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He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
Most of you live life as if you lived forever. You are patient when it comes to doing what you set out to do, have long term goals and aspirations for your life, that you do nothing about. You are patient.
But when you start doing something, you want instant result. You want it yesterday. Impatient.
This patient impatience renders you an unhappy loser, an underachiever, a never do well… Guaranteed.
Continue reading “Rewiring the brain: The chains of habits…”
This is an article I snatched from the New York Times…
What you don’t know is this: you teach your children to color inside the lines, never experiment, never make mistakes, to live in fear, and to experience little. To not even experience what they experience. To be little soldiers that will make you look good, while you attempt to live your life and give as little attention to the kids as you can.
Hell on earth…
One one hand you are protective, on the other you neglect them… And then you fell guilty.
Just look back at your childhood. You are stunted, and your children are stunted.
This article explains some of why… some, not all.
In the article of my own that I will publish today (it’s not ready yet) I will add some more clarity.
Everybody dreams of a stress free life… even though stress wakes you up. Stress as in challenge. I am not talking about the anxiety where you are fighting what if scenarios… that will never happen.
My countryman, who worked in Canada, Selye Janos (aka Hans Selye), was an endocrinologist, who was the first to demonstrate the existence of biological stress.
Stress response, what stress can do to your body.
But in his groundbreaking book, “Stress without Distress” he showed that stress also keeps us alive.
Continue reading “It’s amazing how much you can get if you quietly, clearly, and authoritatively demand it…”
Here is an article from skills you need dot com
The term ‘Life Skills’ refers to the skills you need to make the most out of life.
Life skills are usually associated with managing and living a better quality of life. They help us to accomplish our ambitions and live to our full potential.
Any skill that is useful in your life can be considered a life skill. Tying your shoe laces, swimming, driving a car and using a computer are, for most people, useful life skills.
Here at Skills You Need you’ll find lots of information about life skills and life skill development. We don’t cover tying your shoe laces but you will find hundreds of articles around personal development.
Continue reading “Life skills… skills you need for a good life”
The most popular page on this site, www.yourvibration.com, is my Mind Movies review page.
So I decided to add a few words to it… I added this today:
Bad news: no matter what program you buy, if you remain the same inside, small, arrogant, and fearful, no program will do anything for you… For most people there is a chasm, a big divide between what they want and what they do… And that big divide needs to be bridged by small purposeful actions. But the problem I see with any results based goal setting program: most people are incapable of designing the small actions, let alone doing them. So the success rate of a program like Mind Movies is way less than 1%…
Continue reading “What can YOU reasonably expect from any program?”
I wrote this article back in March… before I got my health number up… So it is only half true about myself, and fully true about you…
Read this article as if you were a sleuth… the words I want you to pay attention to is “need to”, “want to”, “have to”, and “should”.
Life is much like a sword play… You can do it… as slash slash or elegantly, economical precise practiced movements, like a dance. 1
I saw something this morning.
I was knocked awake… painfully.
How many things you know how to do, how many things can you do?
Continue reading “The secret everyone misses. Thinking about flying isn’t…”
A bit of history? with a labio dental fricative.
The History of the Middle Finger:
Well, now……here’s something I never knew before, and now that I know it, I feel compelled to send it on to my more intelligent friends in the hope that they, too, will feel edified.
Before the Battle of Agincourt in 1415, the French, anticipating victory over the English, proposed to cut off the middle finger of all captured English soldiers. Without the middle finger it would be impossible to draw the renowned English longbow and therefore they would be incapable of fighting in the future. This famous English longbow was made of the native English Yew tree, and the act of drawing the longbow was known as ‘plucking the yew’ (or ‘pluck yew’).
Much to the bewilderment of the French, the English won a major upset and they began mocking the French by waving their middle fingers at the defeated French, saying, See, we can still pluck yew! Since ‘pluck yew’ is rather difficult to say, the difficult consonant cluster at the beginning has gradually changed to a labiodentalfricative ‘F’, and thus the words often used in conjunction with the one-finger-salute! It is also because of the pheasant feathers on the arrows used with the longbow that the symbolic gesture is known as ‘giving the bird.’
And yew thought yew knew every plucking thing. Didn’t yew!!
How to measure vibration? How to measure spiritual vibration? how to measure your vibrational frequencyThe vibration number, often called ‘vibrational frequency,’ tells a lot about a person.
According to many teachers, you need to raise your vibration to the level of the things you want…
This video is about that:
Hi, I am Empath Sophie… I am a true empath… I’ll guide you here to understanding. Continue reading “How to measure vibration? vibrational frequency…”
The original of this article was published a year ago… I have added new insights today
The secret of my being able to change, and be reborn with a higher frequency, a higher vibration, is that I have been able to keep in check the societal imperative to care about other people more than I care about myself. And in addition to that, I have been able to admit to myself all the errors of my ways that I can see. So I don’t even want to look good to myself. I am willing to accept myself, warts and all… for all I am and for all I am lacking.
This comes with giving up the emotional impact of others view of me, of others opinion of me, of others praise or hate of me, and my opinion of me… especially when I make a mistake, a false step, or when I make a fool of myself.
This attachment to opinions needs to be actively given up: no epigenetic shift, no transformation, no energy remedy will make these opinions neutral: we do live in a society, and others opinion of you and your products determines your money: and your money determines whether you eat, be sheltered, have leisure time, and a lot more. And your own opinion about yourself will determine whether you are going to play fully… or shrink.
So opinions are important, but they are not important emotionally.
Fear is emotional. Careful, thoughtful pro-action is not.
Continue reading “Updated: The secret of being able to change”
It’s been a weird couple of days.
Every time I stop doing something my mind goes to evil acts I have seen in movies or read about in books.
It started with the Marco Polo series on Netflix. I realized that I can’t watch betrayal… something about betrayal is too difficult for me to be with.
I wondered if it was that I saw myself in either the traitor or the betrayed, but I don’t think it’s that.
But it dislodged a veritable mound of buried memories of acts in books and other movies.
