Let’s see what Redditors say is a good person?

Here is MY own opinion, before I share what Redditors say…

It is easier to find a ‘good person’ nowadays than a good company. Companies want to tell their users, their customers what they should want… and as I am saying that, I am not an exception either.

My current issue with my blog… that the creators (wordpress) want me to think like them, work like them, whether I want to or not is infuriating. There is no ‘we’. There is me vs all the others… antagonism. OK, rant over… here is what Redditors have to say: Continue reading “Let’s see what Redditors say is a good person?”

A version of confrontation therapy… unkindness

I had the most potent medicine served to me today in the form of two comments on my site. I got served what I regularly serve… unkindness.

I always thought that unkindness is a how… but maybe there is more to it.

Maybe unkindness is speaking, unkindness is doing from what you know.

And if what you know doesn’t agree with what’s in front of you, then you say whatever you say, and it’s unkind. Inconsiderate. Uncaring. Continue reading “A version of confrontation therapy… unkindness”

Like a White Peacock. do things for the love of doing things

side-peacockI love reading. My favorite books tear down the proverbial curtain of the Wizard of Oz.

And my favorite activities… you could guess, are when I can tear down the curtain… and actually show the naked reality of things…

I find delight in it. Continue reading “Like a White Peacock. do things for the love of doing things”

How you keep yourself the same, even when you want to change

I have been doing energy healing, healing with energies for 23 years now.

In the first six years I used man-made energies… What?! Yeah. All energies healers use are man-made. On average they are placebo… or 10% effective. So a client with no faith won’t get healing…

I started the healing regimen of a woman on Monday. Distant healing.

I normally do my healing after I go to bed… It also helps me fall asleep, and healing while naked and on my back is easier on my body.

Except… Continue reading “How you keep yourself the same, even when you want to change”

Four Reasons you won’t grow… if and when you don’t grow

It should be clear by now that my work is 100% about self-growth, spiritually, mentally, healthwise… in essence: growing as a person…

Grow to what end?

So you can live a life you love and you live it powerfully.

Obviously this is not an easy task.

The following is my experience, my powerful debriefing of why you don’t grow, if and when you don’t grow.

Most of the reasons are readily visible in your starting point measurements and in your health measurements.

But the biggest reason is: Continue reading “Four Reasons you won’t grow… if and when you don’t grow”

Will you allow the learning to change who you are?

This is NOT a funny article… And actually I struggled mightily writing it… because it talks about something I have never been able to teach… Your beingness.

I am reading a book for the third time in a month. And I will read it again and again until I become who I want to become.

Some people read the words in a book. I read the spirit. I align my whole inside with it… if it is worth it.

And if it is worth it: it won’t happen at the first reading, the second reading, and probably NOT at the third reading either. So I read it until it happens.

The two reasons to read it are:

  • 1. to allow the material to change you, to change who you are
  • 2. all the other reasons people read for…

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The Self, the spinal wave, intention, will, responsibility

The Unconditional Love Activator is a simple activator. If you can allow it to work on you, it can silence the crew that is protesting. It can silence the ‘Precious I’ who you consider yourself to be, and allow the two selves to connect.

So what happens when you, who you consider yourself to be, and your Self, the core, the empty space connect?

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What is Natural Growth and how to Accomplish it

unnatural growthGrowth feels good… People who grow experience being fully in life, in a dance with life…

Growth feels good… and yet, most of the people I know are either stagnating because they don’t put themselves in a situation where they need to grow, or they put themselves in the courses and seminars and coaching programs to grow, but they don’t grow because …

Well, what comes after that ‘they don’t grow because’ is what this article is about.

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Plugging leaks, building and consolidating habits

I’ve used the 67 step program (by Tai Lopez) to take me to a 360 degree observation of myself, my life, and my leaks.

The 67 steps is 67 audios. They are not something to learn.

It is most useful the way I’ve used it, as a diagnostic tool. Diagnosing your leaks.

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Everyone wants abundance, but what does abundance mean?

I was a pack rat most of my life. It’s not a pretty way to be, not a good match to ‘high vibration’ but it was a fact… I was a pack rat.

I had a really difficult time to throw anything away, be it a box, a plastic bag, a newsletter, a piece of clothing… So my apartment is still filled to the brim with stuff I don’t use, and will never use.

When I want to clean my closets, I learned that my slogan needs to be: have I worn this in the past year? and if not, give it away or throw it away. But it is hard to throw away stuff. I spent good money to buy it.

I have tons of clothes, some expensive. Clothes I’ve never worn. Continue reading “Everyone wants abundance, but what does abundance mean?”