what is love? how do you go about getting it? what is it buying you?

Originally posted 2012-04-01 08:00:07.

crying baby reaches out to be picked up What is love?

When we are babies: love is attention. We can’t do anything for ourselves, and someone paying attention to us equals love to us. Our comfort, our survival depends on it.

We each “earned” the attention inĀ  different ways, and then settled on one or two ways that worked the best.

We cried for the bottle in a whiny way, suggesting to our caretaker that we are dying. Pleading, begging, modulating our cry until we got a response.

crying baby We cried for the bottle with anger, anguish, or threat. We cried to get a clean diaper. We cried to be picked up.

We also manipulated our caretakers by smiles, by reaching out to them, grabbing their fingers, maybe laugh, little manipulative signs that made them feel good, liked, maybe even loved.

Just like pets learn to push your buttons: it is all self-serving, to make us get attention and food, shelter, and petting.
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Activators produce permanent change once they are established… What’s in the way? What’s the difficulty?

Originally posted 2012-03-27 16:05:05.

PhotoReading and normal reading produce different results Activators produce permanent change once they are established… What’s in the way?

In several tests, comparing comprehension and the ability to recall and use the information after reading a book, people performed much better when they read the book with the PhotoReading method than when they read it “normally.” The retention, the length of time that the knowledge is available was also multiple of the “normal” reading length.

The tests compare the same person, (as opposed to groups) so the base knowledge, the vocabulary, and interests, (which are fundamentally influencing the results,) are the same in the comparison. Person A, normal reading, vs. person A PhotoReading, got it? If you compared my results with yours, the comparison would not be valid, because we have a different level of knowledge and vocabulary, and interests.

So the comparison is comparing comprehension between two states:

  1. you have a chance to read every word with your conscious mind, look up words that you don’t know, re-read paragraphs that you don’t understand completely, ponder, etc. You can read, at the rate of about 30 pages an hour, and it will take as long as it takes.
  2. in an altered state of mind, with eyes fuzzy and focused behind the pages so you cannot actually see what’s on the page, at a rate of 1 page a second… a normal book takes a few minutes to read this way.

Why would it be so? After all it doesn’t make sense, does it?

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When should you get the Unconditional Love Activator?

Originally posted 2012-02-12 08:55:29.

timing is everything How things work: when should you get the Unconditional Love Activator and why?

When you first get your Unconditional Love Activator, the results will vary.

Why is that? Why isn’t an activator doing the same thing for everybody?

The answer is not as simple as you would like it to be.
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From My Correspondence: Who The Heck Gave You Authority?

Originally posted 2012-02-09 11:01:41.

Amy asks, after doing the Unconditional Love Activator the first time:

Right after I did the Unconditional Love activator, I experienced my eyes fluttering and I couldn’t focus. The top of my head ached. I agreed with commands and I thought, of course, that makes sense. like I already knew that I just had to be reminded. Also this morning when I woke up, I thought: ‘The key to this whole thing is love’ that was it.

Interesting. Sometimes I feel like the way you deliver this message is a mother telling her children what to do. I wonder where you get the authority? Just wondering how you came to this point of authority on connecting with source? How are you so sure you are able to read peoples vibes? Is there some place we can read more about you on your blog? I have read many of your post and find you interesting and I think your love connection is right on!

Thank you

Here is my (long) answer:

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From My Correspondence: Awakening: Will It Feel Good?

Originally posted 2012-02-03 20:57:37.

From My Correspondence: Awakening: Will It Feel Good?

This is a student’s email to me.

“I’ve been reading your emails and doing the Unconditional Love Activator and taken the Bach Flower Remedy and I have felt things that I haven’t felt in a while, such as getting angry, wishing others wouldn’t win, etc.
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The state of the planet: January 2012

Originally posted 2012-01-10 11:36:48.

Report on the state of the planet

dark side: grew to 9% in the last month from 1%. Cause: fear, the result of fearmongering

average vibration: 100

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Money Grubbing Gurus. Money and Vibration

Originally posted 2011-12-28 16:33:43.

Are gurus in it for the money? Are you just a means for them to get rich?

Are the teachers that don’t make any money have a higher vibration? They are surely in it for you, right?

Where should you look when you want to decide who to follow? What should you do to actually start getting what you want and need to live a great and fulfilled life?

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Soul Correction: Global Transformation

Originally posted 2011-12-25 20:39:15.

Soul Correction: Global Transformation

With a title like that, you would expect that a soul correction like that will encourage the human to direct all their attention outward and try to change, improve, transform other people’s lives.

But when it comes to soul correction, normal societal logic doesn’t apply.

If you want to cause anything outside of you, you really have to cause it inside of you. Bummer, right?

All the revolutionaries, and campaigners, and reformers, and global warming people, and conspiracy theorists, listen up!
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Do I need to connect to Source? asks a reader

Originally posted 2011-12-17 15:22:33.

when we connect to Source, you are like diamonds in my crown: I know if you are there!Hi Sofie,

I was not able to make it to the Saturday evening Connect To Source webinar at 6 pm last week either. I will get up early on this Saturday to be in on the 6:00 am webinar. I feel I really need some direction and I do understand it is part of the program. I have been reading the books, reports, and articles on your website, They are very enlightening. Continue reading “Do I need to connect to Source? asks a reader”

Help Make Me An Amazon Best Selling Author… Please?

Originally posted 2011-12-11 13:43:54.

the grand experiment book on amazonIf you ever wanted to get the Unconditional Love Activator but didn’t want to pay seven bucks, here is your chance to get it for 99 cents.

In my new book on Kindle, The Grand Experiment, there is a link to the Activator. All you have to pay is the 99 cents on Kindle.
If you don’t have a Kindle, you can view it on the Kindle PC edition…

https://www.amazon.com/The-Grand-Experiment-ebook/dp/B006K6EI9C/

Easy.

Now, why would you want to get the Unconditional Love Activator?

Well, this is why:

The Unconditional Love Activation is Your First Step To Freedom, Power, Purpose, And Self-Expression

When You Feel You Are Loved, Appreciated -Unconditionally – Life Stops Being An Uphill Struggle

Before the activation, you do stuff so that people like you, accept you, so you can feel useful and ok.
After the activation, you know. Not with your conscious mind, instead you know it with your whole being.

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