Become all you can become with Sophie
He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
There are tons of coaches, coaching companies, transformational coaches, etc.
Bloggers teaching you tools of success, tools of happiness, etc.
Tons of books… courses… programs.
I have known for a long time that when people followed what was taught they would end up unhappier than they were before. I have tested it, observed it, and have pondered it. Continue reading “No coach has helped you to become happier”
When you live on the 14th-15th floors of your being, the ground of your being comes from there too.
Let’s first look what is the ground of your being, the floor on which everything is built that is compatible with that floor.
On the 13th floor the ruler is Life. Nature. The Universe. No interpretation. Life, nature, the universe gives you your actions, your attitudes, your interpretation of events.
Virtues live on the 13th floor, because virtues are a Yes to life. Anything gets evaluated by that question: is it a Yes to life or a no to life.
Is it part of the flow, or is it a blockage to the flow. Blockages need to go. Attitudes, needs, wants, habits, activities that are a no to life, that don’t fit the flow of life, Nature, the Universe, must go, because it is evil. Against life. Continue reading “The ground of your being comes from where you live”
Without understanding how your body works, you’ll remain NOT SO WELL
Your body is like a factory,
Your doctors are mostly trained to give you tools to fix what is already visibly wrong with your body. Continue reading “Why you don’t heal fast? Why do you get sick?”
I had a “Talk to Me webinar” yesterday. I have it every month, on the last Wednesday of the month.
This type of webinar is question and answer. I have no agenda. I learn more from unstructured conversations than from lecturing. Or running a workshop. I learn how to teach you, what to deal with, what are the real issues.
One of the numbers in your Starting Point Measurements, that people most really painful is your vocabulary number.
Why would someone’s vocabulary be so low if they are educated, well read, etc.?
The answer is: because of mind viruses.
The mind virus doesn’t want you to be clear. Astute. The mind virus wants you to be sheep: miserable, crowd the churches, the “spiritual healers'” offices. Vote for morons who use big words they themselves don’t understand.
The main tools the mind viruses use are confusion and imprecision.
Result: the feelings are suppressed, the emotions are made louder. Continue reading “How the 14th floor opens you up for mind viruses”
From time to time a student or client confides in me that they resent being told what to do.
I find that really funny, especially when they paid me well for telling them what to do.
But such is human nature… or is that human nature?
This question is what this article is about. How do you know it is you and not some addon making your decisions for you? Continue reading “Who and what is making your decisions, your attitude, your behavior?”
I had the most interesting and unexpected thing happen to me this morning.
Some Hungarian sounding person signed up to my next Feelings webinar on Sunday at noon, so I checked. Yes, she is a Hungarian woman living in Hungary. Hungarians are not known for their language skills…
I sent a personal email welcoming her, and suggesting that she read the books the webinar is based upon, the Feelings and the Words books by another Hungarian, Margoczi. Érzések
I signed the email with my original Hungarian name.
A minute or two after that email, I felt a very strong weeping emotion… muscletested and it came from this Hungarian woman.
And then I started to talk to her, in my head, Hungarian. And I said “stupid” 1 in Hungarian, the word that signifies slowness, and lack of ability.
And I experienced a strong non-physical pain. Continue reading “You can’t have a Self until you stop… stop what? Sophie”
It’s Tuesday, and my Rob Brezsny horoscope arrived this morning.
It addressed something I wanted to address, because it is important: treating yourself well by providing yourself with what you need to be well, to do well, to feel well.
You treat your pets better than yourself.
If you were only judgmental and stingy with others, that would be one thing. But you are stingy with yourself.
You judge yourself harshly, you treat yourself badly, and you skimp on yourself first.
Consider yourself your own child, or your own pet? And your relationship, your treatment of it public.
A lot of people, in private, abuse with impunity, but would not dare do the same in public, or when someone can see it. They fear judgment. Continue reading “Is happiness even possible? Is self-hate, self-punishing a good path to it?”
There is a very interesting phenomenon and I just experienced it full blast.
This is how it goes: I write something. I think I know what i am saying. but hours later it hits me… wow.
So I wrote in my previous article, this morning, that all pain and suffering you experience is experiencing your own resistance… resistance coming from the 14th floor words: “This should not be…”
So, consequently all non-physical pain comes from your resistance to feedback.
OK… I said more or less this… but how true and how general it is just hit me.
Here I am sitting by my computer, wondering when the mailman will arrive today. I have something outgoing…
Continue reading “The non-physical pain of being devalued…”
Note: this is an important article… please read. It summarizes a lot of what is not working about you… and what you can do about it.
I really enjoy the work on people’s hydration.
I love seeing how they get things done (or not) and it is a source of a lot of amusement. Continue reading “The size of your foundation, your astuteness, capacities”
