Category: Self-image

Do you have opportunities to break out from your routine?

Do you have opportunities to break out from your routine?

the-2-percentFor me holidays are important, because they are not routine. And because it is so easy to be in a routine, and not consider it a rut… even I need something outside to change to take a different look at my own life, at my own business.

This time around I finally was willing to admit that my site needs redesigning.

I am not willing to overhaul it completely, but I am willing to make it completely compatible with mobile devices: already more than 50% of all visits are from mobile devices. I have been acting in concert with the 5% tweak principle I learned from Tai…
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More questions for self-reflection

More questions for self-reflection

toughquestions-orangeHere are more questions. Don’t do them as a quiz… Pick the question that feels the most confronting, the one that makes your belly dance… The purpose of the questions, the purpose of your “inquiry” is to know yourself, not to impress someone else!

    1. Do I share myself, my real self? Or do I withhold myself, protect myself, be aloof? When I do share: do I share to share, or do I share to complain, to get sympathy?
    2. Do I tweet posts, if I do, because I want to share them, because I am generous, or because I want to prove to someone that what I read about people fits them like a glove? I feel vindicated because I agree that they are creeps… lol, not that funny
    3. Do I care about others? Do I pretend to care about others? Do I consider them human beings with the same rights as myself? Or do I think that their feelings don’t really matter…?

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    What is the intrinsic role of commitment…?

    What is the intrinsic role of commitment…?

    commitment-to-marryWhat is the intrinsic role of commitment… making a commitment, committing to something?

    Ever asked the question why people get engaged? Engaged to be married…

    Engagement is making a commitment…

    But commitment is tricky.

    Real commitment comes from the Intrinsic Self, and you don’t need to make it. It is what the Intrinsic Self wants you to do…

    Most things you call commitment, are impositions on the Intrinsic Self, impositions on you. Duty, obligation, drudgery.

    They come from either an outside goal or an ego goal… and they don’t get the support of the Intrinsic Self.

    The engagement period drives up the real sentiments, and if there is any honesty, will prove or disprove the authenticity of the commitment.

    Authenticity means: coming from the intrinsic Self.
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    Curiosity, Inquiry, Discernment, Tree Of Life…

    Curiosity, Inquiry, Discernment, Tree Of Life…
    …Tree Of Knowledge, Mind, Brain, Thinking About, Thinking…

    Do You Know The Difference? You are wired to want to know

    You are wired to avoid uncertainty, wired to want to know how it all works so you can be safe. Understandable. Makes sense… you must use the MIND to accomplish that: feel safe, believe you are safe, dream of safety, crave safety, shrink, become nearly nonexistent.

    Safety is a myth. Life is not safe. Safety is not attainable.
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    If you love yourself you love your life.

    If you love yourself you love your life.

    80-20-principle

    Good enough, the Pareto principle… how you get tripped up by the numbers

    80% of your results come from 20% of your efforts.

    This translates to a lot of mischief.

    I just read an article, OK, I read 20% of it… lol… about China, and about chabuduo… that is Chinese for Good Enough.

    The problem is standards.

    Your 100%, the Chinese 100%, and my 100% are not the same.
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    It is exactly 57 times more complicated than that…

    It is exactly 57 times more complicated than that…

    The current state of science, knowledge is “one size fits all”.

    Just do this and this and this… and you’ll be happy, wealthy, healthy, and in love.

    Every profession has their “this is the way, this is the truth” postage stamp size area where they dance…

    The medical establishment, pharmaceuticals, psychologists, religion, education, and even the “spiritual” or “alternative” people.

    I am a people watcher. I watch their behavior. I watch what they welcome, love, what they tolerate, what they avoid.

    I remember I was about 30, and I said:

    this is exactly 57 times more complicated than that.

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    The seven habits of highly unsuccessful people

    The seven habits of highly unsuccessful people

    I wrote this article in 2016. Nothing much has changed… I got older…

    As you know it is the 50th anniversary of my high school graduation.

    I had a bunch of extraordinary folks as classmates: they have been meeting every year for the past ten years… and this year they decided to redo the yearbook, which is not a book in Hungary: it is a big board with everyone’s picture and their names. Continue reading “The seven habits of highly unsuccessful people”

    What is your self-image? Do personality profiles work?

    What is your self-image? Do personality profiles work?

    There is a fundamental built-in error in tests that involve answering questions about ourselves.

    I have found that personality tests that rely on your knowing yourself and to predict what you would do in certain situations, are profoundly flawed. 1

    I say this after working with thousands of people, one-on-one, observing them, feeling them (I am an empath) and comparing who and how they are compared to what they say about themselves.

    The gap is significant between the two. Continue reading “What is your self-image? Do personality profiles work?”

    What makes someone live with YOLO, you only live once?

    What makes someone live with YOLO, you only live once?

    the secret for a long life well livedPeople who are hopeless, people who can’t see a future for themselves are more likely to throw their money on unproductive purchases, or YOLO…

    Ever since I’ve started to download the energy of the Days of Power, I’ve been wondering how I am going to know that it’s working… how it will manifest, practically, in my life.

    Whenever something new comes in, my imagination goes to the known, the familiar, and I guess that is how the human mind works.

    So I had no idea what may happen, what could happen, given the energy.
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    Experience junkie? Spending all your money on courses?

    Experience junkie? Spending all your money on courses?

    the experience junkieI used to be a course junkie. I have recovered… This morning’s incident is a good indicator…

    I found myself this morning unable to connect. Connect to Source…

    When I closed my eyes, I was buzzing…

    I muscletested: Am I tired? The answer was “yes”. Shall I rest? The answer was “yes/no” Shall I meditate? The answer was “yes” Shall I meditate for five minutes? “yes”

    I closed my eyes, and within seconds I had this huge upheaval, with lots of tears.

    Now, what the heck is that about?

    I didn’t forget that I have been downloading the Day of Power energy over the past 36 hours… and whatever is there, spiritually, can spill out, and be gone… really fast.

    I don’t care what was in that sob. It’s gone. I also don’t look at my poop and wonder what was in it… unless I do… lol.

    But you? are you still a junkie?
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