Does negativity come from the words you speak?

About 50% of humanity believes that positive thinking is what is going to bring home the bacon, suppressing negative thought, negative desires. I saw a video yesterday that even the Dalai Lama’s talk is interpreted as positive thinking…He says: a small positive thought in the morning can set your whole day on a positive spin.What … Continue reading “Does negativity come from the words you speak?”

Is cheerfulness good for you? Is it a virtue?

 This article was inspired by an Aeon.co article against cheerfulness as a virtuecheerfulness: noticeably happy and optimistic.causing happiness by its nature or appearance.I am taking that concept to its conclusion… So here we go…The mantra of the world-class thinker is: “I am responsible.”That quote is from Mentally Tough leader, Steve Siebold…I get his one-sentence emails, … Continue reading “Is cheerfulness good for you? Is it a virtue?”

Competence, People who get things done well, on time

Competence is rare.You know the people you deal with: they are just like of you… 99% of them 99% of the time are incompetent, late, shoddy work, nonexistent knowledge, sloppy delivery, tunnel vision, no distinctions.You don’t have to be competent in everything: be competent in what you do for a living, and in your relationships.But, … Continue reading “Competence, People who get things done well, on time”

What does it mean “create a life you love”?

This attitude, or worldview that you can create a life you love, is the same exact worldview that prevents you from being happy.33 trillion webpages talk about that.But the truth is that you have no authority to change anything in life outside of yourself… but even if you could, even if you do, unless YOU … Continue reading “What does it mean “create a life you love”?”

Your homepage attitude… How to have a choice?

You read the meme that it is not what happens to you that matters, it is how you react to it. You nod, you don’t learn. You have no idea what it means. You are clueless.This is one of the memes that never gives you pause, because it is a meme that is also a … Continue reading “Your homepage attitude… How to have a choice?”

Who is your soul-mate? Are they nice-nice, or accepting?

One of my students is asking a really good question.She has two friends whose soul correction is Forget Thyself… and she has a good relationship with me… and I have that same soul correction.She asks:Sophie, after I read your last article I checked my last 2 friends’ soul corrections. My one friend who pushed me … Continue reading “Who is your soul-mate? Are they nice-nice, or accepting?”

What is the number that most predicts how effective you are

Theory induced blindnessI like to call the phenomenon of not being able to see what doesn’t agree with your theory of life: theory induced blindness. A more popular and better known label for it is “confirmation bias”.You only hear what you agree with. Or more precisely, you only see what you recognize. And you only … Continue reading “What is the number that most predicts how effective you are”

The perfect antidote to what ISIS is trying to do?

How and why what we do here is the perfect antidote to what ISIS is trying to do?Whether it was David who was the underdog, or Goliath… the picture of using wits against blind stupid force is depicted well in that story… and besides that, when I looked how to illustrate this article, David and … Continue reading “The perfect antidote to what ISIS is trying to do?”

Covering your facebook avatar with the tricolor French flag: what does it mean about you?

Covering your facebook avatar with the tricolor French flag: what does it mean about you?Pretense? Courage?Posting high-sounding sound bites on Facebook, like Marianne Williamson did:David didn’t defeat Goliath by normal means; he defeated him by hitting him in the Third Eye. Goliath has one Achilles’ heel, and that is that he has no conscience. The … Continue reading “Covering your facebook avatar with the tricolor French flag: what does it mean about you?”

Does your Third Eye sit on our forehead?

Like with all things spiritual, humans in all ages, reversed the statement “god created man to his own image” and created gods to their own image. Ugh…I am not familiar with all religions, and religions is not what I want to talk about in this post, but it is worth looking how Moses, angry abandoned … Continue reading “Does your Third Eye sit on our forehead?”