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I am on my eighth round of the 67 steps.
Obviously I am following what I learned when I was nine: you can spend a whole vacation reading a book, a lifetime listening and working with 67 audios and not get bored with it.
Or the way Bruce Lee says the same thing: I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times.
I have grown more in these 19 months than in any similar period in my life.
But…
Your Bach Profile… a tool for abundance
The first question everyone who actually wants to grow, raise their vibration, and stop being sick, dumb, and poor asks: so what do I do first?
Of course this is a good question… but until this week I really didn’t have a reliable answer. I didn’t have a good answer. I actually didn’t know…
But this week this is opening up, and I have been able to see some answers.
Of course when I have a chance to spend an hour or two with you, I rarely have a problem… but I rarely spend an hour or two with a complete beginner, unless they need a health consultation.
But my newly re-discovered tool, the Bach Profile is proving to be invaluable.
Continue reading “What should you work on to raise your vibration?”
If we didn’t have words, we would have no emotions. All emotions come from words… some are yours, some are not…
The Amish Horse Training Method is to be able to hear all the words that create emotions… and hear them in a way, that gives you a choice to honor them or not, depending of the source of the words, the relevance of the words…
The Amish Horse Training Method returns you to the driving seat of your life…
Not surprisingly, for most students the first step towards mastery is mastering their attention. Unless you can control your attention, you are a putz… and are controlled by someone or something, but not you. And for you to be you, you need to call the shot.
The luckier students admit that they have a difficult time sticking with a book… because they can’t pay attention to it, they can’t understand, or they can’t remember what they read. Or the do a narrative, argue with the book, agree, disagree… but have no idea what they actually read. They remember the arguing. Continue reading “Master your emotions by mastering the Amish Horse Training Method”
Master your fearsThe opposite of fear is not courage, not fearless… it is abundance. And Abundance is mastery.
Most people’s life is not about living, not about being, not about doing, but about having… and they associate abundance with having.
Wanting makes you wretched. Because your “ground of being” your iceberg below sea level is about desire… but unfortunately desire is like a leaky pail… you can’t fill it, you cannot keep it filled… So life becomes about wanting…
No amount of having fixes that you don’t feel good about yourself. No amount of having fixes that your attitude about life is that it is wrong… etc.
There is no such thing as abundance, abundance is a concept, and we can make an agreement what meaning will constitute abundance and fulfillment. Abundance and happiness. Abundance and health.
So this is not a physical truth, this is an empirical truth: having lots of stuff is not abundance, it’s just a lot of clutter. Ask me, I know a lot about clutter.
In the world of concepts there is no opposite to fear… other than no fear…
But if you go below the surface, you’ll find that no abundance can be achieved without dealing with fear…
Here is an article by a coach I don’t know, I probably don’t agree with about anything else… but this article is pretty good… 🙂
Abundance Mastery and Fear
by Andrrea Hess (personal vibration: 130)
At least once a week, I receive an email from a client or student who is convinced there’s something deeply “wrong” with them. The reason for their concern? They are terrified of moving forward and it’s stopping them from taking action in their business.
I have to be brutally honest here. There’s nothing wrong. Being absolutely terrified is a completely normal part of the journey. I’m not talking discomfort – I’m talking debilitating fear that takes our breath away.
Here are the normal issues we encounter as expanding entrepreneurs – and I am not exaggerating!
The thought of sending out a marketing email has us curl up in the fetal position, unable to move.
The idea of picking up the phone makes us crawl back into bed and pull the covers up over our heads.
We wake up at two in the morning, our minds racing, the fear of failure so much greater than the desire for success.
Bouts of crying, anger, and desperation arise at least once a week, twice if you’re really going for it.
This is normal, folks. Being petrified doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you. It just means you’re an entrepreneur who is increasing their income. In fact, if you’re feeling good and comfortable all the time, you’re probably not growing your business. You’re probably busy, but not productive.
Most people actually invest most of their money and energy avoiding the terror barrier – by taking more classes, by doing research, by shopping for yet another teacher or mentor or marketing method, by doing a bunch of networking with a lot of other people also successfully avoiding the terror barrier.
Being busy is a great way to avoid the terror. It just doesn’t make us any money.
I promise that I have spent my share of nights on my couch in tears, wondering why I do what I do.
I don’t want to sugar-coat what you’re in for if you want to create a thriving, financially abundant business. There are going to be times when you feel like crap. And if you’re really going for expansion, you’re going to have days when you absolutely hate your life.
I know, I know. This is not what you want to hear. Everyone just wants to feel GOOD. And all of us spiritual folks think that any negativity indicates that we are not on our most Divine path. It’s not true.
There’s a reason not everyone creates a successful business, even though they want one, even though they are talented, intelligent people with great gifts to share.
It’s hard.
If it were easy, everyone who wants to create money in their own business would be doing it successfully.
But it’s not impossible. If it were impossible, then NO-ONE would be doing it.
The question is … do you want it badly enough?
I promise there’s no way to avoid the fear. There’s no way to avoid squirming in your own skin, your mind racing to find yet another way to reasonably procrastinate, to avoid doing what’s necessary to create the money you want … and then having enough drive, discipline, and desire to DO IT ANYWAY.
There’s a reason most people have a job.
As entrepreneurs, we don’t go through the terror barrier just once. We have to do it again. And again. Every single time we expand, the fear is there.
It’s not for everyone. You have to really, really, really want it.
There’s a few things that help.
The first is having a community of people who are as determined as you are, who are willing to face their fear, and do what’s necessary to create results no matter what.
They can be hard to come by. Let’s face it, when our spouse or our friends or our parents see us miserable and terrified, they are highly unlikely to do what we need most. They are highly unlikely to tell us we’re NOT going to die, to suck it up and just do what needs to be done. No, they tend to try and make us feel better. They give us great excuses not to take action. They tell us to put our feet up, to take a break, to have a glass of wine, to relax.
It’s bad advice. What gets us through the fear is action.
The second is a mentor or coach who holds our feet to the fire and reminds us of the big picture, the greater goal … because in the middle of a fear storm, all we can see is our own discomfort.
The third is constantly reminding ourselves of what actions are necessary to create income. It’s so easy for our minds to come up with good excuses to do anything BUT that which scares us so much! This means constantly studying – not as a way to avoid taking action, but to remind us of the necessity of implementation.
But let’s not try to avoid the fear. The fear doesn’t mean there’s anything “wrong” with you. It just means that your humanity is terrified of your Divinity. That’s all.
I promise that you will NOT DIE as a result of increasing your income. You won’t get burned at the stake, drowned in a river, or stoned to death. I also promise you that no amount of energy clearing, past-life regression, tapping, or any other modality will take away the terror barrier.
The fear is just a part of being human. And if you’re looking to ground your Divinity into your humanity – well, you just have to be willing to deal with it.
Are you willing?
Often hard work. Focus. Knowing what you are up to, knowing why you are doing it.
You can see that all the requirements for abundance, and mastery, and the good life meets with plenty of resistance from a “normal” person.
Just look at yourself, will you? If you are one in half a million, you’ll find that you are not quite the same, but the 499,999 people will identify with what I am going to say:
How excited are you when you hear “hard work?” “Focus.” “Knowing what you are up to”, “knowing why you are doing it”
Actually you stopped listening when I said “hard work”… Why?because you have been trained, tirelessly and all the time, to avoid hard, to think positive and avoid negative, to consider work a four-letter word, to dream about having without having to work…
If you read the book I have recommended, “Interface” by Neal Stephenson, you know that “they” count on you to be stupid. Count on you to have no idea, no concept of what is going on.
And you don’t disappoint: you can’t see the forest for the trees, and each individual tree doesn’t seem to belong to anything bigger… so you can spend your time fretting over it, or ignoring… the result is the same.
I watch, almost exclusively, cop movies. Why? Because in a cop movie it is really visible to what degree people are stupid. Ignorant. Clueless. Inattentive. Nobody home.
With the few exceptions… who are different, only to emphasize the depth to which “normal” people have fallen.
Can I teach humanity to become a bunch of alert, aware, bright eyed and bushy tailed people?
Can I undo the damage your parents, your teachers, your politicians, your “friends” inflicted on you?
I am working with a handful of people in the Reclaim program, where we are using Tai’s 67 steps with my additions: 1. what is the principle of the session 2. make a list of successful actions/accomplishment every night before you go asleep. Post them on your private thread for me to see.
And I am working intensely, almost daily, with one student.
Is anybody who can wave their hands and make you astute? No. Hand-wavers make money because you become stupider. No kidding.
Your desire grows, your ambition goes down, and your spending (money) goes up. More money in the hand-wavers bank account.
Is it pleasant to be re-programmed?Because that is essentially what we need to do… you are programmed to be wretched, lazy, dutiful, and self-righteous. A moocher.
I remember when I myself went through this process.
No, it wasn’t pleasant.
But… I had ambition, and I had mental toughness. I call mental toughness your TLB score.
Without daily assignments, without diligent actions to re-sculpture your mindset, nothing can happen.
So, no, it isn’t pleasant, or no, it is mostly WORK… lol.
People ask me: can you do it? My answer is: Can YOU do it?The answer is: you can do it. But a better question is: Is it worth enough for you that you WILL do it?
In this article I am using an example in which we are starting a new business with the Kaizen 1 way… a business that is going to succeed and more importantly, where growing it causes the owner of the business to grow into the kind of person who can… can make a lot of money, can sustain growth, can have it all… can build a life worth living.
So, this article will be about change, or better said the art of change.
Change is scary, mainly because it is a disruption. And it also requires one to know what to do, when to do it, and how to do it.
Working with me is designed to cause lasting changes… but it is really always up to you. Continue reading “The Kaizen way of changing… aka Trimtabbing yourself to a full change”
Thinking that your social status, your finances are a reflection of your value is a myth that can render you, your status, your finances low, if you are not born privileged.
I just read an article about the myth of meritocracy and how it hurts kids of color, in The Atlantic, and I found an answer to my question: why my Black students don’t do as well in life as one would expect of them, based on their abilities. Or women. Or other minorities… Or just regular people brought up mainly by women. 1
This post will get at this issue from different vantage points, so hold onto your hat… or you’ll lose it.
You may remember the principle that made T. Harv Eker a millionaire?
If things are not going well, it is a sign that something you don’t know.
Now, what he doesn’t say is that the thing that you don’t see is profound. It is a principle. Or a distinction. Something big. Continue reading “If your life isn’t working as well as you think it should…”
Something historic may happen today and it probably will go unnoticed in the news. It’s something every man, woman, and child in the world should know about.
Before this event can make sense to you, there is a crucial bit of history you must first know …
July 16, marks the 40th Anniversary of the day man first stepped foot on the Moon.
It was indeed ‘one small step for a man, one giant leap for mankind.’ Continue reading “Something historic may happen today… Unnoticed”
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Yesterday I spoke about reaching the magic 200 vibration… and falling back…
When I look at the common cause in everyone I have ever observe falling back, the common cause is one thing.
The TLB score. Your Twitchy Little Bastard score…
The TLB score measure to what degree you are willing to postpone gratification.
Most people I observe feel entitled, act entitled. Entitled to pleasure, entitled to smooth, entitled to politeness, and courtesy, and love, and sex, and nice things.
Now, what is underneath of entitled is going to surprise you: it is scarcity. Anyone who doesn’t live in the scarcity mindset: I can only be happy if… is going to have a higher TLB score, and will be OK to work towards what they want.
Continue reading “The single reason you fall back, even after you raised your vibration. The reason that you can eliminate”
Life is not about winning. Life is about how you play…
It is impossible to win. Life is not a winnable game. And wanting to win is setting you up for misery.
It is an agenda. And like any agenda, it creates a narrow cone of vision, and a forceful ignorance of anything outside of that narrow cone.
This results in three things: Continue reading “If it is about winning… you have already lost.”
If you are a student and you pick and choose what to read, you’ll end up with an incomplete knowledge of what I teach.
It’s like learning some letters of the alphabet, and not the others…
If that is you, please examine your reasons of being on this site, and start telling the truth: you are not here to become all you can become, you are here to consume.
What do I mean?
The world has two types of people, the producers and the consumers. This is obviously just one way to look at people, but it is a very interesting angle, you’ll see. Because their behavior, their principles, their mindset is very different. Continue reading “You want money? Are you a producer or are you a consumer?”
