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He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
This article starts out very philosophical. If you can’t stand that, jump to here…
What is health?
No one has defined it yet, because just like “good” was until Dr Robert Hartman came along to define it, existed only in a context of good this or good that.
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This article is politically incorrect, and somewhat philosophical…
Not up for it? Spare yourself frustration, and don’t read it.
OK… now that only the eleven or so readers that are up for it remain reading, I can be blunt, and use some six letter words… lol.
Of course, this is, at least partially tongue in cheek…
OK, I am going to, first talk about a new insight I have on religion, then about Jews, capacities, genetically smarter… and other politically incorrect subjects that are keeping me busy pondering today.
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I had an interesting insight today.
Recently a man from Switzerland came to the site, bought some of my energy audios, and even came to a call. Although his vibration was very low, he had interesting ideas, and I was excited to work with him.
Today he wrote me a “Dear John” email, saying
Sophie, …you probably wondered why I did not attend the seminar yesterday.
when trying to connect, my computer refused the connection. this expresses a change of mind I felt yesterday.
I knew, that this path is not for me. therefore I will sign off , thank you for accepting.
I also thank you for a life-changing week and wish you the very best
I felt grief, pain, sadness, and allowed it to just be there… I felt that this incident is going to take me to a place I hadn’t seen before.
And it did… here is what I saw:
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I started to offer attachment removal in 2015, I think. This is one I did today… and I am sharing it with you because there is a great lesson in it, especially if you read Osho’s words I also included:
She: Do I have any attachments?
Me: yes. you have about 20 Continue reading “Case study: Attachment removal. What can you learn from it?”
Bread of shame 1 is a term Kabbalah uses for a situation when someone receives and receives, with no means, no desire, or no opportunity to reciprocate or earn it.
Welfare recipients eat bread of shame.
Adult children who don’t pull their weight live on bread of shame
And I have had some opportunities for bread of shame…
Receiving bread of shame is often the perpetration in the perpetration-withhold dynamic.
You receive unearned benefits… and to compensate, you get angry and hate the giver. Nasty dynamic. Sinister.
Continue reading “Bread of shame and the capacity that makes it OK to receive… by earning it retrospectively.”
Another book written by Malcolm Gladwell deals with the deficit, the weakness of a person, that becomes the catalyst for them to become the best.
Of course, this is not automatic.
99% of dyslexics can’t read or write well, and are left behind in society.
But a disproportionately large percentage of exceptionally successful people are dyslexic.
99% of dyslexics are kinesthetic learners, perceive the world kinestheticly. It is another hindrance, being kinesthetic: relating to the world, information, through the body.
Continue reading “Your weakness is around what your life can turn around”
My first foray, my first venture into joy or joyous is trying to figure out what joy is. After all we don’t know necessarily what words mean when it comes to feelings… do we. We, children, watch and learn… but in a world where what you see is a mask, what you see does not represent a feeling accurately, because the person isn’t feeling it, because the person is faking it, the looks don’t help.
My hunch is that joy is fabricated with the intention to cause craving for it, to cause an acute sense of the lack of it.
Actually, when I watch people who enjoy something, they don’t smile. Smile is for the outside, social grease. They are deeply connected to something… The pictures of people enjoying something are fake… no enjoyment. I know, I feel what they feel… no joy. Joy interrupted.
Joy is inner, smile is outer. NOT joy.
Joy is a feeling that says something is enjoyed, and, surprisingly, it makes you want to expand…
So, as you see, my first access to joy is the word: enjoy.
You enjoy something, or you don’t. (Enjoy: take delight or pleasure in an activity or occasion).
When you don’t: it doesn’t mean it is NOT enjoyable, it means that YOU don’t take the time to enjoy it.
It happens to me with food, with travel, with music.
Continue reading “More on joy, and how I am learning to have joy in my life”
The path to beauty, goodness, and truth is through the ugly, the bad, maybe even the horrible, not around them
We all bow to a deity, the god of respectability. Looking good, being well thought of, getting respect.
Even animals pretend, just watch your cat… their survival depends on looking good to you… so they pretend…
…to have no need to pretend, being willing to be seen, warts an all, is more human, it is in the direction of the evolution of the species.
While you give your life to respectability, your life sours, your dreams die, you stop knowing who you are, where you are, what YOU want, what YOU want to do with your life. You don’t know who you are.
Very unpleasant and troubling feeling.
Most are stuck there, but some (you?) yearn to know and live in harmony with who they are… love themselves, but how do you go about it?
…that unless you can face it, without running from it, without judging it, without trying to unsee it, it is going to stay and multiply. and keep you in the world of pretense, where who you are is not who you pretend to be.
Now, I know it is a mouthful, but
The help I can give, is to give you pointers, give you beacons so you will see the ugly by their light. And, of course, the Unconditional Love Activator, will make it a lot easier…
If you stop for a moment and look behind that urge to justify your actions, you’ll see ugly. You’ll see that either you don’t trust yourself, or you don’t trust the other person to like you after you did what you believe is the right thing while you knew it wasn’t.
Don’t just stop explaining or justifying… no value there. Look. See the ugly in you. Own it.
The ego is the part of you that you’ve been quietly and secretly in cahoots with… but, unfortunately, it is also the ego that could give you strength to accomplish.
But you limit what the ego can do for you by having more and more to hide, more and more falsehood to prove every day.
You look at every program with suspicion. Will this want me to change? Will this want me to look at what I have been hiding?
You can’t have the rose without the thorns, you can’t have night without day… Life has a certain order to it, but you want, with all your might, to go around it.
You want respect without giving respect, you want love without giving love, you want something for nothing, you want beauty without the ugly.
You invent religions, you invent gods, afterlife, karma, just to avoid having to face the truth about you.
You rearrange the furniture, do feng shui, invite a shaman in your home to get rid of evil spirit… but you go back, and there it is again: evil spirit. In you… The ugly that you have been hiding.
Beacon #2:
You can see the ugly in others that means you are good or at least better. Nice. High minded.
Exactly the opposite is true.
All the nasty stuff you see in others is something you recognize because you have it.
They hold up a mirror for you to see it. But you run, but you hide, but you blame, smear, get angry.
You miss the lesson.
I am not saying it’s pleasant. But it is possible to bring a sober eye to the things you see and say: Hm… I see that. Hm, that’s ugly. or nasty. However you express yourself. Sober. Matter of fact. Flat.
Beacon 3: Apologizing
Husband cheated on you? Notice the nastiness that comes up… it is choking you. Notice that you want to be nice… then the nastiness comes out… and you apologize.
Don’t apologize. Actually have it a goal to never have a reason to apologize.
If it comes out… then instead of pushing it back, and feeling shame, fear, rejoice. You got a chance to see the poison you carry around. And own it as yours.
Sit down and watch it simmer. Accept it for what it is. Embrace it. Do NOT justify, do NOT explain, just allow.
The longer you can watch it the less power it will have… Half done work (looking away, justifying) will bite your ass.
The beautiful you is behind the ugliness… it is not next to it, not in front of it, it is behind it.
As long as you have the ugly, all beautiful is a pretense… ugh, that hurts, right?
Now get to work. And let me know if and when you are ready for the Playground. Or Reclaim. Or both…
Oh, and don’t forget to stock up on the Unconditional Love Activator. You’ll need it.
Now that a bunch of you have bought my Secret Weapon, the Big Bundle of energies 2 The purpose of this article is to announce the WEBINAR I am forced to do to let you feel the energy and teach you to use it correctly.
So, announcing the Big Bundle webinar.
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