Want to model after the success of Alex Hormozi?

What do you use to win? To encourage you to not quit? to stay in the game?In a private conversation, when I asked her to pick to model someone who has done what she hopes to do, a client picked Alex Hormozi… one of my favorite people on the planet.His story is, on one hand, … Continue reading “Want to model after the success of Alex Hormozi?”

Inner authority? What does it mean really?

I define someone who has that, Inner Authority, is this: they don’t need an outside force to entice them or to threaten them with some kind of punishment or doom to do what they have to do to get things done.So, the year was 1987, and it was the end of an 8-year run of … Continue reading “Inner authority? What does it mean really?”

What makes you who you are today?

The obvious answers are that it is your past that makes you who you are. What happened to you. What was your education, your upbringing, your genes, your environment.And all that seems to make you who you are today, and if you are anything like the people I deal with, day in and day out, … Continue reading “What makes you who you are today?”

30-day challenge ideas… or why did I have brain fog yesterday?

I had a free Talk-to-me-webinar yesterday.For the first time in many months I was foggy, I was not in my top form… I couldn’t remember words, I wasn’t funny at all.What happened, you ask? Simple, I violated one of the fundamental “rules” that life sets up: you are best if you have a system for … Continue reading “30-day challenge ideas… or why did I have brain fog yesterday?”

Everything you ever wanted is available to you, if…

Everything you ever wanted is available to you, if…… if you are willing to look and see what is so about you and your life.The truth. Naked. Ugly. Often shameful.Here is a correspondence I had with a client today:She said: “I’m interested in changing my context since it’s part of what keeps me stuck.”“… answering … Continue reading “Everything you ever wanted is available to you, if…”

Are you using your adult capacities?

The first Osho book I have ever read, was Maturity. I started to read it in the store, and fell in love with it.It echoed one of my favorite Landmark Education courses, the Wisdom Course.In that course, maturity was a state (they call it possibility, just a Landmark Education word!): where you were using adult … Continue reading “Are you using your adult capacities?”

Want to be happy? here are the steps

Happiness is a function of accepting what is. Life is like this weird rose… doesn’t look the way it should… orderly, smooth, safe, winning, beautiful, etc… Hard to accept, hard to even tolerate… Right?What is accepting what is?Accepting is saying yes to. You could also say: when you are accepting something, you give it permission … Continue reading “Want to be happy? here are the steps”