If You Don’t Have A Stop-Doing List you are unproductive

If You Don’t Have A Stop-Doing List you are unproductive

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A decade or two ago I heard about a productivity course that some people produced great increase with.

In that course the most important element was the ‘list’, or in the case of that course, the folder that was called ‘stop doing’…

One of the things the Reality Challenge drives up and makes visible, that we think everything is important. That if you can think it then you should do it.

The saying: ‘if you can imagine it you can have it‘ may be true or not… but just because you think of something it doesn’t have to become a task. Continue reading “If You Don’t Have A Stop-Doing List you are unproductive”

We and energies. We and love. We and a life you can love

We and energies. We and love. We and a life you can love

 

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As I wrote in yesterday’s article, we is not part of human culture.

In my interaction with clients I am starting to distinguish that there are two dimensions of ‘we’, just like there are two dimensions of ‘love’.

We all want to be included, we all want to be loved. That is the one side, the one dimension of either.

The other dimensions is us including, us loving. The level of that, in the current humanity, is 0%. In the 1000, it is 30%. My level is 70%.

Does wanting to give, giving, making a difference count on that level? Continue reading “We and energies. We and love. We and a life you can love”

What I learned from a 5000 page fantasy saga…

What I learned from a 5000 page fantasy saga…

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I just finished reading a five thousand page fantasy saga… in five volumes. On the Kindle…

And it was the second this long book by David Estes.

I enjoy reading fiction. But one of the most rewarding things about reading is the ‘Easter Eggs’… hidden treasures…

Most of these treasures are the author’s gifts, but given what I do for a living, my Easter Eggs are the ones I find and probably no one else… maybe not even the author.

If that made no sense, please forgive me…

All I am trying to say is that I find answers to my questions in almost all the books I read. Continue reading “What I learned from a 5000 page fantasy saga…”

If your practicing doesn’t increase anything…

If your practicing doesn’t increase anything…

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Ever tried? Ever failed? No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better.

The most important insights I am getting through this virus attack disaster on my sites have nothing to do with my sites.

What I am getting is probably way more important for everyone.

When you are too busy with something that occupies all your attention all the time… then creativity, inspiration, self-awareness… all the things that are vital to having a good life, being powerful, being the captain, are suffering.

You can’t put all your power into the thing you are doing, because every crew member, every thought, every urge wants to take you out of that one thing. Continue reading “If your practicing doesn’t increase anything…”

Why aren’t you the captain of your ship? How could you be?

Why aren’t you the captain of your ship? How could you be?

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Or how to go from drifting to achieving…

In this article I am going to give you the secret. The secret to success. The secret to a good life. And you probably won’t hear it… and ignore it.

How do I know? I have been doing it long enough that I finally distilled the secret down to the one issue that if it is there, you cannot be successful. AND you can’t hear me. The two are connected. Continue reading “Why aren’t you the captain of your ship? How could you be?”

13 Questions That Can Lead YOU To Clarity

13 Questions That Can Lead YOU To Clarity

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The mind hates uncertainty.

It.drives.itself.nuts to answer a question. Any question. Asked or unasked.

If you paid attention: it is almost always in search mode… trying to answer a question.

That’s why it is so busy. Continue reading “13 Questions That Can Lead YOU To Clarity”

What does your laughter mean? What does your laughter do?

What does your laughter mean? What does your laughter do?

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There are two kinds of laughter. Depending on what predominates, you are a happy person or an unhappy person. You have peace or you have turbulence.

The two kinds of laughs are
  1. derisive laugh = Mocking; jeering.
  2. benevolent laugh: the laughter of recognition

There is always a price. We are looking at laughter by the criterion: who pays the price.
Continue reading “What does your laughter mean? What does your laughter do?”

Life is a system of seesaws, little hinges swing big doors

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Life is a system of seesaws, little hinges swing big doors

a system of seesawsWhat is the real meaning of little hinges swing big doors? What glorious thing can it mean to you and your entrepreneurial aspirations?

Without understanding that life is a collection of interactive systems, without understanding the seesaw principle, without being able to create, manage, and tweak systems. your life will work as it has always worked. just barely… Continue reading “Life is a system of seesaws, little hinges swing big doors”

Why are most self-help books, courses worthless?

Why are most self-help books, courses worthless?

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Why are most self-help books, courses worthless?

Worthless other than being boring? lol…

They bore the heck out of me… but that is my problem, I guess.

The reason they are worthless because they talk about what to do, but they never teach about consolidation.

My teacher in creating courses taught that the first session needs to give people a quick big win… so they get excited and stay in the course. Continue reading “Why are most self-help books, courses worthless?”

Just ask “What is it I don’t know? What is it I don’t see?”

Just ask “What is it I don’t know? What is it I don’t see?”

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You can follow me down the rabbit hole. You can do it… The only question is: will you think it worth your while?

I know I have said it before, lots of times, but I will say it again, but slightly differently this time. So bear with me: the reward will be unbelievable!

When something isn’t working, there is something you don’t know.

Said in another way:

When something isn’t working (the way you expected it to work), you can be sure that there is something you don’t know or can’t see.

Unfortunately to you, when you hear this sentence, you will never think about your mindset. You’ll never think that your thinking is wrong. That your life philosophy is wrong. Continue reading “Just ask “What is it I don’t know? What is it I don’t see?””