What makes you so angry that you can’t control yourself?

What pulls you out of your equilibrium? What makes you so angry that you can’t control yourself?One of my students has fits of anger. Her life is going from anger to anger, with no chance for a break.Now, I could be condescending, I could be unsympathetic, or helpful and compassionate. But I find it more … Continue reading “What makes you so angry that you can’t control yourself?”

Why aren’t you the captain of your ship? How could you be?

Or how to go from drifting to achieving…In this article I am going to give you the secret. The secret to success. The secret to a good life. And you probably won’t hear it… and ignore it.How do I know? I have been doing it long enough that I finally distilled the secret down to … Continue reading “Why aren’t you the captain of your ship? How could you be?”

Why are most self-help books, courses worthless?

Why are most self-help books, courses worthless?Worthless other than being boring? lol…They bore the heck out of me… but that is my problem, I guess.The reason they are worthless because they talk about what to do, but they never teach about consolidation.My teacher in creating courses taught that the first session needs to give people … Continue reading “Why are most self-help books, courses worthless?”

Growth, change is an epigenetic shift. First plug the leaks

This article is about consolidation. Consolidation of what you have achieved… Without consolidation there is no growth… or if there is: it is called unmanaged growth… aka cancer.Genetics is hardware. Epigenetics is software. Loosely speaking.Capacities, in the DNA, can be expressed, switched on or switched off, like a plugin that provides additional functionality in a … Continue reading “Growth, change is an epigenetic shift. First plug the leaks”

Causing human evolution… A manifesto of sorts

As I got further and further writing this article, I realized that what I am writing is some sort of manifesto. What we are doing here, what we aim to accomplish.All the illustrations of manifestos I didn’t examine. They can be good, bad, or neutral. They are just illustrations. Don’t get your panties in a … Continue reading “Causing human evolution… A manifesto of sorts”

Respect: look again… but this time differently

In the movie, Stranger Than Fiction, our hero is doing what he is doing, unconsciously.https://evp-50116959de4b9-dd521b5ed563ee25508422182c681a30.s3.us-east-1.amazonaws.com/Stranger-Than-Fiction-Opening.mp4When Harold Crick, the hero of the movie, starts hearing the narrating voice in his head……what the voice says takes him out of his unconsciousness and makes him conscious…his usual way of doing things, going through life like a drone, and … Continue reading “Respect: look again… but this time differently”

There’s no ‘no’ in reality. ‘No’ can be masked.

Like saying it is missing. Like need. Like want. Like missing.All those only exist in language.The crucial distinction I teach is reality. Reality as opposed to the mind, the imagination, the meaning making machine.Today I realized that inversion, the different thinking methodology is needed. because often what is there is what is the problem. I’ll … Continue reading “There’s no ‘no’ in reality. ‘No’ can be masked.”

What is the connection between respect and appreciation?

What is the connection between respect and appreciation? Both respect and appreciation are spiritual capacities… states of being.I am having a lot of insights lately. Of course, it was predictable: I am running an experimental workshop: it is driving up the questions.When you have questions, relevant questions, you are going to get insights. You ask … Continue reading “What is the connection between respect and appreciation?”

Read this article if you plan to remain a client

A spiritual practice like no other… Are you doing it?What makes the ‘Stranger than Fiction‘ type of narration work like gangbusters to get you out of your head?To my surprise not many people take advantage of the opportunity to watch a good movie and steal a habit that can be called a spiritual practice.Steal a … Continue reading “Read this article if you plan to remain a client”