Become all you can become with Sophie
He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
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Where does the truth I say come from? Stream of consciousness.
I write the largest chunks of surprising truths that way. Something triggers it, and there it comes. Quick, let me get to the computer!
I read Kathryn’s comment on the Worry article, and something clicked. Continue reading “Filters… or where are you listening from?”
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A student of mine gave me access to a course he bought that teaches psychiatrists to reframe the client’s story so it hurts less, or maybe doesn’t hurt at all.
Reframing sounds really simple: look at what is happening or what happened from a different angle, with different eyes.
The most important element of reframing is to step out of your persona, step out of your ego, step out of who you consider yourself to be. Continue reading “Reframing… take the Precious I out of the picture”
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T Harv Eker talks about the inner game and the outer game. He is the multi-multi-multi-multi-multi-millionaire… as he calls himself, so he teaches money. The secret of the millionaire mind… lol.
Most people who come to my site want more money. And they want to, maybe, change their inner money game, but there is no such thing.
Unfortunately working on what you want to change is an ineffective approach to changing it. Working on a relationship never worked. for example. Continue reading “Should you address directly what you want?”
3 Coaches, Avoiding Confrontation, What’s Your Filter?
I now have three coaches. Three different people, three different styles, three different worldviews. the only thing that is common among them is that they represent a worldview that is the polar opposite to mine.
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As you see, every project for change, for growth needs to start and maybe even stay for some time below the surface. It has to start with the roots.
It’s a worldwide epidemic to expect results inconsistent with the quality of the roots.
A rotted root system cannot bear a healthy tree, whether it is a person, a relationship, a society, or a business… A rotted root system can only produce a rotted tree… It just can’t produce a healthy tree. It cannot. But more important than to note: it won’t. It is true everywhere. It is nature’s law. Continue reading “More Money Course: Part 5: change, grow below the surface”
