Become all you can become by raising yourself higher on the Tree of Life

As important as a yes… is a no. Actually, you’ll be left with the authentic yes

I own a business… This blog is part of it.

I am on hundreds of marketers’ mailing list, and I get hundreds of emails about new software, new tricks and strategies to increase traffic, visibility, and ultimately revenue.

I buy some of them. I use 20% of what I buy.

And then I get the whales. That promise to train me to become a super marketer, a money magnet.

It’s that time of the year, there are three such offers going on at the same time.

Tons of stuff. If I put them into boxes… they would fill many.

The allure is tremendous. I can barely breathe…

And then I do the unexpected… I ask a relevant question. I act as my own coach…

I ask: Do I want my life to be about marketing? Do I want to become a marketer?
Continue reading “As important as a yes… is a no. Actually, you’ll be left with the authentic yes”

Can you be selfish and generous at the same time?

I am reading Richard Dawkins’ The Selfish Gene. The genes that use humans as vehicles, and are only interested in procreation, and not in the life experience of the vehicle.

But, as I have said before, there are 160 intangible capacities, mostly dormant, in the human DNA. The ones that we are going to look at in this article are the capacities (genes) of generosity (altruism) and trust.

Trust and generosity seem to be at odds with the selfishness of the genes… but they don’t have to be.

The crucial decider… is that a word?, is whether the gene of envy is turned on, or not.

Envy is at odds with trust and generosity, because envy means: desire to receive for the self alone… i.e. wanting the other to lose more than wanting to win. Considering the other losing as a win for you. Considering the other’s misfortune, suffering, pain, as a win for you.

According to Kabbalah, that is the only evil there is. I see it clearly.
Continue reading “Can you be selfish and generous at the same time?”

Never really say no? What does it do to you and your life?

You can’t say yes until you said no.

Saying no feels rude. Any type of no. Setting your boundaries, hanging up the phone, saying you are busy…

Even when no one knows you have a hard time saying no.

How do I know? I just observed myself.

The price of being polite, agreeable, and accommodating

I was on a webinar where they showed how to use a graphics software and it was really good and really enjoyable. Then they started to pitch a bonus… I don’t care about the offer. Continue reading “Never really say no? What does it do to you and your life?”

One big thinking mistake you’ve kept from early childhood, that is holding you back in life

When you were a little kid, the whole world looked quite magical. Food appeared out of nothing, people did big things, cakes, birthday gifts, all kinds of big things came out of nothing.

The child thinks that this is the nature of reality: big things from nothing.

No wonder the magical thinking modalities, like manifestation and “law of attraction” are so popular: most of you never changed your worldview: you still think that the nature of reality is to jump from one state to the other, create something from nothing…

This was also the secret of Sai Baba, whose whole fame and fortune came from his ability to do sleight of hand magic tricks. Millions fell for it.

But this is not how it happens in nature.

Actually change in nature is based on microscopic changes… 90% of them in the invisible domain, below the earth, inside the cells, where you can’t see it, can’t track it.
Continue reading “One big thinking mistake you’ve kept from early childhood, that is holding you back in life”

Where are the answers? Within or without?

I spend time observing visitors’ behavior on my site. I wonder why they want to learn to connect to Source… I wonder why they want to know their vibration. I wonder why they come at all…

Finally, today, at least one of those questions got answered in one of Tai Lopez‘ emails… I’ll publish it here, and then I’ll comment.

He asks:

Are the answers within you?
The other day I was reading one of the greatest books of all time: The Analects by Confucius ¹
One line in Book 15 stuck out, “I once did not eat all day and did not sleep all night in order to think, but there was no benefit. It would have been better to study.”
It reminded me of a lie so many of us have bought into – that all the answers are “inside of us.”
Confucius says that’s a bunch of B.S.
The answers are not within us. They are OUTSIDE of us – they are external.
Continue reading “Where are the answers? Within or without?”

Yourvibration.com is experiencing Growing pains

I am having growing pains…

I may not be the only one growing… the traffic from search engines is growing on the site. And the result is that people who have no business to be on my site, who don’t have what it takes, are sending me money, some even throwing money at me.

It’s hard to say no to money… and I am having, as a result, for the first time since I started this business, refunds. Refunds either initiated by me or by new buyers, but refunds nevertheless.

I had, on the other hand, a good learning experience today.

One new person booked a 15 minute call with me, and in 15 minutes it became clear to me that I can’t help this person: we are not a good match.

So I have decided that I should offer 15 minute calls to evaluate with people if they are a good match for what I have to offer or not.

I wish I had started this five years ago.
Continue reading “Yourvibration.com is experiencing Growing pains”

Who is this site for? Is it for you?

I am an empath.

An empath is like a psychic in a way. A true empath can feel and identify your feelings, whether they are emotions or physical sensations. I can feel them stronger than you yourself. Using those feelings as guidance I can inform you about the source of your feelings and advise you on a way to restore balance and well-being.

Through empathy I have also found a way to connect, directly, to the Source of All-of-It, in a two-way fashion, so I can ask questions and receive answers, get energies, get guidance, and support. I don’t know of anyone who does what I do, and I cannot teach much of it: so far I haven’t found anyone who can connect, at will, to another person, for example.

I have asked for and received strong energies from Source. I can embed these energies into liquids or into audios. The Avatar State audio, for example, assists you in identifying the areas where you are out of alignment, and help you correct them.

The Heaven on Earth Energy bundle, and the Energizer, infused in water, help you deal with emotions suggested by the mind or the Dark Side, so you can be well, and healthy.
Continue reading “Who is this site for? Is it for you?”

Dyslexia… the most successful people are dyslexic

I had an insight this morning. This article may be the most important article I have ever written. And 99.99% % of you will ignore it… even if you read it three times. And I bet, you won’t even bother to read the footnotes… Must be not important you say, and you are right… about everything.

The world belongs to the changeable. The flexible. The one that can adjust, and go with the punches. This is what’s been missing… or at the minimum, without this you can’t change.

You know, if you know me that I have been harping on the color exercise. Simple exercise, everyone gets it right in minutes… except.

What people are not getting is this: It is training. Like wax on wax of in Karate kid. Doesn’t have anything to do with colors.

You know by now that I am dyslexic… very dyslexic.
Continue reading “Dyslexia… the most successful people are dyslexic”

Next I am going to teach a course on how to learn. That is the most important skill you can learn

My experience with you is that you don’t know how to learn… you don’t even hear what there is to learn. And only to the degree that you can learn that your life can change.

Remember the famous saying I use a lot:

If life isn’t working the way it’s supposed to, in specific areas, or altogether, there is something you don’t know. ²

So given your level of competency in the area of listening, learning… I think you need a major course on that…

Why am I saying that?

Because even if occasionally you read something that contains all the knowledge you need to change that which is not working, you don’t follow the instructions….
Anything that you just read… is not knowledge. It’s information… and uses up space in your head that you need to actually have a good life.
Because I watch how many of you behave on my site, read and re-read what I wrote… and then: NOTHING.
Continue reading “Next I am going to teach a course on how to learn. That is the most important skill you can learn”

How to grow in spite of the ego

Why do I demand that if you want to be my student, you buy and do, religiously, attentively, seriously, the 67 steps by Tai Lopez?

It’s Tuesday, so it was my doing my errands day.

At the grocery store, at the self checkout, there was a new attendant, who looked like a foreigner. I asked where she was from. She was from Albania. We got into a conversation. She’s been here for 16 years, and she is full of complaint.

I suggested that she could apply herself more, get skills, computer, better english. She was arguing every step of the way. Turns out that she doesn’t have time for any of that because she spends most of her time in her garden.

Suddenly clear of who she was, I recommended that she stops complaining.
Continue reading “How to grow in spite of the ego”