Become all you can become by raising yourself higher on the Tree of Life

What is spirituality? the spiritual dimension of reality?

I had a lovely person yesterday on my strategy call. The call was fun with a lot of real laughter, until the topic of spirituality came up. Then it became hellishly painful.

The issue is: what is spirituality? How you view spirituality will have a lot (maybe everything!) to do with everything you do in life, and ultimately will determine to what degree you’ll become all you can become.

Free to be yourself.
Free to pursue what excites you.
And Free to be WITH people.
Ultimately what is available to you in life will depend an awful lot on how you view spirituality.

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Like a White Peacock. do things for the love of doing things

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I love reading. My favorite books tear down the proverbial curtain of the Wizard of Oz.

And my favorite activities… you could guess, are when I can tear down the curtain… and actually show the naked reality of things…

I find delight in it. Continue reading “Like a White Peacock. do things for the love of doing things”

What you see will give you your emotions, your actions

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When I find an issue that a student is struggling or not dealing well with, I write an article.

The issue here, I guess, is universal.

It has two parts:

you can’t see the big picture, the forest, for the trees. You are stuck with your ONE interpretation of facts. One of anything is dangerous! You are rigid. You have no imagination. And you have a fixed mindset. You have believed the myth of ‘is’…
you are not good, practiced, skillful at taking advantage of the practices I have taught.

A student of mine has a daughter. The daughter decided to join the swim team. She is 13 years old. The only person who can take her to her swimming is my student. Continue reading “What you see will give you your emotions, your actions”

Four Reasons you won’t grow… if and when you don’t grow

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It should be clear by now that my work is 100% about self-growth, spiritually, mentally, healthwise… in essence: growing as a person…

Grow to what end?

So you can live a life you love and you live it powerfully.

Obviously this is not an easy task.

The following is my experience, my powerful debriefing of why you don’t grow, if and when you don’t grow.

Most of the reasons are readily visible in your starting point measurements and in your health measurements.

But the biggest reason is: Continue reading “Four Reasons you won’t grow… if and when you don’t grow”

Will you allow the learning to change who you are?

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This is NOT a funny article… And actually I struggled mightily writing it… because it talks about something I have never been able to teach… Your beingness.

I am reading a book for the third time in a month. And I will read it again and again until I become who I want to become.

Some people read the words in a book. I read the spirit. I align my whole inside with it… if it is worth it.

And if it is worth it: it won’t happen at the first reading, the second reading, and probably NOT at the third reading either. So I read it until it happens.

The two reasons to read it are:

1. to allow the material to change you, to change who you are…
2. all the other reasons people read for…

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13 Questions That Can Lead YOU To Clarity

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The mind hates uncertainty.

It.drives.itself.nuts to answer a question. Any question. Asked or unasked.

If you paid attention: it is almost always in search mode… trying to answer a question.

That’s why it is so busy. Continue reading “13 Questions That Can Lead YOU To Clarity”

What does your laughter mean? What does your laughter do?

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There are two kinds of laughter. Depending on what predominates, you are a happy person or an unhappy person. You have peace or you have turbulence.

The two kinds of laughs are

derisive laugh = Mocking; jeering.
benevolent laugh: the laughter of recognition

There is always a price. We are looking at laughter by the criterion: who pays the price.
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Life is a system of seesaws, little hinges swing big doors

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What is the real meaning of little hinges swing big doors? What glorious thing can it mean to you and your entrepreneurial aspirations?

Without understanding that life is a collection of interactive systems, without understanding the seesaw principle, without being able to create, manage, and tweak systems. your life will work as it has always worked. just barely… Continue reading “Life is a system of seesaws, little hinges swing big doors”

Why are most self-help books, courses worthless?

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Why are most self-help books, courses worthless?

Worthless other than being boring? lol…

They bore the heck out of me… but that is my problem, I guess.

The reason they are worthless because they talk about what to do, but they never teach about consolidation.

My teacher in creating courses taught that the first session needs to give people a quick big win… so they get excited and stay in the course. Continue reading “Why are most self-help books, courses worthless?”

Just ask “What is it I don’t know? What is it I don’t see?”

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You can follow me down the rabbit hole. You can do it… The only question is: will you think it worth your while?

I know I have said it before, lots of times, but I will say it again, but slightly differently this time. So bear with me: the reward will be unbelievable!

When something isn’t working, there is something you don’t know.

Said in another way:

When something isn’t working (the way you expected it to work), you can be sure that there is something you don’t know or can’t see.

Unfortunately to you, when you hear this sentence, you will never think about your mindset. You’ll never think that your thinking is wrong. That your life philosophy is wrong. Continue reading “Just ask “What is it I don’t know? What is it I don’t see?””