Become all you can become with Sophie
He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
a sudden shift of your worldview
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One of the transformational moves I use with my students is ‘flipping the context.’
Context is decisive, and the context inside which you live your life is what makes your life great or horrible… not what happens to you. Continue reading “You can flip the context of anything… and change your life”
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This post is a summary of the presentation of Frank Kern about Core Influence.
This is really powerful EXERCISE for everyone. It will definitely change the way of you relate to yourself and your life.
What is your Core Influence?When you interface with “your crowd” core to core… heart to heart, and this is what you want them to do… interface with you heart to heart… If you do that they will do almost anything.
How to make lots of people do almost anything Continue reading “The core influence exercise of Frank Kern”
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I have written in a previous post that I discovered that my hidden identity is ‘worthless piece of junk = unwanted’. I use the word junk, because this expression is a translation from my native Hungarian. In the original the expression is closer to ‘nothing’ than anything, by the way. But in English, I am afraid, that won’t communicate. ‘I am nothing’, does it communicate? It doesn’t seem to have the same emotional impact on me…
From time to time I notice it ‘informing my mood, informing my actions.’
Continue reading “Your current core identity. Is it serving you well?”
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Consolation vs. Transformation?
This may be the first time you’ll read about anything like this: arm yourself: it won’t be pleasant news.
Most everything that you can get or buy today is consolation. Their function is that you bear being a slave, being a wreck easier. Like Soma in Brave New World.
Continue reading “Consolation vs Transformation, Lobotomy vs Freedom”
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The scenic route of getting some teaching, and making it your own.Making it nurturing, life affirming tree of life knowledge
I want to share a phenomenon, that, hopefully, will get clearer as I am sharing it. At the moment I can only see its visible aspect. I am almost certain it has an invisible aspect as well.
I read about three hours a day. Something that isn’t connected to my work: fiction.
But recently I have taken on a 20-day challenge: listen to 20 episodes of a Hungarian psychologist, Dr. Peter Popper, in his Mesterkurzus (master course) series, an hour long each.
Excellent, fascinating, the dude is both a psychologist, a university professor, a clinician, AND a religion expert… whatever that means. Continue reading “The two hemispheres of the brain and spirituality…”
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Egomind? Well, it is just a name… even though it seems that we do have an ego, and we do have a mind.
So let’s see: neither you can find if you cut a person open.
But if you had a sensitive enough instrument, like a true empath, and if you knew what you are looking for, you would find that there is a very strong energy over the chest in the shape of a triangle sitting on one of its sides. Continue reading “One of the jobs of the Egomind is to resist change”
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Loving is like being pregnant. You can’t be more pregnant than pregnant. Even pregnant with two babies is just that, pregnant.
And, by the same token, you can’t love someone more. You either love them or you don’t.
Pregnant, love, respect, are intrinsic in nature. They also have no opposites, like values on the systemic level of value. An they don’t have a scale…
Life is easiest to navigate, easiest to understand, and easiest to ‘dance with’ if you know that values have three tiers. Each tier with its own rules of engagement. Continue reading “Love. Loving. Can you love more? Less? Can anyone?”
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I had a birthday conversation with my big brother yesterday.
I love my big brother. He is two years older than me, and until I was six years old we slept in the same bedroom, and we were the best of friends, even though he occasionally tortured me…
I have two brothers. I never developed a relationship with my younger brother, even though for three years he did work for me, and yet. Continue reading “Can humanity be saved? Saved from itself… Let’s look”
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Whether you know it or not, your relationship to life is stiff, inflexible, and therefore ineffective.
You look at things, always, from the same exact perspective, and therefore you see, always, the same old, same old life: good or bad, the same. Continue reading “Transformational methods to get you unstuck”
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Pathways To GratitudeAcknowledging source is a great way to get to gratitude… And ‘they’ say that Gratitude Is The Activator Of The Law Of Attraction, or what I’d prefer to call it: receiving for the sake of sharing.
The purpose of this article is to introduce to you another way to access and activate receiving for the sake of sharing. Receiving respect, energy, love, anything. Continue reading “Pathways To Gratitude… Why is the dog laughing?!”
