear of unknown. Then Self-Trust must give you strength to handle whatever comes next. So maybe both of these capacities are a Base.
Continue reading “Why my “system” seems so unorganized… hard to follow… and more”
I’ve been sitting here, unable or unwilling to do anything… Unfamiliar feeling. I finally asked the question: why?
And then it hit me: I am either feeling Dark Side emotions transmitted, or you are not breathing.
What’s going on?
It feels like you are waiting for something to blow over… like a storm.
Anything I don’t know about? You can’t pay your rent? Your mortgage?
Is it Christmas? I feel it is about money…
Please talk to me…
If you had a childhood trauma… what is the best way to deal with it now, so you can grow?
Some of you were abused as a child.
Now, strictly speaking, there is no such thing as abuse in reality. Abuse is a particular interpretation of something that happened. If I asked a visiting Martian what happened, he would say things like one person hit the other, or one person yelled at another, or one person tied up another, pushed them down, maybe even put one part of their anatomy into the other… but not abuse.
Abuse never happened… or it happened only if you said so… for you. In your mouth. In your interpretation.
Some things don’t exist outside of language… they don’t exist in reality. Abuse is just one of these. One other “thing” that doesn’t exist in reality is lack… In reality only things that are there exist.
New age gurus talk about the importance of the words you use. Of course, either because you are dumb or they are dumb, this gets generalized.
Continue reading “How words really effect you? And how positive thinkers are stupid”
