The ‘hidden’ attitude that eats your lunch…

The ‘hidden’ attitude that eats your lunch…
The ‘hidden’ attitude that eats your lunch. And leaves you clueless as if to what happened

Yesterday I was on a group coaching call where people had a chance to get on the ‘hot seat’, meaning they could lay out their issue and get coaching.

This is a business coaching group I am a part of. Continue reading “The ‘hidden’ attitude that eats your lunch…”

Humility. A desirable virtue. But what is the issue with it?

Humility. A desirable virtue. But what is the issue with it?

Arrogance is what most people bring to their interactions with people and things.

Arrogance says: I know. But you don’t. Or maybe know a little, but not all. Or again, maybe everything you know is wrong, and will take you to ruin.

But your arrogance prevents you from looking in directions you haven’t looked, asking questions that are different from you are asking. Arrogance makes you ask the kinds of questions that can’t and won’t help you, because they are apple-polishing. You already have your direction. Continue reading “Humility. A desirable virtue. But what is the issue with it?”

What prevents you from getting ahead in life?

What prevents you from getting ahead in life?

giraffe-in-treeThis series of articles are exploring the hidden aspects of what holds you back from growing, from moving, from raising your vibration, from transformation, from living a life consistent with your abilities

When we look at your life, we see that there is a gap between what you are capable of, and what you are accomplishing. Especially in the areas of quality of life, accomplishment, and self-expression. Continue reading “What prevents you from getting ahead in life?”

How you can use the beluga whale that loves to scare people

How you can use the beluga whale that loves to scare people

Knowledge is only rumor until it is in the muscle‘ ~ New Guinea Proverb

A recurrent emotional state always appears together with the attitude of the body…‘ ~ Moshe Feldenkrais

If I could say it I wouldn’t have to dance it.‘ ~ Isadora Duncan

Juno a beluga whale that loves scaring people
by u/m3nation007 in funny

We’ll use the beluga whale that loves to scare people later in this article, but for now… some context.

A few years ago a dude paid me to measure his vibration. Then he went and shared it publicly on a big website, something like light warriors, I don’t remember. Or starseed something.

I read just now that considering one a starseed, a cross between an alien and a human is fueled with radical individualism. whatever that means.

On my website, in this reality based work we call that the delusion of being special. Being special beyond being an unrepeatable human…

That is the ‘angle’ of wanting to be special…

While very rich…

very successful humans do special things that are only special because most others don’t do it…

…instead of just wanting to be special for no reason.

So when Jeff Bezos, founder of Amazon.com asked what new things will come, he answered that instead of the new things which are not predictable, he recommended focusing and putting energy into what won’t change. People will want fast shipping, larger selection, good customer service, he said, and that way of thinking made him a billionaire many times over.

focusing and putting energy into what won’t change

But for that you need to look outside, beyond yourself…

I have found that looking, thinking outside of yourself is the hardest thing for today’s human. And when they occasionally do, because I ask them, or they are in some challenge, they come back and are thrilled. It was an event. An incident.

But they never do it again.

But why? If it allows for peace, quiet, and harmony… If it allows for peace of mind, generosity, real contribution… then why?

When you watch the white beluga clip, you’ll see that each child reacts slightly differently. How do you know? Because their body reaction, body movements give away what their emotional reaction is.

And you don’t know that, but I’ll tell you:

you’ll repeat that bodily and emotional reaction throughout your life, leading to the same emotional state

The emotional state I call your ‘home page’ because that incident puts in motion a ‘machine’ or machine-like dynamic that is going to repeat that scenario: reaction to something… doing whatever you did in the first incident… and then you get to the home page conclusion.

A cycle of that machine.

Mine starts with surprise. Confusion. Then I scramble. Overwhelm. And end up devastated. Discarded. Worthless. That is where I end up. Devastated. Discarded. Worthless.

Not a good script. I am currently in the confusion phase… just beginning the scramble phase.

Most people’s home page is worthless.

Why? Inside the systemic value system you are either excellent or horrible. Valuable or worthless. Valued or discarded.

And we are all born with a systemic judgment capability only. The additional dimensions are added later… if ever.

I just measured eleven of my clients.

And have come to the conclusion that the more you have been able to be in the higher value system, the more dimensions things, people, events are perceived by you the higher your chances for success.

What do I call success? Whatever YOU call success. I don’t have a measure for that. you get to say.

If you want money as the measure of success? Then success means money, and that is what I measure. If it is fulfillment, or love, or health. then that is what I measure. I don’t even have to know. Source knows.

Five of the eleven haven’t even peeked outside of the systemic. They live inside the right/wrong paradigm. No success is possible there.

The rest are between 10% and 70%.

Only when you have experienced, not as an event, but as a different world, the world with more dimensions than two, are you going to go for giving any heed, any attention, any importance to the other.

The way to come out of that deeeeeeeeeeeeep ditch

The way to come out of that deeeeeeeeeeeeep ditch, the ditch of the binary, is to make frequent efforts to give a hoot about how others feel. Darn. lol

The capacity to do that is The Sight, and specifically the Driftwood, which is an aspect of The Sight.

Obviously the client who did the most work with that capacity is the one with the 70% score.

You can only grow gradually.

The light warriors, the starseed are all stuck in the binary, if you have been wondering. It’s all about them. Maybe some of them are exceptions, but only a very few.

Now, back to the white beluga video: Pay attention to the body of the children. The head, the neck, the shoulders…

Experiment with your own. And watch as the predictable emotion arises. and if you are not careful, the machine runs a full cycle, and you’ll end up on your home page.

The emotion. The worthlessness. Hopelessness. Resignation.

Did you do it?

Please comment below or send me in email what was your LAST emotion. your home page. I’ll muscletest for you if you followed instruction or not.

Meanwhile, tomorrow, Saturday July 29 at 5 pm my time we’ll have a workshop to experiment if you can move your body in different ways to get different emotions…

It is a worthwhile learning. Why? Because if you can get that your emotions are embedded in body positions, then you can always do a reset. an intentional state change, and free yourself from that pesky trigger for your machine.

Wouldn’t it be worth for you?

If you have been always ending at worthless. beating yourself up. giving up on yourself. You wouldn’t have to. You would be able to continue with your projects, and build a life you love.

Yeah.

Learn to counter your emotional trigger

The more you ‘know’ the less you have beginner’s mind

The more you ‘know’ the less you have beginner’s mind
You never know because you can’t know. So what you know is the problem…
  • But if you keep on doing what you have been doing, exactly the same way…
  • If you look at the same things the same way every day…
  • If your cone of vision remains so narrow that when you look at yourself you can’t see anything and anyone else…

Then you’ll miss what could be your path to the life you were meant to live. Continue reading “The more you ‘know’ the less you have beginner’s mind”

Are you a resister? A fighter? An avoider? An allower?

Are you a resister? A fighter? An avoider? An allower?

I alternate between resisting and allowing. When I resist I get all tight with the back ache neck ache, and the headache…

So instead of taking a pain pill, I stop resisting. I allow, if I can. When I can. But… but some issues irk me. Let me share my pet peeves. Continue reading “Are you a resister? A fighter? An avoider? An allower?”

The guidance you miss, the guidance you fight

The guidance you miss, the guidance you fight

Bats can hear shapes. Plants can eat light. Bees can dance maps.

Humans that have weak eye sight, weak hearing, weak everything, used to feel the messages in their bodies… but no any more.

Humans erroneously decided that their minds is king. And ever since then humans don’t listen to their bodies.

Here is an example: Continue reading “The guidance you miss, the guidance you fight”

Your attitude in relation to yourself: your self-esteem

Your attitude in relation to yourself: your self-esteem

self-image,self-esteem are both an attitude towards yourselfSummary: Attitude. the most potent invisible builder of your life. or the invisible destroyer of your life. Destroyer of your dreams, of your results, of your relationships.

It is invisible to you, but glaringly obvious to others.

Isn’t it time you took an inventory and start changing your attitudes, one by one. As an Expanding Human Being, I study. A lot. I study books, movies, people, myself. Sometimes there is no rhyme and reason in my studying, and sometimes, like now, there is.

Perceived as an expert

I have recently found a teacher who teaches people how to become an expert and market themselves as such, online.

Most people that learn from this guy are already experts at some things, but… It is one thing to be an expert, and another to be perceived as an expert. People go by their perception, not by the fact, in reality, people have no idea what they see, only what they perceive.
Continue reading “Your attitude in relation to yourself: your self-esteem”

What does the word content or contentment mean?

What does the word content or contentment mean?

Many times it is near impossible to get what words mean…

Luckily I have learned other languages. With some of them have a deeper knowledge than just being able to use them, so I can use them to see in their etymology.

In fact, this article got triggered by a word, a concept, a distinction that is not clear to most people, and it wasn’t for me. Contentment. Continue reading “What does the word content or contentment mean?”

Any jump is jump from the skillet to the fire

Any jump is jump from the skillet to the fire

You can’t JUMP to the truth… in fact, any jump is jump from the skillet to the fire

I like to use the 67 steps in my own process to slowly turning to the truth, and in teaching and coaching. That program seems to JUMP to SOME truth. But it is wise enough to not declare that small and relative truth, THE Truth.

This is in contrast with everybody else. Continue reading “Any jump is jump from the skillet to the fire”