If I see you as beautiful… will you too?

If I see you as beautiful… will you too?

happy-babyIf I see you as beautiful… will you see yourself as beautiful?
If I see you as magnificent, great, awesome… will you see yourself like I do?

Muscletest and my experience says: no.

The most beautiful women spend hours in front of the mirror staring at their imperfections… trying to hide them.

There are also beautiful women who can say: so what. They are in search of some other imperfection.

We know ourselves intimately, and rare is the person who can leave it alone… who can refrain bemoaning their faults, and stop trying to fix themselves while keeping up appearances.
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What else? Where else? A spiritual practice

What else? Where else? A spiritual practice

where-elseOne of my ‘favorite’ practices is this:

I find out that I misunderstood something. It cost me to miss something. It cost me to misunderstand. And it always does.

So instead of getting upset. Or angry. Or beat myself up. I do something constructive.

I expand my cone of vision. Continue reading “What else? Where else? A spiritual practice”

Complaining And Other Politically Incorrect Phenomena

Complaining And Other Politically Incorrect Phenomena

the hidden gold in complaining The Gifts Of Complaining And Other Weird and Politically Incorrect Phenomena That Produces Dramatic Results

This article is about a counter-intuitive transformational technology you probably won’t find anywhere else… It is worth its weight in gold and it can make the biggest difference in your life, in your level of satisfaction, happiness and well-being. Continue reading “Complaining And Other Politically Incorrect Phenomena”

Authenticity is a matter of integrity on the highest level

Authenticity is a matter of integrity on the highest level
lying-is-comfortableTrying to act like a Buddha won’t make you a Buddha.

I just finished a webinar… Before the webinar one of my students wrote an email to me wondering why I don’t lie to them before and during a webinar. Why I don’t say that it is going to be easy. That it is going to be piece of cake.

But it had taken me quite a bit of time and effort to learn that trying to act like a Buddha won’t make me a Buddha.

The vulnerability that honesty requires isn’t something everybody can handle. So lying allows people to be comfortable. Continue reading “Authenticity is a matter of integrity on the highest level”

How true is your truth? Have theory induced blindness?

How true is your truth? Have theory induced blindness?

How true is your truth? Do you or your teachers have theory induced blindness? the world is still flat as far as human behavior is concerned…

This article is about the inner workings of a human… that if you get it wrong, the price you pay for the error is your life.

Is a human like a faucet assembly? When it drips you have to replace the whole thing?

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How the Canadian Government controls its people

How the Canadian Government controls its people

For years I have been pondering what the Canadian government does that makes its constituency so miserable and feel so superior at the same time.

Today a little corner of the mystery lifted.

A client of mine, “Finish What You Start” soul correction, has written me a long message describing his feelings and his behavior of being taken off task, off focus by idle curiosity, sensation and excitement seeking, while he would like to be focused, calm, well… and among others: sleep well.

I recommended that he takes Lithium Orotate, an inexpensive mineral supplement, that has worked miracles with my clients who had a difficulty staying focused, staying on target, getting to sleep on time, and getting enough restful sleep. Continue reading “How the Canadian Government controls its people”

Who and how Perpetuate The Culture Of Abuse?

Who and how Perpetuate The Culture Of Abuse?

the culture of abuse Who Perpetuates The Culture Of Abuse, The Culture Of Measuring Man And Woman’s Rights Differently? The Men Or The Women Of A Culture?

This is a controversial article. it will offend people. Rattle their. traditions. But unless someone speaks, nothing will change. I am taking on the risk to be that someone… When I see something, I can’t just step over it… OK, kill me now… lol

WTF are you talking about Sophie: of course it is the men! If women ran the world there would be peace… There would be love. There would be trust…

Wrong… please think again. Look again

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My Thanksgiving Gift to women. Why them? Read on…

My Thanksgiving Gift to women. Why them? Read on…

cattyI was watching, a TV series on Netflix. My preferred genre is crime and crime fighting. This series is called White Collar. The main character is a charming, charismatic, good looking, intelligent young man.

After seeing almost three whole seasons’ worth, I looked up the cast on google. Found out that our guy is gay. I was surprised because I didn’t see any signs of gayness, which are, typically (my personal experience) being attention seeking, catty, gossipy, disloyal, etc. Continue reading “My Thanksgiving Gift to women. Why them? Read on…”

Why do women, why do mothers, hold men back?

Why do women, why do mothers, hold men back?

Why do women, why do mothers, hold you back under the guise of protecting you?

I always ponder why things are the way they are.

I ask why more than once, more than three times… I ask and look.

One question that makes me ask why a lot nowadays, why is it that certain cultures have most children live their lives in mother-child, and why do others let the child live, where they should move to, to become independent, in father-child.

I have a theory, and like any theory it needs to be tested and tested again.

This theory is this: Continue reading “Why do women, why do mothers, hold men back?”

Today I realized why the holidays lower your vibration

Today I realized why the holidays lower your vibration

Today finally I found out why the holidays lower your vibration.

Why I never knew it? Because for the past 42 years I have had no family, so I wasn’t obligated to participate in any of the festivities.

So there there, the first reason: it is not an invitation. It is like death and taxes. Unless you go, you are disinherited.

But somehow until today I wasn’t feeling it. I wasn’t feeling that there was no choice.

The tyranny of family. Continue reading “Today I realized why the holidays lower your vibration”