The biggest stumbling block you have to growth that will fail you

The biggest stumbling block you have to growth that will fail you

Parents are not trained educators. They don’t allow you to be a child: they only care about themselves… not you, no matter how much they pretend, even to themselves. You, as a parent, are the same way…

You would be better off living in a children’s home where everyone is trained in personal growth.

Because parents are much like those fraudulent personal growth, get rich, get well and thin, “take a tablet and become forever young/pain free/etc.” marketers.

Why? I guess a stupid person cannot teach another to be smart.

What is smart? It is smart to Learn from Life. Life has been around, successfully, way longer than you and me.
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Life is pain. Anyone who says differently is lying

Life is pain. Anyone who says differently is lying

discover-the-oceanWith some movies I ponder for years why I liked it.

One of these movies is The Princess Bride. Why do I love The Princess Bride? Why do I watch it a few times a year, especially when my energy level is low?

Because, for me, the movie is about persistence. It’s about working towards something remote and maybe even impossible, and yet…

There are a ton of amazing quotable sayings in that movie… here is one:

Buttercup: You mock my pain!
Man in Black: Life is pain, Highness. Anyone who says differently is selling something.


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The quality of your life boils down to action and patterns

The quality of your life boils down to action and patterns

If nothing changes. the future is predictableThe current state of human intelligence… and I mean the overall intelligence, can be easily tracked on detective movies… British ones are more honest than American movies.

As you may know, I like to watch those… I learn from them as much as from any course, while I am entertained as well.

The quality of a person’s life, your life, boils down to actions… and each and every action is a result of a choice.

The accuracy of your actions is a function of how many patterns you recognize accurately in the world.

If nothing changes about you, your future is quite predictable… it is downhill from here…

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You’ve Answered Some Tough Questions… But These Are Tougher Yet, Leading To An Examined Life

You’ve Answered Some Tough Questions… But These Are Tougher Yet, Leading To An Examined Life

tough-questions-figureThe feedback has been great on the tough questions. So here is another bunch.
Asking questions for the examined life… Great stuff.

    1. Do I listen to others? What do they have to say about that? Am I listening to how what they say fit? Am I listening to what they are up to this time? Am I listening if I agree or not? Am I really listening or just waiting for them to finish so I can speak?
    2. Do I pray only when I want something? Do I see people only when I need or what something? Do I think only of myself? Do I think of prayer as a food order at McDonald’s?

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    More Tough Questions for Self-Examination. Promised Results? Awakening? Quickening?

    More Tough Questions for Self-Examination. Promised Results? Awakening? Quickening?

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    1. Do I care about others? Do I pretend to care about others? Do I consider them human beings with the same rights as myself?
    2. Do I care what others think about me? Do I care too much what others think about me? Did I lose my sense of what I want because I care about what others think about me? Do others, in spite of me catering to what I think they want me to do, be, or have, ignore me, mistreat me, dump on me, criticize me?
    3. Do I complain? Sometimes? Or all the times? Do I think that if I complain enough life will change? People will change? I will change?
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    More questions for self-reflection

    More questions for self-reflection

    toughquestions-orangeHere are more questions. Don’t do them as a quiz… Pick the question that feels the most confronting, the one that makes your belly dance… The purpose of the questions, the purpose of your “inquiry” is to know yourself, not to impress someone else!

      1. Do I share myself, my real self? Or do I withhold myself, protect myself, be aloof? When I do share: do I share to share, or do I share to complain, to get sympathy?
      2. Do I tweet posts, if I do, because I want to share them, because I am generous, or because I want to prove to someone that what I read about people fits them like a glove? I feel vindicated because I agree that they are creeps… lol, not that funny
      3. Do I care about others? Do I pretend to care about others? Do I consider them human beings with the same rights as myself? Or do I think that their feelings don’t really matter…?

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      The Unexamined Life Begins With The Unwillingness To Ask Tough Questions… Do You Know How To Ask Tough Questions?

      asking questions is a sign of a good brain Here are 15 questions. They are not easy questions. It will take a little looking, a little pondering to answer them. Maybe even asking others… when the question asks for that.

      I have some 50 more where these came from… at a later date I’ll publish those too.

        1. Am I aware that someone always has it worse than me? Or do I keep my attention on what I don’t have? Can I turn this around?
        2. Am I cheap? As in “cheap bastard.” Who am I cheap with? Am I cheap with myself?

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        Casting errors in movies and what you can learn from them for your life

        Casting errors in movies and what you can learn from them for your life

        my-left-footWhat is wrong with movies, TV series, that I can’t stomach… or barely?

        I am talking about good stories. I am talking about shows with good or passable actors, good directing… And yet the show is scarcely enjoyable because the character doesn’t fit. the inner world of the character is off… tells a different story.

        Like the serial killer in The Fall… more about it later.
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        You are trying to eat soup with a fork…

        You are trying to eat soup with a fork…

        entraining-you-for-stupidityIt’s perplexing to watch humans trying to eat soup with a fork.

        Because while industry, science have advanced, humans, the race, has gone backwards.

        As a race.

        Backwards in intelligence… intellect, emotional, social, relationship, etc.

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        Fat burning body… what is the benefit… how do you do it?

        Fat burning body… what is the benefit… how do you do it?

        915340I got this question yesterday: How do I turn my body into a fat burning, fat fueled metabolism?

        I’ve done it, and I think most everybody can… but…

        Fat people think it means adding something to what they already eat, do, and it’s not how it works.

        Burning fat as body fuel is overhauling the whole body… And the moment you go back to the old way of fueling your body, the moment you turn your whole system, again, into sluggish carb burning machine.

        In the past 4-5 years I went from 165 lbs to 117 lbs… which is my normal weight. I did it with this method: by being a fat burner machine.

        Then I was offered a piece of sour candy on a stick… whatever they are called, and how small it appears to the eyes, the candy was about 10 grams, my body responded with cravings.

        And in a week I found myself buying candy… I still ate only one or two a day… But after another week I was four pounds heavier… 100 grams of candy turned into 2000 grams of fat… Ugh.

        Returning to becoming fat burner again… I am in the middle of it, is a real art: for the body to change its mind it takes a week or two, before it believes you. So with those extra four pounds I look as a 5 months pregnant female: not pretty. Or maybe I look like an African starving female… distended belly.

        This distended belly is called Kwashiorkor. It is a severe form of malnutrition, caused by nutritionalĀ  deficiency, mainly deficiency in dietary protein. The extreme lack of protein causes an osmotic imbalance in the gastro-intestinal system causing swelling of the gut diagnosed as an edema or retention of water.

        Makes no sense, I continued eating the same things… but the body related differently to what I ate… apparently refused to use the protein I ate… hm… curious.

        Anyway, I have started to lose some of the four pounds, but my energy hasn’t returned, I am having headaches, mood issues, but the candy ended up in the trash can so it stops seducing me, but I still haven’t returned to be a fat-burner.

        So it seems that a fat burner body and a carb burner body are like the body of two different species…

        Maybe if you never became fat it’s different… but I have been fat as many times as many times I tried to become slim… And I think: each time I trained my body to want to be fat. šŸ™

        Imagine changing your car to burn ethanol, aka alcohol for fuel, instead of gas (benzin in Europe, I think).

        You cannot just tweak it a little… it is an overhaul.

        My body loves burning fat. It allows my organs to do what they do best…

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