Become all you can become with Sophie
He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
One famous marketer is filling my mail box with emails to double the speed of my reading. I used to jump on offers like that, I have taken three different speed reading classes, one even back in Hungary.
It seemed to me, like it probably seems to you, that getting the knowledge out of the written word faster would double your knowledge, and maybe double your success.
It makes sense, doesn’t it?
Continue reading “Double your reading speed… would that be really good for you?”
I had this insight in that theta brain state in the morning when I was about to wake up…
I have been struggling with acid reflux. It started about three weeks ago when I started to enjoy some jam on my toast again in the morning.
I forgot why I’d stopped using anything that has fruit in it… the fructose! duh.
But then, in this half dream half awake state, the insights came.
I have a client who can only whisper, because his vocal cord got damaged…
And there is this other client who has a tumor in his throat…
Originally this article was published in August of 2011. I did a planetary activator then, and this article is about the aftermath… quite disappointing.
What makes this article timely is that the behavior it’s about hasn’t change. You learn new things and you don’t use them. You continue behaving the way you always behaved… as if nothing happened.
What you forget is this: your capacities don’t tell you what to do, you tell yourself what to do, and then you are able to do them with new capacities, successfully.
My Avatar State Audios, my articles, my coaching tells you, shows you what to do, but it is you who needs to decide to do that new thing, and actually do it.
You can take the horse to the water, but you can’t force it to drink… It is entirely up to you.
Continue reading “Human Nature And The Activation”
I wrote this article four years ago.
I re-read it. Since then my weight dropped to 122 lbs, and I can be considered thin. And most of the things I swear by in this article are no longer true.
The truth value of this article is 10%… meaning: 90% is not true.
Since I wrote this I have learned a lot. So what is not true? beef. Grass fed means that in the last month of the cow’s life they turn off the grain… Not enough to clean the cow up…
Butter: turns out that there are two kinds of cows: the original cow and the enhanced cow, enhanced for milk production. The original cow is only in a handful of countries, France, India, and if I remember correctly, Iceland or Greenland… the skinny looking cows…
The cows that give a lot of milk are killer cows. Their milk will rot your teeth, make you fat, give you heart disease, childhood diabetes. Continue reading “I hit the magic button. Starting to drop weight”
I measured someone’s vibration, re-measured 3 times. It was consistently 100.
We emailed back and forth, this is the last email that came, this morning:
Hello Sophie,
My last message to you was a kind of joke, I must apologize and thank you for your reply. The reason for my writing is to let you know for the final time that you are wrong. My vibration is somewhere around 350, not 100.
Your ‘measurement’ threw me off and brought me down! I was left to ponder and bounce this around my head for too long, (nearly 2 days) before it was finally undeniable that it was not the truth. I am now just left to wonder how often you make such mistakes. People that come to you for help may be vulnerable and I urge you to take caution. I believe that you think you are 100% (maybe just 99%) correct so I will not go into the $ side of this.
The main purpose of this email is to simply urge you to please go and check yourself. Healers are sometimes among the 1st to need healing. I do not personally want anything from you, or expect that you do, this is simply a plea.
Be well,
Thank you, you taught me a big lesson.
V
I am glad to share this email with everyone, and answer it publicly. This article is to clarify and explain what is the issue between the email writer and myself… And potentially between what you ask for and what you get.
This article may leave you disturbed, confused. Just hang in there.
First off: my muscletest answers the question I ask. You may have asked a different question, meant a different question, had a different question in mind, but I will take it you asked the same question I will ask ‘Source’ in the muscletest, and therein lies the problem.
The way we speak it, the listener can only assume that they know what you said. In classes it takes me several minutes to succeed in making the speaker re-word what they said so it is clear and has only on meaning.
You don’t know what you say doesn’t mean anything. You think you are communicating.
And you don’t know what you hear doesn’t mean anything… you think you heard what you think you heard.
The language is a relational associative tool, everything is connected to everything in it… and that is both its strength and its pitfall. 1
In the Playground we learn and practice a kind of speaking that reduces every utterance to what’s real, what is not associative, not relational, not meaning, not interpretation, not concept, not generality, but real.
Because none of those (concept, generalities, etc.) can be real. If everyone has a different meaning for those, they are not real… real is the same for everyone. Even a Martian (imaginary alien) unfamiliar with our culture, could say the same thing. If you need the Martian to know the cultural meaning of things, it is not real.
Now, what does this have to do with the woman who asked for her vibrational reading and is now suggesting that I have my head examined? (I am exaggerating, this is not what she said… sorry Martian… lol.)
People talk how they talk, and if they actually mean to communicate, they have a defined meaning, a definition of the words they use. Many people like to fish in the muddy waters, and they create the muddy waters with their words… beware.
Obviously, I am one to blame. I have popularized the word ‘vibration’ but I mean something other than what most people mean.
What most people mean is aliveness, density, energy, mood. But those are derivative of some internal ‘thing’ that I measure.
There are people that say: exercise, and your vibration will jump up. No, your vibration will not respond to exercise, maybe your mood, or your physical energy, or mental clarity, but not your vibration.
There are people that say: anger is low vibration… suppress it. Replace it with love. Or upgrade your emotions by saying more positive things, and your vibration will go up with it.
But that ‘theory’ also considers your vibration as malleable as your temperature…
My vibration doesn’t go down when I am angry, even when I get temporarily depressed, like yesterday.
Your vibration doesn’t go higher when you have a mystical experience. When you feel spiritual. When you feel loving. When you just want to hug everybody.
Because the vibration I measure is a more complex phenomenon: it looks at you in relationship to All-of-it, to possibility, to Expanding Human Being, to the direction of evolution of humans.
The different aspects of a human, of course, know which way they are supposed to grow if they are to keep up with the law of evolution.
The current level of human evolution 2 is that humans are
Not that far from the animal kingdom.
These are hard-wired behaviors, like it is hard wired in a fish to live in the water. Yet, some fish climbed out of water eons ago, and practiced living there, until a new species was born that can live on land.
It’s OK to remain a fish, but you need to know that to remain on the level of the stone age man is not your natural state, your natural state, what is in harmony with all-of-it and the inner urge to evolve, is to become a human being.
Most humans will choose to not evolve. To not use brain plasticity, different actions, to get on the path of evolving themselves and the species.
It is a matter of your
All these three deserve an article by themselves, I, instead, have workshops, ongoing workshops for them… because, after all, this is behavioral, even your consciousness is behavioral. Unless you look, you won’t see. Unless you stop to think, you’ll always end up with your prejudice. Talking to your prejudiced mind will not make much of a difference. 3
It is not a very comfortable program, in that most of what you know never happened, not true, and you have lived your life based on that knowledge. Not pleasant to look at your life and see that it’s the result of delusion, fuzzy thinking, mistakes and prejudices. It isn’t, trust me.
But the rewards are tremendous. Miraculous, if you ask me.
People ask me how I raise my own vibration from 35 to 180, and I can tell you, it was 90% in the Playground that I did it. I had nearly everything I know turn out to be not so… grrrr… but once I saw it, it was gone. For good.
The remedies help with fear and taking steps that will take you out of the water. They also help you to have the courage to look around and not be fixated on what tries to hold your attention: mostly bad stuff.
In the Itch experiment and what will come out of it, an actual course, we’ll take back our power to call the shot, instead of leaving it to happenstance, circumstance, other people, prejudice, fear, resistance, anger, and other stuff like that.
The woman who I mention in the beginning of this article, has a different interpretation of vibration, and never considered that we are not talking about the same thing.
She feels at peace gardening, and such, and keeps herself at this calm by meditating, and such. (I actually don’t know what she does, though the gardening is her words)
The inner tension is barely noticeable, because her soul has given up. I feel your inner tension stronger than you do, maybe because it is my curse to feel it so strongly. I have had clients that I felt they are not breathing, and they said ‘I am breathing’ but when I checked, they breathed with only 10% of their lung capacity… the chest and the belly didn’t move at all.
So, with this woman, I feel the inner tension between soul and the rest, she probably doesn’t, at least that is what she says.
Playing possum, retreating from life, doing peaceful things, is low vibration on my vibrational scale. It is not a life suitable to a human being… it is settling for less, following, maybe years, the inner calling to avoid taking risks, avoid being found out, avoid being alive.
Some of my students take frequent breaks to go into that ‘barely breathing’ mode… but they come back, and risk again.
Who am I to tell you what to do? I root for you, I see the potential in you, I feel your inner desire and inner tension… but ultimately you decide who you are going to be.
My job is to accept it. I may not like it, I may weep, I may get angry, but I accept it. And don’t ask you to live by any standards other than your own.
I allow it. Let it be. Make room for it. However it is against what I think is right, what I think should be, what I think you should do… I allow it.
In my experience, that is the hardest thing to do for the unevolved human. Pretending that you do: hey, that’s easy. But to allow, energetically, emotionally, in every way… that is hard.
And, surprise, once you allow anything, it allows you to be. Allows you to look. Allows you to think intelligently. And maybe, maybe, answer something intelligent, that truly connects to another person, and helps them through the barrier they are experiencing. Or not.
And your (my) job is, to allow that, as well.
That is why I decided to call myself the Edison of Transformation: Edison did not resist any of the results his failing experiments showed. Instead, he stayed calm, collected, (maybe after carryiong on a bit? lol!) and then regaining his inner balance, looked what is useful in what happened.
Hey, I can’t think of a better person to model myself after.
PS: what do you think of Rob Brezsny’s horoscope? Can you see the connection?
I enjoy getting spam emails with outrageous declarations that are at odds with common sense. ‘Eating salads makes you sick’ is one of my favorites, along with ‘Water is worse for you than vodka’ and ‘Smoking is healthier than exercising.’ Why do I love reading these laughable claims? Well, they remind me that every day I am barraged by nonsense and delusion from the news media, the Internet, politicians, celebrities, and a host of fanatics. ‘Smoking is healthier than exercising’ is just a more extreme and obvious lie than many others that are better disguised. The moral of the story for you in the coming week: Be alert for exaggerations that clue you in to what’s going on discreetly below the surface. Watch carefully for glitches in the Matrix.
I have a Landmark Education friend. In Landmark Education you invent a new possibility for yourself and your life as often as daily… Possibility used to fix your wretched life… in spite of the fact that possibility does none of that.
I may talk about this in another article, but in this one, I’d like to share my educated take on LOVE… and some other topics…
This friend has been calling me all week. He invented loving people. Suddenly he is calling me. And gushing… about love, loving me, blah blah blah.
Continue reading “What is Love, how does meditation work, what do the activators do?”
Before it’s a mindset, it’s a skill
With that said, please understand, that no one can give you skills. Therefore no one can change your mindset. Your beliefs. Your stored memories. Your misery. Only you can. All those people that do voodoo, thought shifting, energy whatnot, chakra healing, and other instant b.s. are liars, cheaters, fakes, frauds, and impostors.
The decline of humanity, I think, began or was accelerated when people thought that because they understand it, therefore they can do it, and do it at will, do it well, keep it up, etc.
Everything requires skills, and skills need to be built. With practice, over a long time. Just look at crash diets: you lost the weight but you built no skills to eat correctly, to redirect your urges, so you will pack back the pounds and more… No skills, no slim body… very simple.
Continue reading “If you don’t build skills, you can’t change your mindset”
Bio-electric shield and other gadget… a review
A students says:
Sophie, have you ever find a review of the Bio-electric Shield? It is a disk-shaped pendant that contains some quartz crystals. I had one for 15 years, and it was like my best friend. It seemed to he very attuned to my energy. When I first tried it on, I could only wear it for a few minutes. Then longer and longer.
It kind of fell apart and I lost it around the time I started working with you. Maybe its work was done.
I have tried Q-link, a variation to bio-electric shield. That was before I knew I was an empath. I only knew that other people’s energy was interfering with mine…
I hated it.
Now, I don’t know how it works, I don’t know why it works, but I’ll tell you what I think is the truth about any of these trainable circuits:
Continue reading “Bioelectric shield, Q-link and other gadget… a review. What works?”
I found myself humming this in the title, as it got two hours past the time my “friend” was supposed to get here to help me.
Millions of people could ask this question every minute… and yet, the people hated don’t know it, don’t care, don’t feel it. Continue reading “What does it feel like to be hated? Do you know?”
Some people write so much better than me. Some people are so much more inspiring than me. But I don’t know anyone who is better than me in being committed to you becoming an Expanding Human Being… That commitment helps me cope with my deficiencies. I got my hopes up, and I have been living “at risk” and “on the hook” ever since… and I love almost every minute of it… And when I don’t… I get my hopes up again.
This article is by one of my favorite people, Roy Williams. Enjoy.
Get Your Hopes Up
I’m talking with a man about his happy future. There will be decisions to make and risks to take, but it’s a future that can definitely be his.
And then he says, “I don’t want to get my hopes up.”
