Become all you can become with Sophie
He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
It’s a behavior we mostly only know as “missing” in others.
We see what others don’t do… and we complain.
We rarely see ourselves not doing a complete and thorough job.
Why? Because doing a complete and thorough job means going outside the narrow swath our cone of vision lights up.
Even when someone gives us feedback, we consider it their problem…
Here is a positive example:
Continue reading “Intangible capacity: complete and thorough”
For consciousness to awaken and become part of your life, you need to be willing to be stupid.
But if all your life you’ve taken pride in being smart, that “smart” has you in its clutches…
You try to do life with your mind, with your intellect, you are trying to get smarter… but smarts will only get you so far…
Smarts will not even allow you to understand what I am talking about. You see it is something you want. I tell you, you can’t get it through smarts. But you are unwilling to let go of being smart… so you are stuck.
When I am sent a link to video… I know I lost that person. They went to a heady, brainy stuff to figure out what I was saying.
For hours. For days. For weeks, months, years. But what I talk about cannot be “gotten” with the intellect or with the mind.
Why? Because it comes from consciousness, and only consciousness can get it.
Continue reading “You can’t think your way to consciousness… you need to start with consciousness”
Psychologist Daniel Goleman, personal vibration: 200, 10 capacities active, 7% truth value, talks about the flow as a state, when things seem to go just right, when you feel alive, and fully aware…
And they say: it alters your consciousness…
What they don’t see, can’t see, that flow is the “state” when you, for some reason, stop blocking the flow… when YOU, as your identity, are not there.
What am I talking about?
Soul corrections, the names and categories I borrowed from Kabbalah, seem to be 72 ways that you can block the flow and live a life of scarcity (and lack of intelligence).
The psychologists don’t see it, but each moment that there is no flow, your stingy self is there blocking it.
Continue reading “The Flow… Life… The Light… how do you block the flow?”
I just had a breakthrough…
I have been teaching you how to raise your consciousness, your level of consciousness, by allowing something or someone guide you to look at things beyond where you always look, and differently than you have always looked.
I consider myself always a student as well… so I have been listening to myself, and following my own teaching.
But the results, in the area of growing visibility, increasing my following, increasing my income, have been stagnant… I could not see anything new…
Until this morning. Continue reading “A breakthrough in raising my level of consciousness”
As you may know, I work with consciousness… Let me rephrase that: I send consciousness to do research for me before I choose a path.
Of course, consciousness is not some entity independent of me, so it cannot go far… in essence, consciousness is on a leash: unless I go, it cannot go. So, I am talking about working together: I go, consciousness looks.
So it is like a seeing eye dog.
It comes back with lot of options… and it is up to me what paths I can take, and what paths I cannot take.
Can, cannot… can’t I take any path?
After all the saying says: you can be anything you put your mind into… but it is a stupid suggestion for two reasons I can see:
Continue reading “Make consciousness guide you and other important stuff”
Imagine having to find your way through a maze without seeing past the tiny circle a flashlight can illuminate?
“Luckily” you only have to look at your life. Your health, your money, your love life.
You ARE living your life, a veritable maze, by the light of a flashlight.
You read an article here… yay, I see may way. A sound bite there… yay, I see now… But it is still the tiny flashlight method: you don’t see the big picture, you don’t see your way to the good life.
Seeing the full picture, the big picture capacity, looking with consciousness that can see everything, is like turning the ceiling light on: you’d be seeing a lot more, wouldn’t you? Making less “narrow picture” mistakes…
Continue reading “Narrow cone of vision and your health”
I was talking about the wrong turns one makes in life; you make them several times a day…
To the mind, choosing between two options, and getting yourself into a horrible dead end is no big deal. Easy as pie…
Getting your out of it: for the mind it is impossible.
So I have been testing Consciousness in the same arena.
Continue reading “Your life is a mess. can you clean it up with consciousness?”
The allure to jump into doing is very strong. Or alternatively waiting… and doing nothing.But “They” say: without action nothing happens. Some say: take lots of action, imperfect actions.
But no one is talking about looking, no one is talking about conscious awareness.
Conscious awareness is what separates a human from an animal. Continue reading “False starts, crushed dreams… if that’s your life… listen up”
I know, I know, I am riding this distinction horse… and no one is getting on it with me.
But, don’t you think that you resisting it, or your genes resisting it… it is kind of telling?
Telling of what, Sophie?
That getting the distinction of distinction… looking at life through distinctions makes you as close to being a master of life as any human can ever get!? And that you are living in the “no mastery” zone… waiting for a miracle?
I have never done anything as smart as deciding to use the 67 step program as the structure inside which I coach people.
Why? Because Tai is doing the hard work. Every video works on one or two distinctions. If you get it as distinction: your life will start to move. If you get it as example… your life will remain stuck.
Continue reading “The path to the life you want to live is distinctions.”
I saw something really important this morning.
One of my students is planning to build a business that he can do while working for a big corporation full time.
He knows what he wants to do. He knows why he wants to do it. He has the skills: he is good at it. If he gets a client: the client will be happy.
But… having a product, a service, is one thing. Selling it is another thing.
To sell anything doesn’t need you to be good at doing the service, or creating a good product.
Selling is a whole other business.
You either need a partner who can sell anything, or you need to become good at sales. Not easy.
Why? Because to sell anything, an idea, a relationship, intimacy, sex, going on vacation… anything, you need to be able to be in the other person’s head and speak from there.
Continue reading “The dangers of having empathy…”
