A version of confrontation therapy… unkindness

A version of confrontation therapy… unkindness

I had the most potent medicine served to me today in the form of two comments on my site. I got served what I regularly serve… unkindness.

I always thought that unkindness is a how… but maybe there is more to it.

Maybe unkindness is speaking, unkindness is doing from what you know.

And if what you know doesn’t agree with what’s in front of you, then you say whatever you say, and it’s unkind. Inconsiderate. Uncaring. Continue reading “A version of confrontation therapy… unkindness”

Like a White Peacock. do things for the love of doing things

Like a White Peacock. do things for the love of doing things

side-peacockI love reading. My favorite books tear down the proverbial curtain of the Wizard of Oz.

And my favorite activities… you could guess, are when I can tear down the curtain… and actually show the naked reality of things…

I find delight in it. Continue reading “Like a White Peacock. do things for the love of doing things”

The Sight Consciousness can take the game over at any point

The Sight Consciousness can take the game over at any point

When The Sight capacity is working, ‘knowing’ hands over the reign to ‘seeing’…

Mind hands over the reign to Consciousness.

I consider and play Life as a game.

Of course when the game can’t be saved, then the game can’t be saved.

But even if I, with my physical eyes, and my ‘brilliant intellect’ cannot see that the game can be saved, cannot be taken to winning, cannot be turned around, cannot be saved… when it CAN be, regardless, Consciousness will see it. And it will see how… through what steps.

Consciousness will see it. That  is the meaning of The Sight

I am very grateful that consciousness is not judgmental, consciousness doesn’t badger me when I mess games up. Games, like my health, games like my diet, games like my marketing, games like my income, games like my relationships.

From the limited perspective of the human mind, I take those games, often, to dead-end-looking places, where I surely don’t think the game can be saved, turned around, and become a winning game again.

I am, originally, very emotional, very jumpy, very willing to burn bridges, very keen on keeping things neat, and none of those behaviors are good for any of the games a person can play… Those behaviors all lead to disasters. Unless you can turn the game over to Consciousness, and watch the wrinkles smooth out, watch the bridges rebuilt, watch as from chaos flowers sprout.
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Why can’t, why won’t the Source energies work on you?

Why can’t, why won’t the Source energies work on you?

Why can’t, why won’t the Source energies work on everyone?

This is a very timely question… even though I probably should have asked this question a long time ago…

This question applies to healing… 1-on-1 or in an audio. It applies to activators… whether they come in an audio, or directly from me. Whether the activator tries to activate a feeling or a DNA capacity.

Anything where Source is asked to do something for you.

What is the problem?

Source will NOT violate Free Will. Continue reading “Why can’t, why won’t the Source energies work on you?”

Will you allow the learning to change who you are?

Will you allow the learning to change who you are?

This is NOT a funny article… And actually I struggled mightily writing it… because it talks about something I have never been able to teach… Your beingness.

I am reading a book for the third time in a month. And I will read it again and again until I become who I want to become.

Some people read the words in a book. I read the spirit. I align my whole inside with it… if it is worth it.

And if it is worth it: it won’t happen at the first reading, the second reading, and probably NOT at the third reading either. So I read it until it happens.

The two reasons to read it are:

  • 1. to allow the material to change you, to change who you are
  • 2. all the other reasons people read for…

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If You Don’t Have A Stop-Doing List you are unproductive

If You Don’t Have A Stop-Doing List you are unproductive


A decade or two ago I heard about a productivity course that some people produced great increase with.

In that course the most important element was the ‘list’, or in the case of that course, the folder that was called ‘stop doing’…

One of the things the Reality Challenge drives up and makes visible, that we think everything is important. That if you can think it then you should do it.

The saying: ‘if you can imagine it you can have it‘ may be true or not… but just because you think of something it doesn’t have to become a task. Continue reading “If You Don’t Have A Stop-Doing List you are unproductive”

Life is a system of seesaws, little hinges swing big doors

Life is a system of seesaws, little hinges swing big doors

a system of seesawsWhat is the real meaning of little hinges swing big doors? What glorious thing can it mean to you and your entrepreneurial aspirations?

Without understanding that life is a collection of interactive systems, without understanding the seesaw principle, without being able to create, manage, and tweak systems. your life will work as it has always worked. just barely… Continue reading “Life is a system of seesaws, little hinges swing big doors”

Just ask “What is it I don’t know? What is it I don’t see?”

Just ask “What is it I don’t know? What is it I don’t see?”

You can follow me down the rabbit hole. You can do it… The only question is: will you think it worth your while?

I know I have said it before, lots of times, but I will say it again, but slightly differently this time. So bear with me: the reward will be unbelievable!

When something isn’t working, there is something you don’t know.

Said in another way:

When something isn’t working (the way you expected it to work), you can be sure that there is something you don’t know or can’t see.

Unfortunately to you, when you hear this sentence, you will never think about your mindset. You’ll never think that your thinking is wrong. That your life philosophy is wrong. Continue reading “Just ask “What is it I don’t know? What is it I don’t see?””

An upset 3 year old is running your life?

An upset 3 year old is running your life?

The drama triangle… switch up the roles!

The drama triangle is a useful model inside which you can examine, re-live, and heal any conflict.

Conflict is a nice name where what one person/ one company/    one group/ one country’s point of view, self-interest doesn’t agree with some other person’s or group’s self-interest.

It’s normal. But it is doubly normal for children. Small children. A conflict with the parents. Continue reading “An upset 3 year old is running your life?”

What is Natural Growth and how to Accomplish it

What is Natural Growth and how to Accomplish it

unnatural growthGrowth feels good… People who grow experience being fully in life, in a dance with life…

Growth feels good… and yet, most of the people I know are either stagnating because they don’t put themselves in a situation where they need to grow, or they put themselves in the courses and seminars and coaching programs to grow, but they don’t grow because …

Well, what comes after that ‘they don’t grow because’ is what this article is about.

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