Doing The Dishes, Kaizen, Boundaries, more

Originally posted 2008-12-04 11:30:07.

As difficult as dirty dishes can be, they’re even worse when you let them sit for a while. And the longer they sit, the harder they are to clean.

This is life. Something that is potentially easy to clean up right after it happens – an unkind word to your father, a lie to your best friend, an insensitivity to your girlfriend – can become a difficult mess if you don’t deal with it now.

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The Path to Enlightenment: an inside affair?

Originally posted 2013-01-05 15:20:51.

I love movies where humans seem to be endowed with supernatural capabilities. They are fun, and they give hope to people. For me they show the possibility of being a human being, shows me what’s possible, what kind of being is possible for human beings.

Hope in those supernatural beings, like in all saviors, allows humanity to be wretched, to buy time, to live below its potential, to live in hate, to live in pretense, to live in unreality, to never have to take responsibility for who we are and how we are. Continue reading “The Path to Enlightenment: an inside affair?”

Soul Correction: Farewell To Arms

Originally posted 2013-01-04 10:16:27.

Your Soul Correction is “Farewell to arms”

There is a Hungarian saying that the intelligent won’t stick by their gun, they let the other person win. People with this soul correction are not intelligent that way. They argue, they fault-find, they start animosity and wars.

Don’t hold grudges, don’t get into arguments, the only thing you are protecting is not real, it’s the ego, and it is a made-up persona. Live and let live. You’ll be a happier person. And the world will be a better place.

The underlying ego based desire is greed. Greed for significance, greed to be right, greed to power over another.
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Fructose in the infant formula formed your personality?

Originally posted 2013-01-02 13:03:38.

There are some unchallenged myths about well-being, being emotionally and intellectually well-adjusted, that are ripe to be challenged.

One of the myths, one of the urban legends is that infants, when they grow up in an institution, and aren’t touched, held, they develop to be emotionally disturbed, aloof, self-absorbed, etc. adults.

But what if there is more to this early development than meets the eye?

Some of my closest associates were either adopted as infants, were prematurely born, and not breast fed as infants.

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What is an Avatar? What is the Job of an Avatar?

Originally posted 2013-01-01 18:01:37.

What is an Avatar?

There is a huge confusion about avatars on the Internet. The recent blockbuster is partially to blame, Avatar.

I watched the movie. I enjoyed it. A certain point I had to go and do something for like 20 minutes: the conflict in the movie was impossible for me to bear. Continue reading “What is an Avatar? What is the Job of an Avatar?”

Path To Enlightenment: I Recommend Eliminating Drama

Originally posted 2013-01-01 13:15:21.

Drama is a human phenomenon. Animals, trees, don’t know drama. Nature doesn’t know drama. Existence doesn’t know drama.

Drama is the result of ego-mind.

If you closed your eyes, and managed, for a moment, pulling your attention back from the future, and pulling your attention back from the past, you would get to a space, I call existence. Existence is not part of the time/space continuum, existence is part of the beyond. Continue reading “Path To Enlightenment: I Recommend Eliminating Drama”

Path To Enlightenment: What Is Enlightenment?

Originally posted 2012-12-31 20:40:48.

Enlightenment is not a place to get to: it is a state, it is a relationship to existence, that exists outside of duality, outside of right and wrong, outside of time, outside of comparison and outside of competition.

In spite of what everyone says, enlightenment is not something that you arrive to and then you are set for life. Continue reading “Path To Enlightenment: What Is Enlightenment?”

The most significant accomplishment of the 20th Century

Originally posted 2012-12-20 13:51:04.

I think the biggest and most significant accomplishment of the the 20th Century was distinguishing that you can muscletesting.

The original idea of that, which they called muscletesting, was that the body knows what’s true and what’s not. Unfortunately, the body what’s good for it, but not exactly the way muscletesting has been using and abusing it. Continue reading “The most significant accomplishment of the 20th Century”

Divinity: Can you activate divinity that’s not there?

Originally posted 2012-12-20 11:36:17.

My early attempts to activate divinity were complete failures.

It wasn’t a course: it was a process. I called it ‘The Juice Process’ at the time, and have done it either one-on-one, or two or three-on-one. I had two ‘apprentices’ to learn the process. That’s why the one or two other people were on the call in addition to the client and myself. Continue reading “Divinity: Can you activate divinity that’s not there?”