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Why is rape so traumatic, while sex is so commonplace?If you have ever been pinned down, not able to free yourself…
If you have ever been forced to do something you didn’t want to do… anything…
…your trust of life, your trust in people, your confidence has dealt a big blow.
Recovering is not guaranteed, and the wound can be torn open again quite easily.
Continue reading “Why is rape so traumatic, while sex is so commonplace?”
What is the mechanism of the machine that you are, that is used to define your actions, your moods, your attitude?
As I said in a few previous articles, your actions, your thoughts, your moods, your attitudes will be correlated with what you see.
The two sides:
the two sides are like the front of the hand and the back of the hand, connected, inseparable, but yet distinct.
Continue reading “What determines how you and your life turn out?”
What is the natural law that prevents you from having human being capacities while preserving the seed of right and wrong.
Just like the seed needs to die, before the plant can grow, a new version of humanity depends on the seed dying.
The seed level characteristics of the new version of humanity that prevent evolution are all behaviors, attitudes that are based in scarcity.
There are many, all fear based, but one behavior I just recently discovered, that in fact the behavior comes from a scarcity way of being.
Continue reading “The natural law that prevents you from growing”
I am using Rob Brezsny’s words here… maybe his English communicates better than mine:
ANTI-INSTRUCTIONS
Exaggerate your flaws till they turn into virtues Pretend your wounds are exotic tattoos. Refuse the gifts that infringe on your freedom. Shun sacred places that fill you with boredom. Keep in mind it’s bad luck to be superstitious. The official story’s always fictitious. Pump up your karma with idiot laughter. The promised land’s here, not in some hereafter
We are searching for the answers so we can destroy them and dream up better questions
Continue reading “How could you become ready to grow? Wanna find out?”
Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less. —Marie Curie, Our Precarious Habitat
The ‘What’s The Truth About You’ workshop series is kicking off this afternoon.
As usual I haven’t done any preparation: I never do. I like my life, I like my teaching fluid. Freezing it would be to ignore guidance, stop growing, and start becoming a sculpture on a pedestal.
I slept well last night. I had a ton of guiding dreams. All about what I am trying to do in the workshop this afternoon: take you over the threshold between human and human being. Continue reading “The poisonous tree that you are. What can you do about it?”
Life, happiness, well-being, prosperity is achieved and maintained only on a narrow and hemmed-in path (the strait), the opposite of what you wish it were, the opposite you see others have, the opposite you see on television, on ads.
You have been duped. You have swallowed the lie, hook, line and sinker and you have been paying the price.
Your life is empty, purposeless, meaningless, and you have nothing to look forward to.
Last night I was pondering, instead of sleeping, 1 what is the behavioral, emotional age of all humans.
I came up with seven. Seven years old.
Continue reading “You can have anything but not at the same time”
Learning lessons and growing through them… seems to be how life works.
But most of us don’t think of life like that, and therefore we never learn…
Even though learning may be the name of the game… really.
Continue reading “Learning lessons the hard way or the easy way: choose”
Are mind movies, vision boards mental representation?
Yes and no. Mind movies and vision boards are a mental representation of the end point of some fancy that you have… creative visualization or not so creative visualization. Low vibration, low consciousness, wishful thinking stuff. Continue reading “Are mind movies, vision boards mental representation?”
I just finished watching a long (2 and a half hour long!) webinar, and one of the phrases that I want to borrow from there, is this: it’s not you, it’s your approach that makes you get less out of life than you could.
One of these approaches I see often that rob you of success is:
One of the mistakes, one of the false beliefs, one of the erroneous ideas your paradigm gives you is to attempt to get from point A to point B through the straight, direct route.
But… No Problem Can Be Solved From The Same Level Of Consciousness That Created It 2
Continue reading “If you can’t move from A to B… The Too Direct Approach To Anything”
One of the most useful things I have ever done is this:
I would find a mentor. I offered my services to do whatever needed done. More often than not I learned useful skills through the doing. Skills that I needed for myself. And while I was around the mentor, I could learn from him.
Life needs a lot of skills to do life successfully. The opportunities to learn those skills is sparse… Because skills are not knowledge, even if they are mental, intellectual skills: they are the ability to do, to perform a skill… not to understand it.
Continue reading “One of the most useful things I have ever done for myself”
