Become all you can become with Sophie
He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
a sudden shift of your worldview
If I asked you how you knew your god loved you… you would say because your god gave you an easy life. And I would know everything anyone needs to know about you: you are worthless. You value having higher than earning.
Charlie Munger says: to get what you want, you need to deserve what you want.
That sounds really good, but the truth value of that statement is just 10%… 90% of the whole truth is missing. Continue reading “The empty pantry and the master chef… can he win?”
Everyone talks about stuff… using big words, like transformation, but no one actually knows what the word means, and what do people actually do, or promise to do, who cause transformation.
If you really look, you can talk for half an hour, and you won’t even get near to it… Continue reading “What is transformation? Is it so important to know exactly?”
Explained: That is the name of one of my favorite shows on Netflix.
Continue reading “Explained… the only path to happiness is…”
My job is a lot like tuning a car… but a car that has 160 adjustable parts… like a human… not that easy…
I love the joke about the guy who brings his car to the mechanic because it doesn’t work properly. The mechanic opens the hood, listens to the motor running, goes to his toolbox, picks out a big hammer and hits the motor, and voila the noise stops. Continue reading “What keeps your foot nailed to the floor? Can you guess?”
What would happen if they passed a law that no one can take money until the buyer says he/she has used and is satisfied with their purchase… because the product or program delivered on its promises?
Judging from many testimonials, the majority of buyers leave their testimonial before they test or consume what they paid for. They like the packaging, the color of the stuff… or the accent of the coach… so they are happy. With what? one might ask…
I wonder how much these people value themselves and their money… My guess is: not much. Continue reading “Do you want to be a hero or will you settle for being a dutiful serf?”
In search of quick transformation…This is a long article, first showing what doesn’t work, why, and then it takes you to what does…
One of the things about humans is arrogance.
Arrogance is not what you think it is… arrogance is really an attitude where you assume superiority where you have none…
Which is, in an ordered universe… EVERYWHERE. Continue reading “A life you love. Built at any age… with some simple rules”
Why would you think that someone will judge you? Simple… you have already judged yourself.
But why would you? Not everyone judge themselves. I, for example, don’t… or not often at all. I often assess myself, my behavior, my looks, my stuff… but assessment does not carry condemnation in it, and it doesn’t carry praise in it either.
What is the difference between judgment and assessment 1 ?
The main difference is fixed mindset.
So a high fixed mindset plus arrogance, superiority, plus high desire/low ambition numbers.
I have found that people with this combination are unable, unwilling, or resistant to do the work of the Playground. Continue reading “I don’t want to be judged! you cry. But YOU judge everything and everyone…”
What is a Dark Side event? Hard to know… but it is a lot like a locust swarm event… 2 you see the aftermath, the people’s vibration dropping, bad behaviors that were already forgotten are revived, the water losing its coherence, inside you and outside you.
My own experience is quite dramatic: hurry has crept back… anger, anxiety, wallowing, and the water.
What is it about hurry that is harmful? All of it. Continue reading “Dark side attack, hurry, and how choosing can save the day”
Update: if you think you don’t retain or sustain a new mindset, chances are, you never internalized it, so there is nothing to retain or sustain. Same with transformation.
Before we can talk about retaining: first you have to have it… you cannot lose what you never had. Thinking you had it is not the same as having it.
Thinking about flying isn’t… Continue reading “Why are you not able to sustain a new mindset?”
Let’s talk about identification a little more… the identification that gives you the illusion that you are a person, but in fact it what is standing between you and becoming a person.
So what is a person? A person is someone who has a consciousness, a Self, that guides their actions, their relationship to life. When you ask: who is he? show is she? what comes up is not what they do for a living, what awards they won, how well or poorly they do their job… but something deeper and constant… They are that everywhere, on the job, in the public, in the bedroom… everywhere.
If you identify yourself with stuff on the periphery of your being, on the horizontal plane, what you say about yourself, what you want people to know is that you have won an Emmy, three time…
Or that you have had HIV for twenty years going
Or that you are gay
Or that you are black
And alas, it leaves you with no Self. The stuff you identify with has no consciousness, and have no defining power on your character.
Continue reading “What is the difference between persona and Self?”
