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It is summer, and many of you go on vacation.
The question is: how can you take your energized water system with you.
Well, you can take the audio source, you can take the headphones. The rest, the water itself, and the container will have to be invented…
My suggestion is that you go to a camping store and buy a collapsible water bottle or a water-sac.
Campers need it in the woods. They hang the water sac on a tree… Continue reading “Energized water solution for your vacation”
I have had people, ex-students, who tried the 67 steps and decided that it is not the way to learn… no matter what Sophie says… They knew better.
I could not put my finger on the attitude. I could see that it didn’t work, I could see that it didn’t serve them, but I didn’t have a word for it.
Until today, through listening to Step 4 of the 67 Steps.
This step, step 4 is about learning through mentors. Mentors are teachers, but not classroom teachers. One-on-one instruction where the teaching is tailored to you. Where you learn through osmosis. You emulate their whole being, how they approach issues… it is largely nonverbal.
By the way, it’s took me 16 months to seriously consider picking a mentor or two… to emulate. In every other area I had some results… in this one I just got to considering it… this is an 18 month schedule, not instant results…
I am republishing this article, because of the new insights… that everything that is not need based is the not-you, the society created “IT”, the not self, and because it is very difficult to explain… I need these articles to be together… Eventually I’ll find the right words that communicate to more people.
Needs are feelings. They run you, from the inside. Need is a feeling… and it can be on many levels.
Animals have needs. Human have the same needs, and more.
Depending on how many needs you have, you are on different evolutionary levels of humanity.
In this article we’ll need with the two needs where most get stuck: the needs of the self. These are non-physical needs, resulting in non-physical pain if not met, and pleasure if they are met.
So let’s begin.
I have always wondered why it is that only people who commit to something and then work on it are ever happy.
I could not explain it with the limited knowledge I’ve had… but this is changing.
Continue reading “Feelings are running you. Do you have a handle on your feelings?”
Context is decisive…
I found a great article that described what has been the most important spiritual shift in my career as a teacher and a coach.
I trust that you’ll be able to see how it applies to you and how it can transform your life, and create a spiritual shift for you too.
Here is the story:
The Day I Pretended to Babysit My Own Kids
By Chana BittonEmotionally exhausted. This is how I was beginning to feel on a regular basis. Everything my kids did that wasn’t “perfect” got on my nerves. If they argued with each other, I yelled. If they didn’t listen to me the first time I asked, I yelled. If they had a complaint about dinner, I got annoyed . . . and yelled. Why was I reacting this way? Why couldn’t I enjoy my job as a mother, and see the beauty in raising a family?When did parenting become such a burden?
It was something I thought about regularly, because I knew that the way I was being was not the kind of parent I wanted to be. I wanted to rediscover the enjoyment in parenting, but I needed to dig deep to figure out how to find it again.
One night during bedtime, as I was putting my 6-year-old to sleep, I began having the same agitated feeling. She kept asking questions, not listening, squirming—basically, being a normal 6-year-old. I hated the way I was feeling, and decided to play a little mind game with myself. Continue reading “How babysitting your children, your business, even yourself alters how you feel”
Yesterday I listened to step 4 of the 67 steps. I heard something… and turned the audio off. I didn’t want to forget what I heard.
This is the step where Tai talks about the DNA that makes us able to learn, no, makes us have to learn to become human.
He uses language as an example.
Every human has the capacity to learn their mother tongue so they can communicate with the people around them. But there is no separate gene for English and Serbian, for example. There is the capacity to learn language.
And so is with hundreds of abilities. Continue reading “Why I need to be some kind of criminal to really help you”
I doesn’t matter what you think you believe.
I am starting to notice that what you say you believe is one thing, what you actually believe is expressed a lot more truthfully in your actions and in your reactions.
One of the most useful distinctions I learned from Hungarian author, Margoczi, is the distinction of “devaluing of your ‘I'”
I can feel the wind, but I am not the wind. I can hear the voices and I am not the voices.
The above is a quote from one of my students who has raised his vibration, even though his soul correction is one of the difficult five.
Thinking that the voices are significant, engaging with the voices makes us schizophrenic, as if we were many people.
Thoughts, voices, are like the wind. If you start to listening to the wind as if it talked to you, you go crazy. The wind takes over your life, starts running your life, and you go crazy.
The wind whispers, the wind sings. It has nothing to do with you. And so is with all the thoughts.
Wanting life to be different than it is.
No one can promise you an easy life. No such thing.
The only authentic promise anyone can make is make you a match to life.
Continue reading “Instead of trying to change life, Become a match to life”
The size of your life is an indicator of the size of your possible happiness. What is the size of your life?In the Playground, people do the work in pairs… we call these Partner Calls.
A partner call needs to be about a problem that came up in an incident. It is less talking than looking.
The person who talks, while the other listens, looks at the incident and attempts to take it through a set of looking points… we call that a script. Continue reading “The size of your life is an indicator.. or what?”
I just had a profound realization: To the degree I deal with people whose actions lack integrity, to the same degree I lack integrity myself.
You are not only a sum total of your closest five people, your “originating” or “sourcing” circle. You are actually the same as the lowest of them in spiritual sense.
Your financial integrity, your earning power, your deserving factor, your happiness, your weight, your health, your mindset, all depend more on your friends than on yourself. Who you surround yourself with have more power in your life than you, yourself. Continue reading “Does your vibration depend only on you? Your money?”
Your physiology and psychology work hand in hand… And how can meditation work for you… finally
In some regards I am still a Twitchy Little Bastard… even though outwardly my behavior has calmed down a lot.
What am I talking about?
A Twitchy Little Bastard is someone who acts without regard to the future, without considering if the action is sustainable or not. 1
I am looking at this phenomenon from a different vantage point: your quick to react, your high-sprung state.
I am looking to prove to you that your physiology and your psychology, your body and your mind are intimately connected.
That you calm down one and the other calms down too. Continue reading “Your physiology and psychology work hand in hand”
