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You must go through emotional phases, no matter how high your vibration, or how successful you are
You imagine that when you’ll have raised your vibration sufficiently, you won’t have sadness, hopelessness, despair… frustration, hate, spite, resistance, and such. Bah humbug. Continue reading “Want to avoid negative emotions? Stupid move!”
This is one article, with two separate yet connected parts.
Growth is not linear. By that I mean that you don’t grow a little bit every day. It is much like evolution: something tiny changes, and it creates a dramatic shift.
When things feel linear, it also means that you are simply stirring the soup… no growth. It’s OK.
Yesterday I had a glimpse at something that I had never seen: I saw that if opportunity favors the prepared… then I am in trouble: I am not prepared for any opportunity.
Continue reading “Ideas are like babies… the process you need to honor to be happy, healthy, and successful”
Easy as apple pie…
But that gives rise to the ‘this isn’t it‘ and ‘somewhere else is better than here‘ way of living.
It also gives rise to another detrimental cultural phenomenon: cheap closure now.
I am from Hungary. Famous for its bakery, pastries…
Let us look at a problem that needs fixing: fruit pie filling.
Continue reading “Destinations and directions… or ‘cheap closure now’”
One of the things I am starting to check if the person who wants to work with me, closely, is in the habit of lying or not.
So yesterday I told an applicant that she was a liar.
I muscletested it, and muscletest said she was a liar…
Turns out she wasn’t lying in that moment, yet she was a liar.
I muscletested it because I felt it. It felt like a disgust or stomach ache…
She considered the incident an invalidation of anything and everything I do, and left.
I am OK with that. It is still “cheaper” to have someone quit than have to do the uphill struggle to try to cause transformation to someone who is a liar. Even if the lies are not conscious. Mostly they aren’t.
Continue reading “How to detect lies… even your own…”
This is continuing the theme I started in my last post, looking at your life and priorities. This is a politically incorrect article… The footnotes are really important in this article, don’t miss them.
Let’s take a near posthumous look at your life… so you can see what was important, and do it while you still have time.
Someone who lives fully and does what is important to them, isn’t afraid of death. They weren’t afraid of life, they aren’t afraid of death. That doesn’t mean they want to die… they are just not driven to panic by the sight of an life that never happened.
Yesterday I spoke about wanting to get my work out… but upon further examination, I realized that I fell for the cultural, societal mumbo jumbo, that is designed to have you be unfulfilled, and lose your self interest.
What am I talking about?
About legacy… What is your legacy? Can you feel the cold hands of dread squeezing your heart?
Continue reading “Should you strive for leaving a legacy to be remembered by?”
I just had a flash… A big bang.
We all have projects, and we all give it lip service, but don’t really do it… don’t really pursue our projects.
So, when a student of mine said: she needed to set priorities, I sent her this
I like the sound of setting priorities, but what is the principle of choosing priorities… what is the goal, the context of your life, that if you don’t achieve it, you’ll have regrets when you die?
Another book written by Malcolm Gladwell deals with the deficit, the weakness of a person, that becomes the catalyst for them to become the best.
Of course, this is not automatic.
99% of dyslexics can’t read or write well, and are left behind in society.
But a disproportionately large percentage of exceptionally successful people are dyslexic.
99% of dyslexics are kinesthetic learners, perceive the world kinestheticly. It is another hindrance, being kinesthetic: relating to the world, information, through the body.
Continue reading “Your weakness is around what your life can turn around”
Why do people think that adding a little energy remedy to their low vibration life, doing a little meditation will raise their vibration?
Vibration number is an indicator to how close you are to becoming the peak of evolution: a human being.
If raising your vibration were a school curriculum, you’d start where you are, and move onto the next level only when you have maxed out the previous requirements. No jumping, no passing grades.
The subjects in the curriculum: Increasing awareness, the using and activating of your internal and external capacities, resolving inner conflicts, removing incoherence, etc.
Continue reading “What does a little energy remedy, a little meditation do”
I once had a boy friend who refused to have sex with me when I wanted it, saying that I was using him. When he wanted… that was OK.This article is a little sloppy, stream of consciousness… let me know if it is too sloppy… please.
I just had an interesting conversation with one of my students.
I have been suspicious as to why she was less than enthusiastic in her course work for the 67 steps coaching.
So I asked, this morning:
…answer one question: why are you in this program? What would you like to get out of it?
In terms of the good life…
I don’t mean to say that you are wrong, I mean to say that without being somewhat clear on what you want, you will only…
Fair question, right? You need to know why you are doing something if you want to do it well.
This was her answer:
Continue reading “How to get out of the trap seeing yourself as a victim?”
You are either used by Consciousness or the Mind.
I am used by Consciousness, Source. It is using me and my life, to map out the human condition to see if it is possible to take humanity to the next level where they don’t destroy the whole planet…
I have been used, consciously and willingly for about 12 years now.
When anything new needs to be seen, like a sneaky undertow, I have to go through the experience myself to distinguish it, to see it. Continue reading “How you have trained yourself to be self-hating”
