Become all you can become with Sophie
He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
One of the beingnesses you could take on is curiosity.
I know you think you know what it is, but consider that you have no clue.
You know asking for answers. That is not the curiosity I am talking about, that is a strategy to wrap up life in a neat package, so there are no more questions… Not what I am talking about. Continue reading “To expand the field where you live, take on curiosity”
What attracts you to me and my site is hope. And what takes you away is also hope.
Hope is a state where you don’t accept the way it is, you, others, the world, and you are looking for some light that others promise, that others seem to get, but not you.
You base hope on the view you have of others.
Hope also signifies a state where all needs to come from the outside, because you’re sure don’t have it.
You are like a moth being attracted to any light, even if it is fire that burns it.
I got a vibrational measurement request from a client. His vibration dropped 70 points. I checked and he has nine attachments. I have already pulled attachments from him, but he went and got himself nine more, some of those are those infectious attachments you get from healers, energy movers like Christie Marie Sheldon, from practitioners of the Access Consciousness Bars method, and lots more I haven’t identified yet.
Continue reading “Let’s talk a little bit of what would make you first want to participate with me, buy stuff, and then go away?”
I just sent out a bunch of emails to people that I wasn’t sure wanted to get my emails.I wanted the ones that didn’t, to unsubscribe. Why? Because I don’t like to anger people… and people anger really easily…
The people on this list asked to learn from me. Learn to connect to Source, learn to slip out of the mind, really important stuff.
Many unsubscribed. My hunch: many of them didn’t even open my email.
I removed the ones that unsubscribed, one by one… Time consuming, but it was worth it.
I gleaned an insight that I want to share with you:
90% of those that unsubscribed had an email address that betrayed their affiliation, their self-image, or their aspirations.
Continue reading “What story does your email address tell about you?”
Nothing is EVER in the bag!
That’s what is a “bitch” about life, that nothing is EVER in the bag. You have to keep your eyes on it, push it, make the right choices, do it, and then, maybe, it gets into the bag, for a moment.
I am talking about projects. Big or small, it is never in the bag until it is in the bag.
They say it is not over until the fat lady sings… but that is for spectators. Spectators who don’t enjoy the show.
For a participant, it is never over until it is done…
No matter how good it looks now, no matter how good it feels now, in the next moment it can tumble, go south, the whole beautiful thing can go to s-h-i-t. And more often than not it does.
Now, why am I writing this article? Because it is my experience, that we all, myself included, behave as if this nature of projects weren’t true.
Continue reading “The b.i.t.c.h. about life: what goes up must come down”
The question in your life is: who possesses who? Who possesses what?But the answer to that question, albeit it is fashionable to think that the guy/gal with the most toys wins, will surprise you: the person who possesses himself wins, every step of the way.
I pretty much don’t know anyone with any level of self-possession: it can be measured.
People are like leaves blowing in the wind, flotsam on the ocean… out of control, hoping for a favorable wind… lacking what can only developed by rigorous practice.
Rigorous? Practice? Please stop laughing… you are out of control!
But like anything of value, it doesn’t come cheap.
In an interaction with a longtime student, I saw something. Here is the interaction:
Continue reading “Self-possessed… living from the Witness position, living from Consciousness”
Talk therapy doesn’t work. Coaching doesn’t work. Transformational programs don’t work. 1
But why? And if they don’t work: why are there so many testimonials on the internet?
These programs don’t work, because at best they give you temporary results, like flash in the pan.
Your actions come from what you see, and what you see can be altered with a conversation. But what you see will be temporary.
Why? Because the past gets into your eyes. Because unless you have a ton of distinctions, everything will look the same as everything else…
I have tested myself at one point, and I tested “no” to 100 emotional states, 100 beingness….
Continue reading “Why do I use energies in my coaching? Why don’t I just talk to you?”
This article is getting a lot of visitors from Pinterest. So the first few words are for them: yes, that lady is for real, yes, she is old.
I don’t know her. But I am an empath and I can connect to her and measure stuff about her. Her vibration is 200. Her health is at 50%. And her hydration is 10%.
Being flexible, remaining flexible needs you to provide your body with the nutrients it needs, eat no fried foods or inflammation causing food: oils, margarine, sugar, grains… and practice.
The lady in the picture, most likely, has been practicing yoga for 50 years. And her ligaments have always been loose.
OK, curiosity satisfied? Good… Now, the rest of the article is for my regular readers
As you know (if you read my articles regularly) I have been getting old, heavy, and sore.
This year I had the idea that if I don’t get younger and more mobile, I will be stuck without a chance to move, to travel, to attend events…
Continue reading “My energy level, my weight, my pain, stepping and rocking”
You are making all the right moves, you feel on the top of the world, smart, dashing… and then reality comes crashing down…
What happened? What the f… happened? For the most part you are dumbfounded. After all if you could see what you did, after the fact, this would not happen as often as it does. To you, and to most people…
Continue reading “Does this ever happen to you?”
Every success proves nothing. It can be luck, it can be accident, it can be smarts… you can’t be sure.
I am an architect by trade… and all my life as an architect I was wondering if I was talented. I could never say for certain. I could win contests, I could win awards, talent is not proven by them.
Finally I gave it up and sighed a sigh of freedom and relief.
You are the same way about being smart… or whatever is your issue. (Some people have an issue with being liked, loved, valued, respected, etc. But I think everyone has some issue with smarts. I could be wrong…)
My recommendation is that you consider the Forrest Gump saying: Stupid is as the stupid does… i.e. the only stupid thing you can do is not judge accurately what you need to see to make a good decision.
If you rush, or already know… the action is stupid, and that’s that.
Continue reading “More on stupid/smart”
I published an article on Doctor Who a week or so ago: I did not write that article, no matter what you thought when you read it.
That article was written before the current Doctor came to the scene.
The Doctor, 1000 years old, periodically dies and regenerates into a whole different look and personality “new” Doctor.
It is jarring for everyone involved, especially to the previous companions of The Doctor. The doctor looks dramatically different, and is a dramatically different personality.
As I can tell, one aspect of The Doctor needed to be made obvious: his vulnerability.
There is a great video compilation at the end of this article… worth watching, even if you have never seen the show.
Continue reading “The lesson of Doctor Who for those who want to raise their vibration”
