Authenticity is a matter of integrity on the highest level

lying-is-comfortableTrying to act like a Buddha won’t make you a Buddha.

I just finished a webinar… Before the webinar one of my students wrote an email to me wondering why I don’t lie to them before and during a webinar. Why I don’t say that it is going to be easy. That it is going to be piece of cake.

But it had taken me quite a bit of time and effort to learn that trying to act like a Buddha won’t make me a Buddha.

The vulnerability that honesty requires isn’t something everybody can handle. So lying allows people to be comfortable. Continue reading “Authenticity is a matter of integrity on the highest level”

How true is your truth? Have theory induced blindness?

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How true is your truth? Do you or your teachers have theory induced blindness? the world is still flat as far as human behavior is concerned…

This article is about the inner workings of a human… that if you get it wrong, the price you pay for the error is your life.

Is a human like a faucet assembly? When it drips you have to replace the whole thing?

Continue reading “How true is your truth? Have theory induced blindness?”

How the Canadian Government controls its people

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For years I have been pondering what the Canadian government does that makes its constituency so miserable and feel so superior at the same time.

Today a little corner of the mystery lifted.

A client of mine, “Finish What You Start” soul correction, has written me a long message describing his feelings and his behavior of being taken off task, off focus by idle curiosity, sensation and excitement seeking, while he would like to be focused, calm, well… and among others: sleep well.

I recommended that he takes Lithium Orotate, an inexpensive mineral supplement, that has worked miracles with my clients who had a difficulty staying focused, staying on target, getting to sleep on time, and getting enough restful sleep. Continue reading “How the Canadian Government controls its people”

Who and how Perpetuate The Culture Of Abuse?

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the culture of abuse Who Perpetuates The Culture Of Abuse, The Culture Of Measuring Man And Woman’s Rights Differently? The Men Or The Women Of A Culture?

This is a controversial article. it will offend people. Rattle their. traditions. But unless someone speaks, nothing will change. I am taking on the risk to be that someone… When I see something, I can’t just step over it… OK, kill me now… lol

WTF are you talking about Sophie: of course it is the men! If women ran the world there would be peace… There would be love. There would be trust…

Wrong… please think again. Look again

Continue reading “Who and how Perpetuate The Culture Of Abuse?”

The less capacities you have, the less new will open up

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Shortage-of-womenThe less spiritual capacities you have now, the less likely that new ones are willing to open up.

Especially if the new capacities would alter your being and behavior dramatically.

If you are a woman, you probably have fewer capacities than men, because in most cultures women are an appendage to a man. even the Bible relegate a woman to companion status. not a full person.

According to Kabbalah women are the vessel, and men are the channel for the Light.

The vessel is all about receiving, and the channel is all about giving. Continue reading “The less capacities you have, the less new will open up”

Why is humanity going backwards? What is to blame?

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If LIFE wants more life, then Life and our DNA has a built in capacity, in the DNA, to see the big picture, both for ourselves, personally, for our families or offspring, and for the human race.

The direction this DNA is pointing is a society much like the Declaration of Independence declared: equal rights. Not equal results, but equal rights. Continue reading “Why is humanity going backwards? What is to blame?”

My Thanksgiving Gift to women. Why them? Read on…

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cattyI was watching, a TV series on Netflix. My preferred genre is crime and crime fighting. This series is called White Collar. The main character is a charming, charismatic, good looking, intelligent young man.

After seeing almost three whole seasons’ worth, I looked up the cast on google. Found out that our guy is gay. I was surprised because I didn’t see any signs of gayness, which are, typically (my personal experience) being attention seeking, catty, gossipy, disloyal, etc. Continue reading “My Thanksgiving Gift to women. Why them? Read on…”

Why do women, why do mothers, hold men back?

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Why do women, why do mothers, hold you back under the guise of protecting you?

I always ponder why things are the way they are.

I ask why more than once, more than three times… I ask and look.

One question that makes me ask why a lot nowadays, why is it that certain cultures have most children live their lives in mother-child, and why do others let the child live, where they should move to, to become independent, in father-child.

I have a theory, and like any theory it needs to be tested and tested again.

This theory is this: Continue reading “Why do women, why do mothers, hold men back?”

How to shift your baseline upwards… for a better life

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Shifting baseline syndrome… bullying, low performance, judgmentalness, IQ…

I wrote about that yesterday. But today I want to write about the shifting baseline in the other direction. The direction we’d all like to shift our baseline. towards love, peace, harmony, togetherness, joy, and maybe even productivity.

Of course in a pull-popping, superfood guzzling world we all want instant.

There are a few examples for an instant shift that lasts… Continue reading “How to shift your baseline upwards… for a better life”

Shifting baseline, or how I prepare for my side-hustle gig?

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I am mentally and physically preparing for my coaching call tonight. I have watched some 15 videos, researched what others had to say…

I still feel unprepared to talk to a coach. By the way, it is clear to me that you don’t know what coaching is, or you wouldn’t be where you are at.

And it’s not personal.

The coach, so far spent ten minutes on a video to make me promise I’ll show up. The cost of not showing up. I have received three emails and two texts. That tells me many people don’t make the call.

What the coach hasn’t said so far is that only someone in action can be coached. Continue reading “Shifting baseline, or how I prepare for my side-hustle gig?”