Become all you can become with Sophie
He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
Everyone can get to the good life, but not everyone will get to the good life. Why? Because not everyone is willing to do what they need to do to get to the good life.
Tai Lopez said that. What he didn’t say: you need to go beyond where you are comfortable, so you’ll need a second wind.
And it is true on certain conditions. Continue reading “Second Wind: Abilities or effort? The role of effort”
Bread of shame 1 is a term Kabbalah uses for a situation when someone receives and receives, with no means, no desire, or no opportunity to reciprocate or earn it.
Welfare recipients eat bread of shame.
Adult children who don’t pull their weight live on bread of shame
And I have had some opportunities for bread of shame…
Receiving bread of shame is often the perpetration in the perpetration-withhold dynamic.
You receive unearned benefits… and to compensate, you get angry and hate the giver. Nasty dynamic. Sinister.
Continue reading “Bread of shame and the capacity that makes it OK to receive… by earning it retrospectively.”
How does your mind stop you from freedom, grace and ease? From feeling good about yourself and your life…
This article is about some more bad news about the mind, on the mechanism it uses to make your prison tighter by the day… and about the simple, elegant, and inexpensive solution to set yourself free
Continue reading “How does your mind stop you from freedom, grace and ease? From feeling good about yourself and your life…”
Psychologist Daniel Goleman, personal vibration: 200, 10 capacities active, 7% truth value, talks about the flow as a state, when things seem to go just right, when you feel alive, and fully aware…
And they say: it alters your consciousness…
What they don’t see, can’t see, that flow is the “state” when you, for some reason, stop blocking the flow… when YOU, as your identity, are not there.
What am I talking about?
Soul corrections, the names and categories I borrowed from Kabbalah, seem to be 72 ways that you can block the flow and live a life of scarcity (and lack of intelligence).
The psychologists don’t see it, but each moment that there is no flow, your stingy self is there blocking it.
Continue reading “The Flow… Life… The Light… how do you block the flow?”
Our ultimate aim is to become fully conscious and capable as unique individual expressions of All That Is.
This is very catchy… titillating even. I read this on a blog talking about the reincarnated soul… Barry McGuiness: personal vibration: 170. Truth value of teaching: 4%.
People look at spiritual work as titillating, and that is why nothing happens as a result of the “work” they do. 2
Work is always painful. Work is never “nice”, never an experience, never passive. The soul isn’t doing the work, and the world’s people consciousness isn’t like the Bell Curve…
It’s more like 99.99999999999999% of humanity is unconscious, and has scarcely any spiritual capacities working for them.
Continue reading “Our ultimate aim is to become fully conscious and capable”
As you may know, I work with consciousness… Let me rephrase that: I send consciousness to do research for me before I choose a path.
Of course, consciousness is not some entity independent of me, so it cannot go far… in essence, consciousness is on a leash: unless I go, it cannot go. So, I am talking about working together: I go, consciousness looks.
So it is like a seeing eye dog.
It comes back with lot of options… and it is up to me what paths I can take, and what paths I cannot take.
Can, cannot… can’t I take any path?
After all the saying says: you can be anything you put your mind into… but it is a stupid suggestion for two reasons I can see:
Continue reading “Make consciousness guide you and other important stuff”
Imagine having to find your way through a maze without seeing past the tiny circle a flashlight can illuminate?
“Luckily” you only have to look at your life. Your health, your money, your love life.
You ARE living your life, a veritable maze, by the light of a flashlight.
You read an article here… yay, I see may way. A sound bite there… yay, I see now… But it is still the tiny flashlight method: you don’t see the big picture, you don’t see your way to the good life.
Seeing the full picture, the big picture capacity, looking with consciousness that can see everything, is like turning the ceiling light on: you’d be seeing a lot more, wouldn’t you? Making less “narrow picture” mistakes…
Continue reading “Narrow cone of vision and your health”
I know, I know, I am riding this distinction horse… and no one is getting on it with me.
But, don’t you think that you resisting it, or your genes resisting it… it is kind of telling?
Telling of what, Sophie?
That getting the distinction of distinction… looking at life through distinctions makes you as close to being a master of life as any human can ever get!? And that you are living in the “no mastery” zone… waiting for a miracle?
I have never done anything as smart as deciding to use the 67 step program as the structure inside which I coach people.
Why? Because Tai is doing the hard work. Every video works on one or two distinctions. If you get it as distinction: your life will start to move. If you get it as example… your life will remain stuck.
Continue reading “The path to the life you want to live is distinctions.”
After your anchor-to-doom attachment is pulled… A whole new set of choices show up… Will you choose differently? All future depends on that.As you know I use my own life as a kind of laboratory to test if there are really changes when I say there will be changes, and if indeed the new choices will give you a new life.
I am at a point of choice, so let us see the whole process, and see what we see. OK?
For background, enough to suffice, I hope, that just having a website, one website, and even lots of unique articles won’t get you far in today’s economy. You need to have and you need to do a lot more to make a living.
About six-seven weeks ago I set up such a supportive system on a well recommended web hosting site, and it took a lot of work. Then the web hosting site decided to do some internal work, and it hasn’t gone well. My supportive system (100 websites) is entirely offline. I am paying 99 dollars rent. And they don’t seem to care about me.
Now, here it is where it gets juicy for our purposes.
Continue reading “Republished: The secret words that activate a dormant DNA”
I am reading Richard Dawkins’ The Selfish Gene. The genes that use humans as vehicles, and are only interested in procreation, and not in the life experience of the vehicle.
But, as I have said before, there are 160 intangible capacities, mostly dormant, in the human DNA. The ones that we are going to look at in this article are the capacities (genes) of generosity (altruism) and trust.
Trust and generosity seem to be at odds with the selfishness of the genes… but they don’t have to be.
Envy is at odds with trust and generosity, because envy means: desire to receive for the self alone… i.e. wanting the other to lose more than wanting to win. Considering the other losing as a win for you. Considering the other’s misfortune, suffering, pain, as a win for you.
According to Kabbalah, that is the only evil there is. I see it clearly.
Continue reading “Can you be selfish and generous at the same time?”
