What is the opposite of reaction; is it response?

What is the opposite of reaction; is it response?

This is a republished article from June 26, 2013… So please don’t get alarmed… this didn’t just happen. It happened long time ago. But the message is as timely as ever…

What is the opposite of reaction; is it response? Is it pro-active? Prepare to be surprised…

Gurus and even psychologists give lip service to not being reactive.

They say it’s the ego’s way to take over your life. They suggest that you respond. They don’t know what they are talking about, and you, the client, suffer as a result.
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Are you paralyzed? Are you waiting?

doctor who episode night terrorsI wonder if you ever pondered where nightmares like most Doctor Who stories are, come from?

My hunch is that they come from reality.

Take the story where humans, one by one, by touch, are turned into human-size grinning or weeping toys. And now that they are toys with no will of their own, the only will they have is to turn other humans into toys like themselves.

When I look around I see plenty of proof of this nightmare being real.

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Are you being used? Do you feel used? Is it real?

Are you being used? Do you feel used? Is it real?

are you used?Lots of people, women and men, have a feeling that they are just placeholders or commodities for their friends or lovers.

Even coaches and gurus can have that feeling: actually this is what lead me to start this article.

Whenever I have a question about someone, or have time, I look up the online profiles of people that want to become a student of mine.

So I looked up someone today who has been a student, on and off for about two years now. I have had mixed feeling about her, so I looked her up.
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Coaching is often like herding cats…

coaching is like herding catsCats are notoriously individualistic, and abhor being herded, or even told what to do.

Your (and) my aspects are like cats: enjoying and protecting their freedoms you have given them all these years, that you thought they were the boss. Your boss.

I am talking here of the aspects of your mind, your emotions, your thoughts, and your urges.
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What is the difference between a blind man and you?

What is the difference between a blind man and you?

blind manWhat is the difference between a blind man and you?

You would think that the difference is that you can see and the blind man can’t… But the real difference is that the blind man knows…
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What makes you quit?

arrogance or pot-of-goldArrogance is your mind saying that you already know everything there is to know

No matter what level of the vibrational scale you are, your aspects will do what your aspects do. The difference is how YOU will behave, how you will react to it.

I have been observing it for a while. It has become predictable. And yet, I am still always surprised.

The mind, every time I find out something, distinguish something, predictably says: “OK, Now I really know everything.”

It is both annoying and funny. Especially if you consider that since age three your mind has been preventing you, discouraging you to learn anything important, and you’ve never caught up.
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A great story… and a question: Compassion or conspiracy to keep things the same, grow the dark side, stay the same?

compassion: is it helping or is it conspiracy? Here is a story I lifted from an email I got. I liked it. Then I got a phone call. And suddenly it had a bigger lesson than what the original story teller meant to give you. Read the story and then my lesson…

 

There is a story about a coup d’état that took place in a small kingdom. When the soldiers came looking for the king to kill him, he fled into the city and hid in a tailor shop. Immediately recognizing his important guest, the tailor, without so much as a question, shoved him under a large pile of clothing.
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10 Key Success Quotes That You NEED To Hear and the illusion of progress

To live a creative life, we must lose our fear of being wrong.by Alex Ferriera

Please pay attention: this is NOT my article, and the references to I and “me” are not mine, they are Alex Ferriera’s… I am republishing these quotes because I want it to be an experiment… Clue is at the end of the article.

Motivation is as much of necessary habit as eating is. Constantly surround yourself with the correct inspiration and you are sure to expand your dreams. Here are some of my favorite quotes which remind me to keep progressing forward.

10. “To live a creative life, we must lose our fear of being wrong.”
~Anonymous

To live a creative life, we must lose our fear of being wrong.
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Wanting makes you vulnerable

a bird in the handMake a list of areas where wanting, your wanting dominates the situation. Where you are in the situation purely or mostly because you want something.

What can you want? What do you want? How to find it? Look for where you want

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Human Nature And The Activation

knowing-doingOriginally this article was published in August of 2011. I did a planetary activator then, and this article is about the aftermath… quite disappointing.

What makes this article timely is that the behavior it’s about hasn’t change. You learn new things and you don’t use them. You continue behaving the way you always behaved… as if nothing happened.

What you forget is this: your capacities don’t tell you what to do, you tell yourself what to do, and then you are able to do them with new capacities, successfully.

My Avatar State Audios, my articles, my coaching tells you, shows you what to do, but it is you who needs to decide to do that new thing, and actually do it.

You can take the horse to the water, but you can’t force it to drink… It is entirely up to you.
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