If your practicing doesn’t increase anything…

If your practicing doesn’t increase anything…

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Ever tried? Ever failed? No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better.

The most important insights I am getting through this virus attack disaster on my sites have nothing to do with my sites.

What I am getting is probably way more important for everyone.

When you are too busy with something that occupies all your attention all the time… then creativity, inspiration, self-awareness… all the things that are vital to having a good life, being powerful, being the captain, are suffering.

You can’t put all your power into the thing you are doing, because every crew member, every thought, every urge wants to take you out of that one thing. Continue reading “If your practicing doesn’t increase anything…”

Why aren’t you the captain of your ship? How could you be?

Why aren’t you the captain of your ship? How could you be?

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Or how to go from drifting to achieving…

In this article I am going to give you the secret. The secret to success. The secret to a good life. And you probably won’t hear it… and ignore it.

How do I know? I have been doing it long enough that I finally distilled the secret down to the one issue that if it is there, you cannot be successful. AND you can’t hear me. The two are connected. Continue reading “Why aren’t you the captain of your ship? How could you be?”

13 Questions That Can Lead YOU To Clarity

13 Questions That Can Lead YOU To Clarity

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The mind hates uncertainty.

It.drives.itself.nuts to answer a question. Any question. Asked or unasked.

If you paid attention: it is almost always in search mode… trying to answer a question.

That’s why it is so busy. Continue reading “13 Questions That Can Lead YOU To Clarity”

What does your laughter mean? What does your laughter do?

What does your laughter mean? What does your laughter do?

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There are two kinds of laughter. Depending on what predominates, you are a happy person or an unhappy person. You have peace or you have turbulence.

The two kinds of laughs are
  1. derisive laugh = Mocking; jeering.
  2. benevolent laugh: the laughter of recognition

There is always a price. We are looking at laughter by the criterion: who pays the price.
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Life is a system of seesaws, little hinges swing big doors

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Life is a system of seesaws, little hinges swing big doors

a system of seesawsWhat is the real meaning of little hinges swing big doors? What glorious thing can it mean to you and your entrepreneurial aspirations?

Without understanding that life is a collection of interactive systems, without understanding the seesaw principle, without being able to create, manage, and tweak systems. your life will work as it has always worked. just barely… Continue reading “Life is a system of seesaws, little hinges swing big doors”

Why are most self-help books, courses worthless?

Why are most self-help books, courses worthless?

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Why are most self-help books, courses worthless?

Worthless other than being boring? lol…

They bore the heck out of me… but that is my problem, I guess.

The reason they are worthless because they talk about what to do, but they never teach about consolidation.

My teacher in creating courses taught that the first session needs to give people a quick big win… so they get excited and stay in the course. Continue reading “Why are most self-help books, courses worthless?”

Just ask “What is it I don’t know? What is it I don’t see?”

Just ask “What is it I don’t know? What is it I don’t see?”

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You can follow me down the rabbit hole. You can do it… The only question is: will you think it worth your while?

I know I have said it before, lots of times, but I will say it again, but slightly differently this time. So bear with me: the reward will be unbelievable!

When something isn’t working, there is something you don’t know.

Said in another way:

When something isn’t working (the way you expected it to work), you can be sure that there is something you don’t know or can’t see.

Unfortunately to you, when you hear this sentence, you will never think about your mindset. You’ll never think that your thinking is wrong. That your life philosophy is wrong. Continue reading “Just ask “What is it I don’t know? What is it I don’t see?””

An upset 3 year old is running your life?

An upset 3 year old is running your life?

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The drama triangle… switch up the roles!

The drama triangle is a useful model inside which you can examine, re-live, and heal any conflict.

Conflict is a nice name where what one person/ one company/    one group/ one country’s point of view, self-interest doesn’t agree with some other person’s or group’s self-interest.

It’s normal. But it is doubly normal for children. Small children. A conflict with the parents. Continue reading “An upset 3 year old is running your life?”

The Self, the spinal wave, intention, will, responsibility

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The Self, the spinal wave, intention, will, responsibility

The Unconditional Love Activator is a simple activator. If you can allow it to work on you, it can silence the crew that is protesting. It can silence the ‘Precious I’ who you consider yourself to be, and allow the two selves to connect.

So what happens when you, who you consider yourself to be, and your Self, the core, the empty space connect?

Continue reading “The Self, the spinal wave, intention, will, responsibility”

The purpose of the Reality Challenge is to find your Self

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The purpose of the Reality Challenge is to find your Self

If you ever tried to meditate. If you are a ‘meditator’. And if the idea of meditation brings up bile to your throat… like for me.

OK who else? Oh, those who couldn’t give a shriveled nut for the idea of mediation… so all people…

The only thing meditation wants you to do is to look within. You spend almost all your life looking outward, and have no idea about what is inside. Continue reading “The purpose of the Reality Challenge is to find your Self”