Become all you can become by raising yourself higher on the Tree of Life

Filters… or where are you listening from?

Where does the truth I say come from? Stream of consciousness.

I write the largest chunks of surprising truths that way. Something triggers it, and there it comes. Quick, let me get to the computer!

I read Kathryn’s comment on the Worry article, and something clicked. Continue reading “Filters… or where are you listening from?”

Too many choices leave you high and dry. Confused and stuck

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Clarity is power… Unclarity traps you. Makes you stuck.

I have lived in three countries.

I was pretty in the first country. And I was normal in the second. And I have been mostly exotic and ugly in the third.

Because what you are most used to, what is like what you saw as a child is what is pleasing to you. Even though philosophers have defined beauty through and through… and yet.

Why am I writing about this now? Continue reading “Too many choices leave you high and dry. Confused and stuck”

You don’t like me? Want only positive guidance?

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I am reading many books, many articles.

They all say that my life could be better, would be better if I just looked at the bright side of things.

But that… looking at only the bright side of things, actually leads to a boring, inauthentic life.

What makes good good is the contrast… No bad? Not looking at it? there suddenly isn’t good either… only boring, dull, dead. And you can’t sleep… Continue reading “You don’t like me? Want only positive guidance?”

How high can you go from where you are? Tai Lopez review

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I monitor visitor behavior on my site… to see how they treat my articles… I spend a few minutes a week, in the morning. It often gives me an idea of what to write about, what to teach next.

This article is a result of those few minutes of looking today.

Oh, I mostly look at people who signed up to get an email notification each time I publish a new article… by the way. Those people have expressed interest, so I want to see what people who say ‘I am interested’ are doing. Continue reading “How high can you go from where you are? Tai Lopez review”

If you are not for you, who is for you? What does that mean?

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Unclarity, confusion about these two, wants and needs can and will lead to unhappiness.

Some people go so far as add demand to this confusion.

So let’s create some clarity in this area, so you can finally have some access to joy, fulfillment, contentment, and feeling good about yourself and your life, shall we?

Let’s start with a question:

What do you want more of in life but you can’t seem to get it?

Continue reading “If you are not for you, who is for you? What does that mean?”

Self-trust… a linchpin capacity… can you develop it?

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How do you develop yourself to be able to move forward? To grow?

Many of my coaching students are at a crucial point in their lives where unless something happens, they probably won’t move forward.

Fear, unclarity, self-centeredness, belligerence…

The main attitude is different for each person. Not one person resembles another in what seems to block their path.

A perfect example of the Anna Karenina Principle: a deficiency in any one of a number of factors dooms an endeavor to failure. All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way

All people who move forward are alike. All stuck people are stuck in their own way.

Continue reading “Self-trust… a linchpin capacity… can you develop it?”

Discerning, discipline, and a whole lot of ranting

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This article is about becoming more discerning in the area of health and money… so you can have both in abundance.

Giving you a food list looks like a great idea. But unless you can find the food items without all the preservatives, all the chemicals, everything can be bad for you.

What do preservatives do? And, by the way, the amount they put on your food, raw ingredients, is growing in leaps and bounds… almost as much as spam grows in my inbox.

Laws do not curtail… punishment is so rare that the billionaire food companies and the not so rich restaurants don’t care… the chance to be reprimanded and punished is slight.

In every area of life. Continue reading “Discerning, discipline, and a whole lot of ranting”

Most things are only visible in hindsight.

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Most things are only visible in hindsight.

Good or bad things equally. Often when you stop…

- My chiropractor has been unavailable Tuesday mornings for almost a month. By now I am hurting. I spent two hours last night trying to get comfortable before I could fall asleep.

I would have never know how much I needed regular adjustments without taking a long break.

Going there every week, kind of poo-pooing the individual experiences is what it’s taken me to become virtually pain free. I shared it with the chiropractor, because I thought that it is a good idea for his marketing: after all most people do not go to chiropractors, because they can’t even imagine that it can help… or they go when they are really broken.