Become all you can become with Sophie
He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
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Zen: Chop wood, carry water. An outcome independent series of actions. Outcome independence .
Western Culture: What is your why? Create big audacious goals, take bold actions…
One is outcome independent with an overarching goal of inner peace. Not now, not at this moment, but for life.
The other is outcome dependent, judging every step for the result it produced or not, resulting in misery. Continue reading “Want to grow? Master outcome independence!”
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Before I buy something, a new tool, a nonfiction book, I muscletest if I should buy it.
In essence I ask Source a yes/no question. Shall I buy it?
I get a no answer more often than a yes. And then I ask some clarifying questions, one of them is: is it too advanced for me? More often than not the answer is yes.
Unless I have mastered, literally mastered the basics in that specific topic or discipline, Source will recommend that I don’t buy that course, tool, or book. Continue reading “Are you trying to learn PhD level without having done kindergarten?”
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Sometimes I get up in the morning and then do maintenance stuff on my computer, of play Freecell, because there is nothing that is pressing me to write about.
As soon as I look at myself playing Freecell that it is a process I trust to bring up topics I could write about, within a game, 3-4 minutes, a whole topic emerges.
It was there, it just needed to be called.
Last Saturday I had a tech teacher of mine on my 3-wishes workshop. I invited him, I comped him in, and he came.
I treated him special, and he got to see something about himself that he can now deal with. He saw that his fixed way of being with nearly anything is that he is resentful… while he could be grateful. Continue reading “How you look at a thing makes all the difference”
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What makes you should on yourself and others? The ‘should racket’, the invisible dynamic: you assume there is agreement, that things should be in a certain way
Joke: Why do violinists put a handkerchief between the violin and their shoulder? So they don’t violin on themselves…
Not many people play the violin, but we all should on ourselves. some more, some less.
I should already know it, I should already do it well
Some people can’t learn… and therefore they are stuck. We could even say: most people.
Let me ask Source how many. 70% of humanity has the affliction, the disease of the mind I highlight in the title of this article, I should already know it, I should already… [fill in the blanks]
Shoulding effectively prevents you from learning, let alone mastering anything. You are afraid to do anything in public, for fear of people finding out that you are not something enough to already be the best. Continue reading “What makes you should on yourself and others?”
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I got an email this morning from a student whose numbers are doing the macarena… up and down.
You can hear the exasperation in her voice… WTF? I am so good. I do the work. I don’t see wrong… so
What. The.F?!
Hear the emotion? Not sober eyes…
What is going on is shown by your emotions… the hissy fits, the yelling, the WTF. Continue reading “Sober eyes… having an inner state like macarena”
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What is up with the ever growing number of sales videos pushing Leptin resistance supplements?
Leptin is sometimes called the satiety hormone.
First guestion to Source: is leptin resistance real? yes, says Source. It is.
Source says that people who never diet, have never dieted, don’t get fat.
The next question: even if they eat the same food that makes us fat? the answer was ‘no’. If they eat the same food as dieters eat, everybody gets fat.
WTF? Continue reading “Ask Source: Leptin Resistance, is it a racket?”
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This starts with a blog post by Jonathan Fields
“The best of the best don’t just do more with what they see, they see more before they do.”
What Jonathan Field doesn’t say in the below article (after my ramblings), because the idea that seeing is a DNA capacity triggered by looking, is not common knowledge. I think so much so, that other than myself and my students, no one considers it.
DNA researchers are solely focusing on health… or illness to be precise. Continue reading “First, learn to see… that is what being astute is about”
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Why you can’t go to the next evolutionary stage? Why you can’t be living your soul’s purpose? Why you can’t raise your vibration? And what you can do about it?
I have mentioned in another post that I am re-reading the book, The Tipping Point. It’s a brilliant book and it talks about something that is very very relevant to the work we are doing here. The work we are attempting to do…
It’s about raising the vibration of humanity, taking humanity, or at least a small group, to the next evolutionary stage.
This article is about what is in the way (the single most important obstacle) and how to go about removing it.
Humans, as a species, are not good. They are an invasive species. Destroying the planet they live on.
This is not a moral judgment. I am do not subscribe to any moral system…
Morality is a human invention. There is no morality in reality, in nature. Morality is invented by rulers and governments, and churches, to keep the hordes at bay, to make them behave in a way that is counter to their nature. Continue reading “Never pick a fight you cannot win… Now what?”
Thinking of life as an iterative game changes how you play it… Life. Positioning yourself for the future carries more weight than ‘winning’ in the moment.
I read that yesterday, and it immediately clicked with me…
Let me explain:
My methodology, my approach to life, to work, to transformation, to everything, is iterative.
Even in architecture: I was attracted to iterative design… the growing house… starting with just a tiny house that was designed with the big house in mind.
I used that approach to raise my vibration from 35 to 991 in 35 years. Continue reading “life is an iterative game. change how you play it”
