If you grew up in a dysfunctional family, does it mean…

I have been working with my core group… and some of them I have had a difficult time to see why they never put out, why they never do what is theirs to do.This article to unwrap that issue… and look at behavior differently. The student is judgmental… Has high, impossible standards for others… So … Continue reading “If you grew up in a dysfunctional family, does it mean…”

Life is tough, but it’s tougher when you are stupid

Emotions up, intelligence downIn stressful times, your emotions will demonstrate this intelligence lowering phenomenon… Mine did.I got an email reminding me that my automatic payment was going to become due in another two days.

Inner peace… aka completion. Is it possible for you?

Inner Peace is elusive. It’s elusive like health.What do you call peace? The lack of war? What do you call health? Lack of illness?Imagine that you are walking in a forest, on a footpath on a beautiful summer day. The birds are chirping. There is a slight breeze. There is peace. And you may know … Continue reading “Inner peace… aka completion. Is it possible for you?”

The Binary, The Pendulum, The Tedium, The Lifeless Life…

Do you work on your mind to make it better? You are making the bars of your prison shinier…One of the activities of the mindĀ  that takes you out of the present is comparing.If you are new here, you probably think that I am talking about your brain… but the mind is only a limited … Continue reading “The Binary, The Pendulum, The Tedium, The Lifeless Life…”

Why attention and self-discipline is the cat’s meow…

…meaning the most effective way to get from loser to winner in lifeNowadays all I am talking about is controlling your attention. I talk about self-discipline. Causing your plane land on the airstrip no matter how the wind blows.You expect that from a pilot… but you don’t expect it of yourself.

What makes the butterfly a beautiful butterfly is EFFORT

What makes the butterfly a beautiful butterfly is the EFFORT it takes to break out of the cocoon.My best selling product is called Effortless Abundance.The best selling products are gadgets… gadgets that make everything effortless… because you don’t want any effort.You are, through and through, part of the eight billion. And you are not happy.If … Continue reading “What makes the butterfly a beautiful butterfly is EFFORT”

Remembering the future… or how to cause self-trust?

Remembering the Future…This methodology is revolutionary… but let’s not get ahead of ourselves…What future? What remembering? What can it do? What is self-trust? Is it the same as self-esteem?

See ME. Not a thing… ME as a person! Look again!

See me as a person. See me for what’s great in me, and have room for what isn’t…Secretly we all want to be acknowledged for what WE feel is great about us… not what YOU think is. But because we, humans, don’t see who others are… we only see who we are… we never feel … Continue reading “See ME. Not a thing… ME as a person! Look again!”

Your worldview is holding you back. But what is it?

Your worldview is holding you backFirst off: what is worldview? Worldview is how you see things, a set of lenses a set of assumptions that are invisible to you. It is a particular philosophy of life or concept of the world. Maybe even an ideology.Religion is a worldview.Democracy is also a worldviewFascism is also a … Continue reading “Your worldview is holding you back. But what is it?”