I have been watching, patiently, for understanding the differences that put one at risk of attachments, while others escape an interaction with the same person, without getting an attachment.
After seeing enough people, and repeatedly removing attachments from the same person, this is what I think I see:
People who want to connect, lean in, emotionally or in actuality, to hear more, to connect more… and that creates the environment in which the attachment can bridge the gap.
This is especially true for jumping attachments.
In my previous article I was looking at the desperate desire to be connected, to fill in the emptiness inside.
As a true empath, I am especially susceptible, even though I don’t feel I lean in, I probably do.
My intention is not from the desire to connect, it is from my work. I need to connect to you to serve you.
I pay a price. I am like a Hoover for jumping attachments, and those with jumping attachments hover, and insist on connecting and connecting again.
If they don’t pay me to remove their attachment, I program my email to automatically delete their emails to me. But even when they do, sometimes it takes a long time and a lot of work to rid them of their attachments.
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