Many of you have invented ways you hope you’ll earn love, friendship, loyalty.
But the truth is, neither of them can be earned, unless they have been a deal, an overt deal, to begin with.
Kindness doesn’t buy love… it may not even buy reciprocal kindness.
Giving, taking care of someone, caring for them or about them doesn’t buy you anything…
- When the chips are down, people who love you they will go to bat for you.
- “Purchased” people will leave and feel a stinge of sadness that the free lunch is over.
I have read on the internet that the way to find out if someone loves you is to pretend that you lost all your money…
Another great way is to pretend that you have cancer. Incurable.
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