Assembly line coaching… is that what I am paying for?

Assembly line coaching… is that what I am paying for?

I am sitting here at my computer. It’s early morning. I have been up already 2-3 hours. And have done many things, and yet nothing got done.

I am preparing myself for my 2:15 pm ‘coaching call’ with Heather. Heather is my ‘coach’ from the course building course I just paid for.

I find myself crying.

It doesn’t feel great, but crying is a good sign. It says to me that I mean business. That I mean when I say: I’ll do it or die trying, that I meant what I said. Continue reading “Assembly line coaching… is that what I am paying for?”

In a guru-disciple relationship: who has the power?

In a guru-disciple relationship: who has the power?

When someone insults you and you react… Who has the power?

I mean who has YOUR energy? I don’t imply that they can use that energy for themselves. I don’t imply that they can use that energy for anything… yet, you don’t have it. You gave it away.

  • What power am I talking about?
  • What energy am I talking about?
  • And most importantly, what the heck do I mean when I talk about power?

Let’s state it, so we mean the same thing. Continue reading “In a guru-disciple relationship: who has the power?”

Man plans, and god laughs. Not with you. Laughs at you.

Man plans, and god laughs. Not with you. Laughs at you.

A plan is a thought… Man thinks and god laughs. But why does God laugh at the sight of man thinking? Because man thinks and the truth escapes him.

There are plans. And there is planning. Big difference.

Why? Because planning is practice. Most people never do it. Continue reading “Man plans, and god laughs. Not with you. Laughs at you.”

Is there no rhyme or reason in your life?

Is there no rhyme or reason in your life?
Most of us live because we didn’t die the night before.

Even I have mornings like that… about 10 percent.

We live a life of quiet desperation… meaning: we live in the daily hubbub of pedestrian life, never getting anywhere, pushed around, hopeless and in despair that it is ever going to get better.

Most people come to my site, or seek out any self-improvement, spiritual, or manifestation program for this simple reason: they can see that in the pedestrian hubbub they will not find what they seek: peace of mind, a sense of purpose, a rhyme and reason to their life.

And without rhyme and reason you cannot be happy.

Continue reading “Is there no rhyme or reason in your life?”

The more we think the more disconnected we become

The more we think the more disconnected we become

Disconnected from what? Disconnected from reality. From ourselves. And of course from others… and maybe, likely, even from what we want.

I signed up to a mini course on how to create trust in animals so they will be OK, so they will be able to do what they normally can’t. They, the humans, somehow, reduce their own thinking, and the animals mirror it and feel safe. The fear response disappears. Continue reading “The more we think the more disconnected we become”

What do popular coaches, courses, programs have in common?

What do popular coaches, courses, programs have in common?

What does your success prove, if you have many many many clients?

The question is triggered by a comment on my vibrational review about Caroline Cory on my site

Here is the comment. I don’t put it here because it makes me look good… I put it here because it doesn’t. The commenter used a fake name and a fake email address… but what she says is worth looking at. Continue reading “What do popular coaches, courses, programs have in common?”

From Pain Island to Pleasure Island… how to get unstuck

From Pain Island to Pleasure Island… how to get unstuck

Get comfortable with not knowing the answer

Because you won’t… and maybe for a long time.

But if you insist on knowing, then you won’t actually look, you won’t actually expand. You will keep on pondering, using only what you already ‘know’. And instead of questions that make you grow, you’ll be looking for answers, that confirm what you already ‘know’.

What you already ‘know’ is what keeps you where you are… Continue reading “From Pain Island to Pleasure Island… how to get unstuck”

What is the Tree of Knowledge? How does it work?

What is the Tree of Knowledge? How does it work?

Everything that you BELIEVE is Tree of Knowledge.

What does it mean believe? It means that you don’t actually know, because you don’t have any proof. You didn’t see it, didn’t experience it, so you have to believe it.

When I measure the truth value of something, I am measuring, in essence, the proportion of Tree of Life in what that something says…

Or I could say: I measure the ‘not Tree of Knowledge’ part. Continue reading “What is the Tree of Knowledge? How does it work?”

How to eat, what to eat according to muscletest

How to eat, what to eat according to muscletest

 

Before I go into the meat of the article, I want to share something that you probably don’t expect.

I do small-group, tiny group experimental courses to test out topic and methodology. One of these small groups is two people Last week I had to stop the session, because both participants were dull, stupid, and nothing I said registered for them. So we rescheduled the session for yesterday. Continue reading “How to eat, what to eat according to muscletest”

Need is not a feeling. Feeling is also not a thought.

Need is not a feeling. Feeling is also not a thought.

Canadian wildfires are painting the sky yellow. This is a good time to think about needs… are they real or are they made up?

Is clean air a need or a nice to have?

A need is real… It’s not just a feeling. Not just a thought. Without the need fulfilled, life itself is dimmed… or extinguished. Continue reading “Need is not a feeling. Feeling is also not a thought.”