Become all you can become with Sophie
He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
I have been running an experiment on the title of this post. So far it is an utter fiasco… No one wants to read it… even though it’s, maybe, the key to the kindom for you.
My mail box had a bunch of coaching requests and the Monday Morning memo.
All the coaching requests were in sync: all the coaching stuff was about letting go… about making room for the new… the new you claim to want…
Continue reading “Want to learn something new? Interesting? Useful? Nah, you already know everything!”
This is a bold statement. After all there are not many queens.
Maybe you say: oh, I am an actress, I can behave like a queen.
But behavior is not being. Being is through and through.
I watched the BBC series, “The Crown” a few months ago. I loved it.
My favorite scene was where the Queen Mother spends some rest and recreation time on a stormy seaside place in Scotland as a guest of a couple. They visit with a castle owner there, and the Queen Mother is interested in buying the castle.
The gentleman doesn’t recognize the Queen Mother, who used to be queen. She doesn’t enlighten him.
A few days later, when a messenger meets up with them on the shore, he realizes who he was dealing with.
The person to watch is the Queen Mother. Not a muscle in her face moved.
Continue reading “If you don’t know how to be a queen, you don’t know how to be. Anything.”
I just had one of the most productive Sunday Rant call 1 ever… and I just finished the third book in the Freak series, Think Like a Freak.
Because it is about thinking, and because it is about frames it is right up our alley at this point in time. Continue reading “Why your brain doesn’t make you a winner… Or is your brain to blame?”
No sense of humor? You just answered the question in the title..
What does it mean about you what you know and what you don’t know? or how much you know…
It means nothing about you. And yet we all pretend to know stuff… stuff we don’t know. Stuff we can’t know.
It is, to me, the most counter intuitive behavior, but I must be a freak, because I would never pretend to know something I don’t know.
There must be a mistaken belief that if you know something you are better. Smarter.
This is one of the detrimental results of living on the Tree of Knowledge, where you don’t enjoy life, where you don’t experience fulfillment, love, happiness, because it is impossible to experience on the Tree of Knowledge. Continue reading “Are you a person or are you a role? Are you a person or ego?”
We had a fabulous session in the From Upset To Communication course yesterday.
One of the things a good course leader does regularly, is ask people the question what they are up to.
What are you up to? What is the purpose that makes it worth for you doing this course?
The purpose of communication is to make something happen through other people: more love, more money, more prestige, peace, sell more, make an agreement… the something is not defined. Lots of things. Continue reading “A life worth living… But what is a life worth living?”
The world has never been so divided.
The dividing criteria is intellectual and spiritual abilities, the ability to tell truth from falsehood. To interact with reality the way reality is… not how it should be.
The stupid is becoming stupider, and the smart remains the same. Said in another way: the underachiever is stuck there… and more are joining him. 2
In this article I’ll look what may be a linchpin issue, and how you can start moving from the hopelessly stupid to the smart camp.
Continue reading “What keeps you from what you want? Can you change it?”
There is an arc to this article… I arrive to the answer after a journey to it, in the second half…
What is the reason that some people learn and grow, while others stagnate?
I read an interesting sentence in an old marketing book:
“Generally we don’t decide we want to get married and then pick the person who seems to be the most desperate to get married and propose to them.”
In that document, TheMissingChapter, the author talks about selecting a business to pursue, but what he says applies to any aspect of life.
Desperation is a very poor advisor, it makes you incoherent.
The worst mistake a service provider can make is cater to desperate people.
Continue reading “How Queen Elizabeth can teach you a lot about life, and how to live it successfully”
Wrestling back the steering wheel of your life from ADD, frustration, depression, anger, and more
“It is not what you do for your children, but what you have taught them to do for themselves that will make them successful human beings.”
Of all the 10 starting point measurements, the most telling is your TLB score.
It tells me, and it tells you, how much discomfort you are able to experience and not run away mentally, emotionally, or physically. And therefore it tells you whether you can have the good life, health, wealth, love and fulfillment… or not.
Its activating mechanism is below your conscious awareness, and is quite habitual.
In modern parlance they call it “Attention Deficit”… but it’s B.S.
As long as there is no structural difference between an ADD person’s brain and a person who can stay planted… attentive, it is more a habit than a disease. Continue reading “Wrestling back the steering wheel of your life from…”
Why? Because the majority is always wrong.
In most cases majority/minority is an extreme proportional inequality: 98-99% to 1~2%
The other extreme is: 90% to 10%, meaning: the “good, productive, true” is never higher than 10%.
There was an Italian economist and sociologist Vilfredo Pareto (1848–1923) who noticed this pattern: that the distribution of income, brain, etc. is not even, not equal, but grossly unequal.
They call this the Pareto’s Principle or the 80-20 principle, but if you are a stickler for precision, like I am, you will know that my numbers are closer to how it is than 80-20. Continue reading “The more popular something is, the more likely that it is low vibration, and not true.”
It is said that there are only three types of people. (The illustrations I use in this article reveal more patterns, so pay attention, please)
This is so because of the three different ways to see patterns.
Continue reading “How well do you recognize patterns? How many?”
