Become all you can become with Sophie
He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
Yesterday the raccoons’ turf war began.
The video on the left isDNA from the internet: I cannot see the raccoons fighting in the house… I can only hear them. Frightening. And you need to add the crying of the babies… ugh.
The background: a mother and a daughter raccoon chose the house where I live as their breeding ground. Continue reading “Evolution, overpopulation, Life’s laws vs human laws”
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Being part, belonging is part of the Original Design. It is part of the DNA to belong. To belong to something greater than yourself.
Family, group, society…
And it is a good thing… and yet.
When I look at how it seems to look in reality, I see the opposite. Continue reading “The secret power of We, Us, when not everything is about you”
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As I wrote in yesterday’s article, we is not part of human culture.In my interaction with clients I am starting to distinguish that there are two dimensions of ‘we’, just like there are two dimensions of ‘love’.
We all want to be included, we all want to be loved. That is the one side, the one dimension of either.
The other dimensions is us including, us loving. The level of that, in the current humanity, is 0%. In the 1000, it is 30%. My level is 70%.
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I just finished reading a five thousand page fantasy saga… in five volumes. On the Kindle…
And it was the second this long book by David Estes.
I enjoy reading fiction. But one of the most rewarding things about reading is the ‘Easter Eggs’… hidden treasures…
Most of these treasures are the author’s gifts, but given what I do for a living, my Easter Eggs are the ones I find and probably no one else… maybe not even the author.
If that made no sense, please forgive me…
All I am trying to say is that I find answers to my questions in almost all the books I read. Continue reading “What I learned from a 5000 page fantasy saga…”
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Your vocabulary, the number and the kind of words you use, is a dead giveaway of the level of your spiritual evolution… simply put your vibrational frequency.
If I could not measure your spiritual/consciousness level accurately other ways, I would use your vocabulary number to tell you what is your spiritual vibration, what is your level of consciousness.
How? What? Are you kidding Sophie? Continue reading “The allure of what vs. the how. Scarcity vs abundance”
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How do you think of yourself less?What does that mean? Thinking of others? By becoming a do-gooder?
OK, I am going to clarify something. Something that myself don’t quite know how it works, and why it works that way.
So it may come out incomprehensible, botched up, and useless. But, in my view, it is worth to try…
Note: if you only read one example, make it #5!
OK, the issue: one of the measurements is to what degree your life is about you and your life… the words I use I borrowed from someone else… True humility is not thinking less of yourself; it is thinking of yourself less. and the words are ‘to what degree you think of yourself’… as a measure of humility i.e. how much room you have to learn and grow, how much room you have for the world, for work, for life… for others. Continue reading “How do you think of yourself less? your about-me score”
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Bad news. On my way home, climbing the long stairway off Euclid Avenue, I was listening to Step 21 of the 67 Steps. It’s about the superpower of being able to get into a relationship with people. Get into a relationship because you can see how their machine works. and because you see it, therefore you can speak their language.
Everything comes to you through people… and…
I have been resigned about my ability to get better at dealing with people.
Resigned means: I have a fixed mindset about it, that says: it may be possible for you, but it’s impossible for me. Continue reading “How bad news can be a godsend or how to eliminate neediness?”
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If you were a cabbage… would you allow yourself to be trained to become a cauliflower? Roman Cauliflower… like the picture to the left? What prevents you from that?
You want to be more, know more, but you prevent yourself from it… But how?
But how do you prevent yourself from learning, being trained, getting better, growing as a person? Continue reading “What prevents you from becoming all you can become?”
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Ascension? I mean going to the next level of evolution, to live in the ‘Promised Land’.
I am talking about looking deeper with the intention to see what is cause, what is effect.
It is both a habit, to look only at the surface of things. But what stops one to look deeper? What is that creates the habit of no curiosity, and therefore no interest in looking deeper.
Some cultures have developed the habit to ask ‘why?’ five times… so they get to the root of things. It is, I hear, a Japanese technique… although I don’t think it is taught in school, though maybe it should be. Continue reading “Is ascension an intellectual thing? Spiritual? Physical?”
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The currency of life are capacities and distinctions.The less capacities you have the closer you are to the bottom.
What? The bottom of what?
The bottom of the power pyramid. Where personal power, personal authority is the currency.
Asking what those capacities are, those seven is a little dumb, but just think about it. Continue reading “What if you only have 7 capacities? Or 8… or even 9?”
