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Yesterday I sent out a request to my subscribers asking for
It is a holiday weekend and I got surprisingly quite a few answers to my request.
Continue reading “How Healthy are you?”
A few years ago I lost my sense of smell.
Then I changed my diet and the sense of smell came back.
Surprisingly I often smell things that didn’t seem to be there… Bringing up memories of the times I smelled the same… good smell, bad smell, neutral smell.
It’s hot here, unseasonably hot, and to accommodate it I am taking cold showers and I am eating differently.
Continue reading “That which does not kill us, makes us stronger”
I am trying to organize the information I provide people when they ask for their vibration, or whether they have attachments or not.
On a lark I measured if the student in the previous article had attachments. She felt so imprisoned… there must be a reason.
To my surprise she has 10 attachments.
Continue reading “Attachments are like snakes you have hanging from you”
I am watching a robin trying to pull a string loose on my third story deck. He is persistent.
He was here yesterday, and he was here the day before.
The thread is long. I used it to pull up stuff from the ground, and left it there.
Continue reading “What does a robin and you have in common?”
My disastrous conversation with the zealous Christian on the other end of the phone opened my eye to something I could not see clearly before.
What I saw is where religion, the popularized version, and where modern spiritual teacherdom overlap and join forces to dupe you.
Before I start:
Continue reading “Build your house on rock: Starting from what is”
One of the rarest and most functional capacities is the capacity to allow… without resistance.
Resistance uses a lot of energy, mostly the energy that you need to become successful, to do the right thing, to be well, and to treat people, including yourself, right.
Resistance is normal, but harmful. Just like self-criticism: normal but harmful, with no upside.
Upside is the benefit you gain from a harmful or painful action or experience.
Neither resistance, nor self-criticism, self-judgment have any upside, only downside.
Continue reading “Against self criticism and the 4-day weekend”
Why is rape so traumatic, while sex is so commonplace?If you have ever been pinned down, not able to free yourself…
If you have ever been forced to do something you didn’t want to do… anything…
…your trust of life, your trust in people, your confidence has dealt a big blow.
Recovering is not guaranteed, and the wound can be torn open again quite easily.
Continue reading “Why is rape so traumatic, while sex is so commonplace?”
One of the most desired possibilities, one of the most desired life anyone can have is a life where you are free to be yourself, warts and all.
It is human nature to be self-critical, it is because of our ambivalent nature of feeling everything and the opposite.
There is no one on the planet who is all good. It is not possible. It is a physical impossibility. It’s unnatural.
You have to be good and you have to be bad, and you have to have high thoughts and you have to have low thoughts. Actions: you have a choice about. But feelings, thoughts… no choice.
When something isn’t working… money, love, health, business, school…
When something isn’t working consider that it’s because there is something that you don’t know.
Whether the something that isn’t working is money, love, health, business, school… the answer is always “there is something you don’t know.”
The brilliance of this statement that turned a broke loser, a serial nebbich, Harv Eker into a multimillionaire T. Harv Eker. The brilliance is that because you don’t know what it is that you don’t know… you need to open yourself up to looking. At everything. And a lot… Expose yourself to seeing stuff. He did it, and he is now rich. This one sentence, this one statement, this one habit.
This isn’t what he teaches, because this statement gives you all the power, and you don’t buy stuff when you have the power… He is so rich because no one understand this statement… But why?
Continue reading “When something isn’t working there’s something you don’t see”
Knowing what you want to achieve, is one thing that is missing in you. Another name for that is called “mental representation” of what you want to achieve.
Mental representation is a detailed picture, so detailed and so tangible, that you can pinpoint where reality is deviating from it… and how. Continue reading “Why is it important to know what you want?”
