Become all you can become with Sophie
He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
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The culture… it is invisible.Our culture is also the culture of shortcuts. The culture of quick. The culture of wanting instant. And, of course, the culture of wanting.
What feeds this is the culture of scarcity. We live in the culture of scarcity.
A person needs to see, needs to say that something is not enough. And then they act to fix it. Continue reading “The culture of scarcity chasing abundance…”
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I understand what you are saying. I hear what you are saying, I see, I get it. Which one do you say?
When you tell someone something, depending on many factors, you are going to get answers that belie their relationship (attitude?) to what you told them. Continue reading “I understand what you are saying… I hear, I see, I get it”
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‘Knowledge is only rumor until it is in the muscle‘ ~ New Guinea Proverb
‘A recurrent emotional state always appears together with the attitude of the body…‘ ~ Moshe Feldenkrais
‘If I could say it I wouldn’t have to dance it.‘ ~ Isadora Duncan
Juno a beluga whale that loves scaring people
by u/m3nation007 in funny
A few years ago a dude paid me to measure his vibration. Then he went and shared it publicly on a big website, something like light warriors, I don’t remember. Or starseed something.
I read just now that considering one a starseed, a cross between an alien and a human is fueled with radical individualism. whatever that means.
On my website, in this reality based work we call that the delusion of being special. Being special beyond being an unrepeatable human…
That is the ‘angle’ of wanting to be special…
While very rich…
…instead of just wanting to be special for no reason.
So when Jeff Bezos, founder of Amazon.com asked what new things will come, he answered that instead of the new things which are not predictable, he recommended focusing and putting energy into what won’t change. People will want fast shipping, larger selection, good customer service, he said, and that way of thinking made him a billionaire many times over.
But for that you need to look outside, beyond yourself…
I have found that looking, thinking outside of yourself is the hardest thing for today’s human. And when they occasionally do, because I ask them, or they are in some challenge, they come back and are thrilled. It was an event. An incident.
But why? If it allows for peace, quiet, and harmony… If it allows for peace of mind, generosity, real contribution… then why?
When you watch the white beluga clip, you’ll see that each child reacts slightly differently. How do you know? Because their body reaction, body movements give away what their emotional reaction is.
And you don’t know that, but I’ll tell you:
The emotional state I call your ‘home page’ because that incident puts in motion a ‘machine’ or machine-like dynamic that is going to repeat that scenario: reaction to something… doing whatever you did in the first incident… and then you get to the home page conclusion.
A cycle of that machine.
Mine starts with surprise. Confusion. Then I scramble. Overwhelm. And end up devastated. Discarded. Worthless. That is where I end up. Devastated. Discarded. Worthless.
Not a good script. I am currently in the confusion phase… just beginning the scramble phase.
Why? Inside the systemic value system you are either excellent or horrible. Valuable or worthless. Valued or discarded.
And we are all born with a systemic judgment capability only. The additional dimensions are added later… if ever.
And have come to the conclusion that the more you have been able to be in the higher value system, the more dimensions things, people, events are perceived by you the higher your chances for success.
What do I call success? Whatever YOU call success. I don’t have a measure for that. you get to say.
If you want money as the measure of success? Then success means money, and that is what I measure. If it is fulfillment, or love, or health. then that is what I measure. I don’t even have to know. Source knows.
Five of the eleven haven’t even peeked outside of the systemic. They live inside the right/wrong paradigm. No success is possible there.
The rest are between 10% and 70%.
Only when you have experienced, not as an event, but as a different world, the world with more dimensions than two, are you going to go for giving any heed, any attention, any importance to the other.
The way to come out of that deeeeeeeeeeeeep ditch, the ditch of the binary, is to make frequent efforts to give a hoot about how others feel. Darn. lol
The capacity to do that is The Sight, and specifically the Driftwood, which is an aspect of The Sight.
Obviously the client who did the most work with that capacity is the one with the 70% score.
The light warriors, the starseed are all stuck in the binary, if you have been wondering. It’s all about them. Maybe some of them are exceptions, but only a very few.
Now, back to the white beluga video: Pay attention to the body of the children. The head, the neck, the shoulders…
Experiment with your own. And watch as the predictable emotion arises. and if you are not careful, the machine runs a full cycle, and you’ll end up on your home page.
The emotion. The worthlessness. Hopelessness. Resignation.
Please comment below or send me in email what was your LAST emotion. your home page. I’ll muscletest for you if you followed instruction or not.
Meanwhile, tomorrow, Saturday July 29 at 5 pm my time we’ll have a workshop to experiment if you can move your body in different ways to get different emotions…
It is a worthwhile learning. Why? Because if you can get that your emotions are embedded in body positions, then you can always do a reset. an intentional state change, and free yourself from that pesky trigger for your machine.
Wouldn’t it be worth for you?
If you have been always ending at worthless. beating yourself up. giving up on yourself. You wouldn’t have to. You would be able to continue with your projects, and build a life you love.
Yeah.
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Many times it is near impossible to get what words mean…
Luckily I have learned other languages. With some of them have a deeper knowledge than just being able to use them, so I can use them to see in their etymology.
In fact, this article got triggered by a word, a concept, a distinction that is not clear to most people, and it wasn’t for me. Contentment. Continue reading “What does the word content or contentment mean?”
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I HATE non-fiction. Even in audio, listening to it. I hate being when someone lectures me. It makes my brain stop working.
And no matter what the book or course is teaching, I cannot tune in. Even when it is important to me. Why? I cannot feel that I matter to the speaker. And I need to feel that I matter or I switch off.
Whereas when I read novels, it feels like an honor and a privilege to get an over the shoulder private view of what’s happening. And what is happening, at least in the novels I read, is interesting to me. Because I am interested in people, interested in the world.
But not that interested in what non-fiction writers want to teach. They don’t manage to make me want to read it, even when I know I need what they teach. Or that what they teach would benefit me. Continue reading “What if it is really a 3-year old who is doing your life?”
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What is your complaint? What is your problem?
In this article having a problem, repeatedly, we’ll call it ‘eating sh!t’… even though it sounds crude… it is, I say, what is happening.
Why would you have that problem? That complaint? Continue reading “How to not end up eating sh!t in life, like you have been”
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OK, Sophie, but what is the bottle you are in? And what is the label?
Most everything that is about you is the bottle and most everything that would clue you in why you are stuck, why you don’t feel well, why your life works the way it works is the label.
To read the label, you need get outside of the bottle… while you are also in it.
I call it bilocation… but not in the physical or esoteric sense…
I mean it in the intellectual sense. Continue reading “It is hard to read the label when you are inside the bottle.”
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If you want to become more, grow, evolve, self awareness is important. But it is not enough. Meditation is not enough. Having a person to model yourself after is not enough. Reading is not enough. Understanding is not enough.
Something is missing, the presence of which would make the most difference, and could take you through the barrier to full knowledge of your machine.
What machine, you ask? Continue reading “Self awareness is not enough. Understanding is not enough.”
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Some shoulds are imposed by other people, government, etc.
Other shoulds are self-imposed.
I am Johnny-come-lately in that I couldn’t, didn’t see any shoulds, but now I’ve caught a few yesterday, and I caught a few today.
Continue reading “Some shoulds are imposed by other people, government, etc.”
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You can’t catch what you can’t see. And to recognize: you first need to catch it to see it.
And if you can’t see what is at the root of a problem, you can’t help the client with it.
It is 100% in the invisible. They themselves don’t know it. And even when they see it, unless they have the distinction (i.e. recognize it for what it is), it is as good as if they have never seen it.
Recognition and distinction go hand in hand. Distinction is not a name, not a word, not even a sentence. It is a phenomenon. Continue reading “You can’t catch what you can’t see AND recognize”
