Become all you can become with Sophie
He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
When people come to a session to learn to connect to Source, the first hurdle they need to go through is to find their attention.
Seeing something doesn’t mean your attention is there.
Hearing something doesn’t mean your attention is there.
When you feel something, it doesn’t mean your attention is there.
Continue reading “Are you using your attention? Attention: a strong physical energy that can move mountains”
The price of pretending being kind, nice, friendly, etc. All your colors vs. your true colors painted over… choose
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A bug free mind reader question. How to tell judgment from observation, surrender from resistance?
As I mentioned in a previous article, the Bug Free books** 1 can be your kindergarten, elementary school and maybe even your college… Then you need, if you are ambitious enough, if you have done well enough in those grades, you can start working with me.
Yesterday I had a session with a student, and that really drove it home for me.
Attending a class with me gives you the instant illusion that you have learned something. That you know something.
Continue reading “Judgment vs observation, surrender vs resistance?”
Surprise: I don’t need your gratitude. I don’t want your gratitude. I know what works, and I can find out if it worked for you without ever having to ask you. That’s what you can do with empathy.
So why do I encourage you to share? So others can hear that it works? Like a testimonial?
No, neither, but that’s a good idea, maybe I’ll use them as a testimonial!
So why then do I encourage you to share publicly?
Continue reading “Do I want, do I need your gratitude? Do I have Unrequited love?”
I wonder if you ever pondered where nightmares like most Doctor Who stories are, come from?
My hunch is that they come from reality.
Take the story where humans, one by one, by touch, are turned into human-size grinning or weeping toys. And now that they are toys with no will of their own, the only will they have is to turn other humans into toys like themselves.
Lots of people, women and men, have a feeling that they are just placeholders or commodities for their friends or lovers.
Even coaches and gurus can have that feeling: actually this is what lead me to start this article.
Whenever I have a question about someone, or have time, I look up the online profiles of people that want to become a student of mine.
So I looked up someone today who has been a student, on and off for about two years now. I have had mixed feeling about her, so I looked her up.
Continue reading “Are you being used? Do you feel used? Is it real?”
Cats are notoriously individualistic, and abhor being herded, or even told what to do.
Your (and) my aspects are like cats: enjoying and protecting their freedoms you have given them all these years, that you thought they were the boss. Your boss.
I am talking here of the aspects of your mind, your emotions, your thoughts, and your urges.
Continue reading “Coaching is often like herding cats…”
What is the difference between a blind man and you?
You would think that the difference is that you can see and the blind man can’t… But the real difference is that the blind man knows…
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Make a list of areas where wanting, your wanting dominates the situation. Where you are in the situation purely or mostly because you want something.
What can you want? What do you want? How to find it? Look for where you want
Is calling that fuzzy feeling, that uplifting feeling, what the love gurus meant for us to be? The love they say god is?
I don’t think so.
I think no person in their right mind would think that god, whatever that may be, is sitting there loving you up… feeling love.
So what does that make you? A person not in their right mind? Exactly.
Continue reading “Love”
